I see you got yourself a set wing. Good shit, I still need one of those haha. Good reports man, I think your issue is comfort, I mean you understand thats the problem so your ahead of everyone else. My tip to you is when you get her number, text her right away and have a side convo. Be like, uchh theres this really cute girl stalking me. have like a side convo.

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-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

Thanks a lot..I know I have to calibrate a little bit more but I'm enjoying taking all of this reference experience


Side Note for people who read this


I absolutely recommend that you read THE POWER OF NOW by Eckhart Tolle. I use a lot of concepts from that book to eliminate fear, learn to take action, act through my own intentions, dissociate from the outcome / reactions of girls, learning how to control and how to see when your ego takes over your mind and dictates your actions and many other stuff that are pure amazing concepts in game. It's a must read in my opinion for anyone who want to increase their inner game level. Good success in field!

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Nice man, will definitely read. Just so you know, I'm still reading your progress man and it's nice to see. I'll try to find some free time so I can see your stuff in person! Lately I didn't go out much since I am not with a girl, but I guess we could manage something!

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

Date: 3 July 2012

My boy Julien showing how it's done

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Date: 4 July 2012

It's that easy sometimes


Well, yesterday I got to a lay once again. I handled logistics and screened out that she was DTF very soon after we met. I just cut the bullshit, told her to drive in a dark alley where I just dragged her in the back seat of the car. I actually convinced her that I have a gf who's a 25 year old Portuguese secretary haha (I don't know why I did that I was just having fun not giving a single fuck about what she thought) and to my surprise..she even got more attracted...lol anyway, I didn't do anything I just played solid game when we first met, so she didn't even hesitated, I just took the responsibility to lead her into it. I noticed how if you're really solid right off the bat, dates are a real joke, you just have to not do something stupid and you can pull quite well with a little bit of experience. First impression is key

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startin seeing some results my brotha!

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

Date: 5 July 2012

Members: FlaiR & Corp

Location: Street


KISS CLOSE + NUMBER CLOSE (hired gun)

This is awesome, I don’t know how many times I experienced this but every time I do it’s the best feeling ever. I was having a mediocre night…not really in the mood just hitting up different chicks and I was thinking about calling it a night, until my wing approached a 3 set, I’m like whatever why not. I go in and I noticed that both girls are just stunning, blonde and a brunette, both hired guns who dance in a club not far away. There was a guy too, so I was near the brunette I picked her as my target she was just way my style. To be honest…I really don’t even know why I’m writing this. I did nothing special, no tricks, no fucking abracadabra, just talked being comfortable and relaxed, I was just in my own reality, being physical and just drawing state from within, enjoying the opportunity that I had to talk to a girl that just vibrated with feminine energy. Lately, it’s even hard to remember what I said or what happened precisely in a set, simply because I’m not thinking about this anymore, it’s something that the more I practice, it’s just natural and something that I’m ok with expressing. I mean…I made a role-play of me and her getting married tomorrow and she just played along way too well, she was getting more into it then me and afterwards we bounced to a club holding hands. In the club, she told me she needs to go to the bathroom and tells me she’ll come back. However, she doesn’t so I’m not running after her like a little puppy dog. Me and my wing start to talk to other girls in the club. Finally I see her after a while and I re-approach…I noticed she’s really surprised that I didn’t just came and chase her and she was actually pissed that I made her waited. Whatever, I make out, grab her number and it seems it’s pretty solid stuff we’re already texting at 3 o’clock. It fascinates me how 1 single approach…can change your night completely. It really gets me thinking how if we all took the chance to approach when we see a girl we desire, the quality of our lives would be 10 times better, without a doubt. You can never know what will happen…if you don’t take action, one moment of hesitation can make you get a girl you deserve or not. You’re choice…no one else’s.

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Date: 6 July 2012

Members: FlaiR & Corp

Location: Street


NUMBER CLOSE

Tonight I decided to just work on my willpower skills and just approach and approach until I couldn’t take it anymore even when I didn’t wanted to approach…so I’m actually dead tired. It was almost the end of my night and I see a blond who looks kind of good waiting for a drink at the bar. I open and I said to her that I’m thirsty, so she orders two drinks of water and we cheer lol. I get to know her, I basically builded a lot of comfort, I was really tired from my night so I was not really into it, but I managed to be a little bit physical and create a little bit of intimacy. After a while, she told me that she wants me to add on facebook and I told her that I deleted my account because it’s just a waste of time and I truly believe facebook is just a piece of shit lol all the hours that people waste going on that site are incredible. I took that as an opportunity to number close and I gave her my phone so she can put her number. It’s funny because her name starts with the letter “L”. So after she finishes putting the contact information, she waits so she can see her name through my contacts…haha and the screen of my cell was just a full list of girls who started with the letter “L”. She chuckles and gives me this coy look and I just laugh lol I just changed the subject. We go outside a little bit and I’m just friendly and cool, really not spiking emotions or doing anything positive…just neutral, so I don’t know if this is solid, but whatever, I’m really happy that I plowed through my night non-stop from the beginning till the end. You need to realize that feeling good about yourself is not necessarily getting a girl at the end of the night, but the fact that you know you took action and you didn’t let chances slip away. My wing and I are also communicating much better, we’re always helping each other and we’re both seeing constant improvement.

