I don't know why but i kind of feel a little weird sometimes when I approach and open girls when i'm alone during the day.

I know that its easy to meet new women when you are with in some social circle and the vibe is cool, but doing it alone always thick me off. Of course i meet ppl via social circles too, but I want to master day game too.

Don't you feel the same way - like being too eager to meet new people. I mean I know its all about mental attitude, however recently I've more focused to developed my self as solid character - to find mission and purpose in life and do what I love to do, however sometimes its not related with women directly, so i needed to balance with some approaches during the day.

I don't feel uncompromisable around women. I mean i'm socially OK. Its just that sometimes I think things like: "Am I the only one around here that has to manage my dating life in slightly different way than the others"


Actually I've had many times women tell me something like: "is that what you do... walk around and meet strangers?" I know this could be assumed as a shit test.Most of the time i'm just brutally honest and reply.. "Yeah why not" and they say something like:"it is kind of weird". Btw suggest how to deal with it in some way.


Overall just share if you had felt the same way or had the same thoughts came through you.

Thank you.

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I can relate to this. But thats what we have to do, we aint gonna wait for the right opportynity to come to us.We shouldnt be thinking about it so much, that day time approach should be, and will be by time, just normal. Why shouldnt i stop a HB during the day? I dont lose anything.

Nope I do it all the time. Just about everyday.

To handle the test just say.."Only to people who interest me". Keep it simple, and move on to something else. Its just her trying to validate that she is the only girl you approached all day.

Sluggler

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Yes, it is also hard for me to approach women on street during day or night.
I think like this : why should she speak with a total stranger ? What this guy wants from me ? Leave me alone !
I think it is about confidence and we all are afraid of straingers. Me too !

When you meet a new person via your friends or your social circle, is much more easy to relate with the new individual becouse first you have some kind of a warranty from your friends that the new person is ok. ( he is not a serial killer, a schizophrenic, etc)

So, yes. I can't approach stragers on the street by just go to them and say "Hello, would you like to be friends?" It sounds so creepy and awkward, even more dooing this with girls ! For me, the street or the open space, is not the perfect setup for opening and relate to others around me.

The acceptable setup for me to approach and open to a girl would be in an environment in wich there are similar activities, objectifs or some knows persons (on job activities, maybe in bookstores, libraries, coffe bars or some other places in witch I can open a dialog having some basic common subjects with the targeted girl)


P.S. : I would like to be able to meet and connect with new people on the street, but I can't do this without a strong reason.

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This is why it starts with your MINDSET.

You MUST have a day game mindset to be successful at it. Day game is where i meet most if not all of my chicks.

Check out this article http://theattractiveu.com/having-a-day-game-mindeset/

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Do you find day game girls to be more of a 'quality' rather night party girls ?
I mean girls with some brain in their heads rather just good looking face and nice body?

Btw how old are you, and are you just blogging do work anything else ? I've read some of the info of who you are in your blog but not the all.

thx

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Yes women you meet in the day time will usually be the type you could possibly take home to mamma. It depends on the female. There are some good quality females who are out with friends but really not the club type. You'll see these situations during night game often.

I'm 20. Yeah i work. haha. Just find time to give back to the community and up and coming guys. Its tough to find the time, but im a pretty good writer so. I love doing it.

Sluggler

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Hey man, i picked up a girl during day-game, even though i was an AFC. I'm still seeing her, even though she is hooking up with my friend because i didn't escalate and waited too long. If i didn't wait too long, she would be hooking up with me, i'm 100% sure.

So hey, give it a try, it's not strange. You will find most girls beeing very friendly to you and smiling. They don't act bitchy, they are 100% themselves then, and that's what u want right?

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