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PostPosted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 12:27 pm 
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I was talking to a 3 Set the other night and they just turned there backs on me! Completely changed my mood for the whole night, I didnt want to talk to anyone so went home early. What can I do to stop this complete mood killer and how should I have reacted?

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PostPosted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 12:34 pm 
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get rejected more until the point where you don't care in the slightest about good reactions or bad reactions and it has little affect on how you view yourself, but more affect on how you view them


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 12:42 pm 
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why did it bring down your mood?? sadly in life rejection happens.
this is a sad but true fact, rejection very rarely has anything to do with you personally, so dont take it personally.

it happens for reason out of your control, they could all have boyfriends , it may be one of them just broke up with theirs so theyre having a boy hating night,

i hate to say this but just walking out and going home is just a way to have a sulk, its like throwing toys out of the pram because you didnt get what you want.

heres a quick way to get out of this mindset go out right now approach 10 girls you dont wanna pick up basically 5s or below and purposefully get yourself blown out do it how ever you want, but purposefully do it, the reason for this is thats the worst thing that could happen to you.

she wont have a go at you she wont scream or shout at you, she will ignore you or say go away.

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dont worry about it i've been blown out more times then a wind sock

some you win some you lose


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Hey bro. One time I got blown out violently by someone I see around school on a regular basis. Do I feel awkward when she's around? No.

I took it as feedback. Thought back and saw what I did wrong and learned to laugh at myself for choding out that day.

Learning to laugh at yourself really helps. :)


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It was your approach if anything not you, and even that it could be factors completely out of your control. You win some and you lose some


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there is a reason why we ejaculate millions of sperm in order to fertilise one egg.

if we just spurted the one sperm it probably wouldn't make it. we have to spurt out millions in order for that one to strike it lucky.

there's a point there somewhere...


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Remember: it was only an INVITATION to feel bad...you didn't have to accept it :P


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 7:57 pm 
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Wow! Thanks for all the feedback guys really appreciate it. I've relised I kept no eye contact and mumbled while I was speaking so thats something to work on. Got 3 Days off work.so 5 Day game Approaches each day should put me back in the zone :)[/youtube]

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I was talking to a 3 Set the other night and they just turned there backs on me! Completely changed my mood for the whole night, I didnt want to talk to anyone so went home early. What can I do to stop this complete mood killer and how should I have reacted?
smile and laugh at them, everything a woman does is funny as hell they are a source of entertainment. At end of day only that set knows they rejected you, the rest of the place did not so smile and laugh and walk away saying good bye and majority of the place wont even realise that you have been rejected, in fact most will probs think you know them.

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