I found the following quote by Retired Rodeo on a thread and it hit home:

Remember this: text to sext to phone to fuck.


This is gold.

Reason I think so: I've had a number of girls stall and bail recently and I think its down to texting etc. Dates have gone really well, at least kiss closes (still learning to f-close on a first date lol, one day), one grab my cock as we were making out in the street, but things have gone wrong after that, when arranging a second date.

I've been really busy so arranging second dates has proven difficult, so I tried to keep in touch via text to keep things going, but after looking back at the texts, they were way too platonic and friendly, not fun at all. So I need to get that part of my game sorted. It can kill attraction pretty easily And it did. In the last week I had three girls break contact, all in a variety of different ways (LJBF, 'if we liked each other we would have already seen each other again already', etc etc, when I really know I killed the attraction). So, the question is - is there any good reading with regards to text game? To be honest I think just cutting down will help, I think the idea of keeping contact going was not good (at least to the extent I did - not stalkerish but a couple a day).

Still, I'm definately a step on from when I started all this The fact that I had three different girls bail meant - I had 3 different girls And they are just the ones that split haha

I have been doing this all my life without even realized it. My text conversation always involves sexual innuendos and frames. Sometimes I texted them with such a strange opener like what is your favorite position. They either answer it or give me shit test. Which once I get past that point, it's all about sexting.

I do find one problem with that, for girls that you gamed online or haven't met or have very little rapport with, it backfires because they seem to be flaky when setting a date after that.

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Thanks GKS - it was specifically for girls who I have already met. I can see it being a little off putting if there has been no meet or chance to build attraction face to face. I had managed to do that, but killed it with mundane texting I think. Jus been searching the forums for some pointers - and I like the 'whats your fave position' opener, definately going to steal that

have you tried using embedded suggestions in you texts to create a sexual frame?

I have no idea what those are lol. Are you talking about subtle hints etc?

Hidden messages within your texts which the girl picks up unconsciously. An example is: you think of a mental state you want the girl to enter say "feel turned on"

If you just wrote "feel turned on" the girl is going to pick that up consciously and reject it. But if you ussd a carrier or sometimes called "weasal phrase" as a prefix to introduce it such as "you know when you" or "what happens when you" the girl will see

"you know when you feel turned on" or
"what happens when you feel turned on"

the trick is you analogicaly mark the the command by texting a double space before and after the "feel turned on" part, I can't demonstrate on here as the forum reduces a double blank space to a single on when you post a reply.

Another method is to mark the command with a capital letter beginning and end such as "you know when you Feel turned oN. The command hits the girl on an unconscious level without her knowing. You want to stick to three word max commands and at least three per message to get it through.

Whenever you text a girl and use a "hot " adjective such as "excited" "fun" "sexy"
"fantastic" etc Stick the double space before and after the word.

You will find more info under the Hypnosis and NLP section of the forum or you can use these links.

http://www.deeptrancenow.com/nlp_embedded_commands.htm
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X1NMyhNufcE
http://attitudeadjustment.tripod.com/Books/Persuade.htm