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Date: 7 July 2012

Members: FlaiR & Corp

Location: Street


NUMBER CLOSE

I’m walking with my wing and I see a 2 set coming towards us on the street. I see that the cutest of the two wears sweatpants so I yell from a distance: “Hey captain sweatpants!” She looks at me and I just put my hand in front of her introducing myself immediately. She shakes my hand and boom we’re already hooked in 2 sec. I noticed how important it is to project a loud enough voice in order to make her RAS focus on you and then you open. So we basically both talk to the girls and we each pick a target and we have isolation pretty quickly. We stayed in set really long, like at least 30 minutes. It has been a while since I haven’t been in set this long, but it was pretty awesome. I spiked emotions pretty well, she was giving a lot of IOI’s with her hair, it was crazy how she was shuffling through her hair like she had something stuck inside her hair lol she was just way too cute and I tend to fall easily for this type of girl. I want to kiss her so badly so I start being more physical, but I’m noticing that even though she likes it, she backs off a little bit because she’s shy. I’m constantly calibrating depending on her comfort level with my touch and even though I’m progressing, I’m finding it’s more harder than usual to get it on. I number closed really easily and she didn’t even hesitate…I qualified more than usually because lately I’ve been neglecting qualification, which is really important from personal experience. I was still down for a kiss so I’m about to soon just lounge in for the make out fuck that, but two of her guy friends came and tried to AMOG me which of course didn’t worked at all, the interaction with my girl was solid, but I’m pretty surprised lately how so many guys are just threaten by me and my wing’s presence so they come and they either physically push us kind of starting beef or they come and try to cockblock with some their chode tactics. I lost some good sets lately because of big guys coming in and getting jealous who physically push me away. These guys tried to make me look like a tool but I just reversed the frame on them and engaging my girl like they weren’t even there. It pissed them off so they start to literally yell that they have to go and take my girl by the arm saying “Let’s go”. I grab her arm too, pull her from him, give her two kisses on each check and told her to return safe home. Maybe I should’ve kissed right there on the spot, I just realized this. Anyway, I’ve found out some AMOG tactics from Tyler Durden, I’ll make sure I’ll check these out soon. I’m really glad of all the progress I’ve made so far

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Been following your journal from the old thread, good stuff in there. You make a great deal of # closes, could you care to post what you do with the numbers afterwards? Like quote a post referring to that girl and say what happened later... The connection between the circumstances of you meeting and # closing the girl and your actions after that (phone calls, texts etc) is really interesting.

Keep it up

See these questions are really irrelevant. I think people in this community see way too much game as constant tactics, lines and games that you need to do or say to get a girl. It's not what you do...it's what you are. What do I do after the number? I talk to her like a normal human being and I meet up with her afterwards, because I established in our first interaction that this is a man to woman relationship (not friend to friend). When you're new, you can't help but to think of tactics and what to say/what to do. It's something hard to explain, I really don't think about what to do. I know what I want: her. So I go after her...I text her a little bit and tell her: "Hey I want to see you this week you're way too adorable, when are you free?"

When I go on the date, I always kiss my girls the fastest way possible. Even in set when we first meet up...I do not wait to go for the kiss. I'm capable of doing this by having a deep understanding that rejection doesn't exist. You let it exist because you're identifying with your mind, not the reality. So I want the girl, I go after her it's that easy. I do call some girls, but texting is really easy and does the job pretty well.

Go out and learn on your own. You'll soon know that all the material that exists is irrelevant. Game is reference experience. You will get some numbers, do what you think needs to be done and you will either lose the girl or win her for a period of time. You then start to see what works and what doesn't. You start to change what you're doing, you'll have epiphanies, you'll realize stuff that you didn't realized before, you'll notice how girls respond to this more to that, even though you've been socially conditioned to believe otherwise. And slowly, gradually, you start to change your beliefs, change the way you think and the way you behave, gathering at the same time more and more reference experiences about what works and you'll have much more solid interactions / dates / numbers. It really comes down to how much effort and pain are you willing to take to be good at this...you need to realize that learning is something that's done through personal experience, time and patience

Good luck!

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You really misunderstood me, I don't really intend to copy any lines or games, I just thought it'd be cool if you walked us through the adventure with specific girls even after u get the # close. I am with you in this one, and I'd feel really dumb if I were to spew set lines out of my mouth!

I started reading pickup stuff like a month ago and I already got 1 kiss close, a lot of number closes and lately a relationship with a great girl, just by understanding a few more things about human interaction. Didn't feel like I've changed at all.

Will be following your updates

Date: 9 July 2012

TIME-OFF


I'm taking some time-off from the internet/forum and for the next month, I really want to focus on myself...lately I've been going out and yes it's fun and exciting and I do have an inexplicable passion for the game, but I feel that there's more to life than what I'm currently doing. I'm still going out, but with a different mindset...I want to just focus on myself the most that I can during this month, which includes meditation, going out to the gym which I already do, train more in soccer and basically, just make my life richer in every aspect that I can..fitness, passions, wealth and relationships. Because I'm focused on getting the relationship area handled, it's hard sometimes to also keep track of ALL the other important aspects of my life, and I feel that I need to take some time-off in order to do that. I will of course, write my closes in a word document and post them here later on...I'll be back soon!

I wish everyone good success!

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Date:13 July 2012

BACK


Allright so basically, I'm back on track faster than I thought, I just needed to make some small adjustments and now I'm re-focused again. Lately I've been working on my identity and meditation a lot and I've been experiencing some pretty weird shit with girls.

I've been closing every night that I go out since a month and a half, so I just gathered a lot of reference experience under my belt. I realized how "losing a girl" is really not bad at all, I just take the lesson from it and try to do something different with the next one. Girls are so abundant, they're everywhere, there's really no need to obsess for one...just go out grab another one. Well anyway, I think I'm on a really good path, next month I'll achieve 1 year of experience

Enjoy the reports!

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