Hey guys

Here is the situation, I got invited to this them 18th party (the theme is B.C) this week end.
There is gonna be about 45 to 60 people at the party. The host of the party is kinda attracted to me, but I want to get with one of her friend, I know her friend from school, but I have never actually talked to her at school...
SO I don't really know what to do about that.

And the other problem is that there is gonna be a lot of people and HBs I don't know so what can I do to be the main attraction (entertainment) of the night?

Thanks for your help guys

Tibodep

Ps: My costume is a caveman costume, and I don't know if it's important but there is gonna be a Spa pool.

for the poool u could wear a leopard skin mankini... but you would need to ust act suuuuuper confident in it or it back fires...

But still iud try play these two girls off one another.

find a time when tey can be approached as two set. use the one who likes you to build your value. if you hve any form of attraction established with the other you can now exploit that - as girls are jealous creatures - and go from there. using standard routines.

With the mankini, i persoanlly don't do it, but i know guys who use it and get laid. but they are congruent in their inner game.. thye are one crazy they are always some of the drunkest at the party, and the most sexual with women in their personality.. this does not mean creepy of flirty... they become an object of sexual desire... if you go this path good luck... its one few dare to thread but it is awesome good fun.

Good idea for the mankini but I am not even sure if we will be able to use the spa pool...

The thing about the mankini (I have nothing against it, I would totally wear it if I was back in my country), is that I am in NZ and the teenager here don't really react as same as in my country so I don't want to go back to school on monday, and everyone starring at me...

Yeah I will try to use them as a 2 sets and a wing man will be at the party with me so how could he help me? (he is interested in the girl who is attracted to me...)

Yeh fair enough aboiut the geography difference... yu could tame the mankini and wear it under the caveman outfit perhaps??? dunno you decide there...


wingman stuff... great with him you two should aim to be the apple in every women's eye.the policy is this - everyone should now you in a positive way there... if you know them still greet them make up a set for boy or girls, rmbr you are the party...

im not sure how the wingman should best play it... but i would be cautious you need to work your magic, then as the irl into you feels somewhat dejected cos u are starting your success path with your HB then he can come and relieve you of the other bird and exploit her insecurity of rejection.

tbh the wingman sounds like he has a tough job there... id be careful... if i were him id just go for fresh pickings as it could all backfire unless u two are feeling pro and exploiting emotions.

you already know what you want to do, it's evident in your post, just do it, stop asking questions and start trusting yourself, and if you fuck up, try to understand what happened, and where you could possibly improve, and do better the next time
this is what you want
this is the first problem between you and getting what you want, you have to dis-qualify this problem
really? you know what you want, go get it, dis-qualify the problems that stand in your way, keep your focus on the task at hand
this is not what you want, this is what you think others want, ignore this, focus on your task at hand, this is a distraction from the task at hand, if during that night, your focus shifts and you hooking up with that girl is no longer what you want, so be it, but keep this clutter in your head down to a minimum, one thing at a time, focus on that one thing and give it your best effort

GOOD LUCK

Best advice I can give:

Have fun! It's a party! How? Well if you can't reach your super hot babe, or hook up, go have fun with the guys, tease the girls, do whatever you want to do to have some fun, except breaking stuff, that's just rude offcourse.

By talking to everyone, you might make new friends, have a bigger social circle AND social proof because people see you're social.

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