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PostPosted: Thu Jun 28, 2012 3:44 pm 
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So I meet this girl when I'm out, I F close and she starts sending me messages when she gets home from mine. We arrange for her to come to mine this weekend (she's said I just want to cut to the chase, I like you etc.)

So I send her a message today asking if she's still coming round, assuming all is good and she replies with "Think I've got other plans for Saturday but I guess I'll see you some other time x x x x"

Why has she changed her tune all of a sudden?

What should I reply to this is probably my main question? :?

Thanks in advance.


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Simply reply: aight. Have fun.


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 28, 2012 3:59 pm 
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I'm not gonna pretend I'm a great pick up artist, I'm still learning. Will replying with that work well? :)


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 28, 2012 4:30 pm 
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I'm not gonna pretend I'm a great pick up artist, I'm still learning. Will replying with that work well? :)
play it cool, u get all reactive you'll blow things

just go "np:) Sounds good ttyl"

You've got to be that guy who has other options, even if you don't, always act as though you do so you're unphased when she cancels/flakes or isn't receptive to your plans.

Who knows what's going on maybe she's genuinely busy, or maybe she wants to see if you'll chase her a bit. Just lay low, let her message you, if she doesn't in a few days drop her a line, make some small rapport building talk, and if she doesn't bait u into asking her out then wait till the next convo to invite her to do something with u.


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 28, 2012 4:55 pm 
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as others have said, play it cool, assume its bad logistics or she may just be nuts, in any case you aren't going to know why she changed her mind so the best thing you can do is act nonplussed. You aren't going to "game" your way into her pants at this point, your just going to ruin what chances you may have by acting clingy or concerned.

Also is that Russel Brand on your avatar? If so it is a good choice, that guy is a true pimp, anytime I hear him speak its clear he has great game and frame.


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 28, 2012 5:18 pm 
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as others have said, play it cool, assume its bad logistics or she may just be nuts, in any case you aren't going to know why she changed her mind so the best thing you can do is act nonplussed. You aren't going to "game" your way into her pants at this point, your just going to ruin what chances you may have by acting clingy or concerned.

Also is that Russel Brand on your avatar? If so it is a good choice, that guy is a true pimp, anytime I hear him speak its clear he has great game and frame.

Cheers guys, yeah it is, he's the man!


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