i started talking to an old friend of mine a few days ago and i'm about to ask her out. how do i make it clear that i only want a night stand? she will say yes if i ask her out

Be honest and up front about your intentions! Of course you don't want to say, I want a one night stand! Just let her know you are not looking for a relationship of any kind, she will respect you for that. Then PROCEED!

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If I tell her that i want to go out with her but i don't want to be in a relationship wouldn't that put me in the friendzone ?

Not likely, if you escalate properly, make it clear in a non verbal way that your intentions are for SEX!

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During the interaction, ask her how her romantic life is going and if she currently has a Romeo.

This is not to find out whether or not she has a boyfriend, but rather for the purpose of getting asked back.

And when she asks you 'what about you? Any Julia?' - you simply tell the truth. You're not looking for anything serious with Julias at the moment because you just want some fun.

Then continue the conversation as normal. She now knows that if anything happens between you - nothing serious is to be expected.

Escalate like you would with any other woman, and if she rejects you:

1. She was never interested.
2. She wanted something serious.

Plant this 'not looking for anything serious' as early as possible in the interaction, to avoid expectation changes in the middle of the date.

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Alright i will try the Romeo thing it looks like it would work. i'll tell you how it goes thanks