I was on a date with the most innocent girl ever. she was a little shy and quiet but was smiling and having a good time with me. and she wants to go on another date.

Me on the other hand I just wanna bang her. So for some reason I have this stupid notion in my head that "she is innocent" and she won't get down like that.

How would you escalate on a seemingly innocent kind of girl. Do you become extra aggressive or do you take it slow.

Help me out fellas.

Next time you take her out, ask her to drop by your house first to stall her car or whatever so you can yours. When she arrives make sure to not be ready to leave yet and ask her if she wants to come in. You can easily tell by then if she's ready to bang or she needs more time.

This is just the short version, but you get catch my drift hopefully

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^ related to your problem, you got this man, you'll be fine, she is a girl, she enjoys sex, being ''innocent'' or not is not a reflection of her sexuality, what she projects in public may be far far different then what she projects in the bedroom, her being shy or reserved is just a sign she is unsure of herself and what to do in the situations she is in, it's highly likely she wants to bang you also or she wouldn't be going on dates with you, would she? if you don't make it happen she will lose interest out of frustration, she won't escalate for you that would make her feel slutty

escalate at your own speed, there are other women out there, if she isn't in the same head space as you are, then you probably aren't meant for each other, just trust that you will be ok, the vast majority of all women will forgive overly hasty advances, but at the same time, the vast majority of women will not forgive a guy pussing out on them and not even trying, that's what the friend zone is for, guys who blew it by not going for it and guys who the girl is not attracted to, you just gotta see this for what it is, if you like her, you have to go for her, no matter what happens you will grow as a result of stepping outside of what you know, you might as well at the very least try to kiss her if you haven't done so already