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PostPosted: Tue Aug 07, 2012 5:43 pm 
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My crush texted me this after i asked her on a date

Im so sorry my friend cant stay with me tonight and I know that it was me who decided the time today but tomorrow I will meet you even if I have to walk around the world I promise!!

What should i reply, any ideas? :D. There must be some potential win!

Thx in advance,
Maarten


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 07, 2012 6:08 pm 
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Hi man,

Simple: ignore, don't answer anything and let her be the one to contact you.

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My crush texted me this after i asked her on a date

Im so sorry my friend cant stay with me tonight and I know that it was me who decided the time today but tomorrow I will meet you even if I have to walk around the world I promise!!

What should i reply, any ideas? :D. There must be some potential win!

Thx in advance,
Maarten

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 07, 2012 6:10 pm 
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I would wait a few minute and be playful:

"Thats good cause you might have to walk that far to make up for this one. ;-) "

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 08, 2012 7:29 am 
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Thx so much for trying to help me both, i used the playful approach, and copied your line. She responded with a Haha, yeah i am willing to do that! :)
Really clever move man!

Maarten


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 08, 2012 9:29 am 
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I wouldn't have replied.


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 08, 2012 9:53 am 
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Thx so much for trying to help me both, i used the playful approach, and copied your line. She responded with a Haha, yeah i am willing to do that! :)
Really clever move man!

Maarten
Do both, now she's text you back don't text her till she contacts you again. Even of this is after the planned date time.

If she texts you after the planned date time apologising with some
Bullshit excuse try

"Tsktsk, oh well my company got snatched up pretty quick so no worries"

Or ignore her but ignoring her IMO in this case makes you look upset.


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 08, 2012 10:02 am 
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I would wait a few minute and be playful:

"Thats good cause you might have to walk that far to make up for this one. ;-) "
Great line man, glad he used it coz it was genious =)

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 08, 2012 10:52 am 
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Jesus wept guys, it's not genious, it's standard! probably the only thing you could say with the material she gave you to work with.
You have to stop thinking like this and get your balls out n tease girls!...


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 08, 2012 12:42 pm 
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Jesus wept guys, it's not genious, it's standard! probably the only thing you could say with the material she gave you to work with.
You have to stop thinking like this and get your balls out n tease girls!...
You know what that's an important comment you made, simple yet effective and your right, we just gotta go do what any PUA would do, we have to think like a PUA because that was a fairly standard line and if were to become a successful PUA, then that kind of line should be a no brainer, an automatic response even, and you just made me realize that, thanks man.

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I am going to agree with the guy that said that line wasn't so genius, in all honesty that sounded desperate as fuck, obviously it was playful, but jesus that can come off like that so easily.

Lets take a moment and understand the situation, the girl (your crush) is apologizing for flaking, but wants to meet up with you very badly, you the guy should not give a shit what she says at this point cause you have her in your hand.

Don't need to reply, and if you want to think of a flirtatious line like...

"you better or I will have to punish you, i'm quite brutal I'm known in mexico as 'El sexo castigador... true story"

This message is sexual, flirtatious, slightly comedic, and it shows you don't actually give a flying fuck really you just having a good time.

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I dont know the background but i had the same situation. I didnt reply and guess what? She didnt either. If she is highly interested in you, then you can go with the ignoring. If she is not, well sorry you will have to somehow do all the work for her. Or you'll have to move on. True story.


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I am going to agree with the guy that said that line wasn't so genius, in all honesty that sounded desperate as fuck, obviously it was playful, but jesus that can come off like that so easily.
I agree. I wouldn't have ignored it, but I would have put something simple like:

"you better" (indicating a little irritation she needs to over come).

Or if you wanted to tweak up the playfulness:

"you better, or I'm going to put you in a pile driver" (or something equally ridiculous but also suggestive)

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Totally agree with BITmixit...
Listen to his wisdom.





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Thx so much for trying to help me both, i used the playful approach, and copied your line. She responded with a Haha, yeah i am willing to do that! :)
Really clever move man!

Maarten
Do both, now she's text you back don't text her till she contacts you again. Even of this is after the planned date time.

If she texts you after the planned date time apologising with some
Bullshit excuse try

"Tsktsk, oh well my company got snatched up pretty quick so no worries"

Or ignore her but ignoring her IMO in this case makes you look upset.

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I am going to agree with the guy that said that line wasn't so genius, in all honesty that sounded desperate as fuck, obviously it was playful, but jesus that can come off like that so easily.
I agree. I wouldn't have ignored it, but I would have put something simple like:

"you better" (indicating a little irritation she needs to over come).

Or if you wanted to tweak up the playfulness:

"you better, or I'm going to put you in a pile driver" (or something equally ridiculous but also suggestive)
If you indicate irritation you lose. As Entourages said, you should not give a shit about whether she flakes or not. Irritation = Reacting. Reacting = neediness, because you care.


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PostPosted: Thu Aug 09, 2012 11:50 am 
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I am going to agree with the guy that said that line wasn't so genius, in all honesty that sounded desperate as fuck, obviously it was playful, but jesus that can come off like that so easily.
I agree. I wouldn't have ignored it, but I would have put something simple like:

"you better" (indicating a little irritation she needs to over come).

Or if you wanted to tweak up the playfulness:

"you better, or I'm going to put you in a pile driver" (or something equally ridiculous but also suggestive)
If you indicate irritation you lose. As Entourages said, you should not give a shit about whether she flakes or not. Irritation = Reacting. Reacting = neediness, because you care.
Why not let her know thats its not alright with you that she cancel? she is playing with your time. Defently not alright imo.


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