I have an idea. Introduce him to pua stuff, and wing him for a couple nights. After a night or two of helping him game like a pua, that should open him up to your perspective.

I did give him a lot of pointers but he wouldn't listen. He ended up in friendzone with his ex for about 2 years before they were dating for like 6 months. Recently, I told him to make a move on his classmate who has been giving him IOIs left and right. Guess what? He's in friendzone with this girl again.

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Then it just appears to him that I care too much about what he has to say. I rather just leave it there so others can see he's the one being an ass while I'm the calm collective one that doesn't get involve in stupid fights.

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Thanks for all the advice. I will have a final talk with him about his AMOG, if he doesn't change then I will just keep him at bay as a social friend. We have been through a lot together so I didn't want to resort to such extend but I would have to if he keeps poking at me.

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but you do care because you're on this forum asking us for advice...


if you delete his posts the only person will know that you care is your AMOG friend...and so he should...he's your best friend.

Did you tell him just some tips or did you tell him about the whole community and pseudoscience of the game? If he is worth telling, and won't go around telling people about it, its maybe worth telling him so you have a wing!

I was in a similar position a few weeks ago. I have frozen my best mate out as he was being a dick towards me. I had asked him to stop a couple of times, but he didn't and it culminated in me rather losing my cool and just walking out of a social gathering (although at least I didn't get angry or into a shouting match with him or anything, which would have been worse).

Since then, he's apologised briefly, but I'm going to continue freezing him out until I've got him very worried. Then if he comes back and apologises properly, and I'm satisfied that he's bothered enough about the friendship not to be a dick to me anymore, then I'll let him back in. If he doesn't come back and apologise, then he isn't really that bothered about being mates anyway and I'll be better off without him.

I think you're in a similar boat. Tell him you want him to stop acting how he is. If he persists, then freeze him out. Don't make a big show and tell deal out of it, just go do other things, see other friends etc. Then let him make the move, either apologising (and not being a dick anymore), or just letting the 'friendship' go. It's never great to let a friendship go, but at the end of the day, friends aren't supposed to make you feel uncomfortable etc.

he isnt your friend if he acts this way.get a new "best" friend. \ thread

I'm pretty sure you can block your status updates from him. He won't know that you've blocked him. From his side, it will look like you aren't posting very much. If that doesn't work, I'd just unfriend him on fb. Not in real life though. Careful with that, some people these days have a hard time separating fb from the real world.

I've got a mate who does this! So annoying but it's done for banter rather than out of any nastiness and everyone gets the same SPAM. He would laugh at it being on his wall which is whats stopping him from being de-friended. It's always DHV posts that attract AMOG/DLV comments as well which is the worst thing. Someone mentioned just deleting AMOG/DLV comments but by deleting a comment sometimes you can give it credibility or demonstrate insecurity.

Mate seiously, dump your mate. I always leave the people who have a negative influence on me, only keeping around the cool kids who make me a better person. You should do the same. If you called him out on your actions, you told him you didnt like it etc, and he continues, he aint a friend.

I had a couple people like your mate hanging around me in the past too. I stoped hanging out with them, met new friends and now my life is awesome in the friends department.

Still got work to do in the girlsdepartment though ;P

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