i feel like I'm oblivious to girls giving me the shit tests sometimes! because im the type of person who doesn't take shit from a girl interested or not. i have my own opinion and that what I follow.

should i keep being me myself? Can anyone relate? whats yall think, i feel like i will find the right girlfriend this way.

Sure you should continue to be yourself but not taking shit from a girl should be done with a delicate manner if she is shit testing you and you blow her off with a condescending remark then that will not gain you anything...however if you catch her in her game with a joke regarding her shit test then she will be intrigued by your humour and interested by your personality for catching her shit test...

no doubt man! thanks for the 101s

shit tests are also called congruence tests,

you can pass all of them by remaining congruent to your frame, the less you react to her, the better, and it all starts at an emotional level

if there is no emotional reaction, it is likely your response will come off congruent

if she can get you to react, you will already be failing chick tests, you can either just reckognize the tests and avoid them (don't take them, just dissmiss and re-frame), or you can just remain congruent in your response and pass the test

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Dude that is key in game, be in your own zone, control your own frame and shit. If she shit tests you, you have no idea what is going on because you shouldn't. If a girl insults you it should be something completely strange and random to you, not second nature, you shouldn't react, instead you should just be like wdf is going, who are you... anyways as I was saying... because there is no point in having a reaction to her dumb ass comment just trying to test you.

When you arent reacting to her dumb test you can't fail, in fact she wants to see this reaction of non-reaction, it shows you arent a weak bitch with ego issues or other emotional damages and shit.

Keep it up and good luck.

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Being oblivious = doing it right.

I don't honestly know what a shit test is. All I know is that girls often ask a guy to do something, and because the guy wants her to like him, he usually does it.

Then guys get insecure when they realize they've been suckers for girls for years, always doing what they say. So they overreact. "I should tell her that all girls think I'm hot! That'll show her!"

You could honestly do a lot worse than deciding what you want, and sticking to it (without being totally inflexible or uptight).

Often the best reaction is no reaction at all.