Wauw, thanks for your reply. I knew I wasen't supposed to push for the picture that was my bad. Any thoughts on how to go from here? I was thinking of waiting a day or 2 to wait for her response and then open again with a light opener.

I love the idea. I've been sending out the opener to people and getting lots of answers back, but so far I've only been able to chat with 1 girl and it went well. I have a question for you GK, before talking to her I didn't realize you wouldn't explain the results to the girl, but I did to mine and I feel as if it worked pretty well. So why do you think it's better to not explain the results? Seems like avoiding that part leaves out a very interesting conversation.


HER:So I'm the first one to pick strawberries, hmmm.. And is that good or not?
ME:well it usually represents a certain trait in girls
HER:And do you have any opinion on what does my choice of strawberries mean?
ME:maybe, but i need to ask a few more questions first
HER:OK, so if you want to do to that and I'm not disturbing you in this moment, then feel free to ask
ME:lets give it a try. i've got a little free time.
ME:so first question...
ME:close your eyes and imagine you're by a body of water, tell me how big it is
HER:very large
HER:like a huge lake or even bigger
HER:it's not an ocean, it has boundaries
ME:ok. what would you do if you were there?
HER:I would like to swim in it.
HER:So I would do that
HER:and dive
ME:and how does all of this make you feel when you think about it?
HER: happy
HER:satisfied
HER:I have a feeling like "I want to do that!
ME:alright i got all i need to know.
HER:And could you share your findings with me please?
ME:i'll give it a shot. i'd like to know what you think too since you seem quite intelligent
ME:i'm a bit into some psychology and like to look for a deeper meaning in things
ME:so for the first question
ME:the reason i've asked these questions is to see if i could gauge your sexualness
HER:Oh, that sounds interesting, very
ME:strawberries have a strong association with sex and thus made me think you are or want to be a very sexual person
HER:This interpretation is very accurate - I am.
ME:the next part about the water. any guesses what the significance of that question might be?
ME:good, then it's spot on so far
HER:I had my own guesses that connects water with love or other emotions
HER:or life in general
ME:well, i asked it with sexuality in mind and i perceive your answer to mean that you have a strong sex drive since the water is "huge". but since it's not an ocean, i think it's either about as average or others, or you're not fully exploring all of your sexuality that you want to
ME:so since it has limits, that's a clear sign of you putting up boundaries - having standards and not just sleeping with anyone. i think that shows you value emotional chemistry much more than physical
HER:Well, you're right about this as well. There are several things that I'm really not willing to try. The reason there is that I have already tried it and found it not so exciting as I thought it should be, or just that I don't want to try it at all. So yes, there are boundaries in my sexuality and I'm not willing to extend them.
HER:And yes, I'm very picky about my sexual partners.
HER:I have my standards and I really need to have some sort of psychological bond prior to the physical one....
HER:You're really good at this.
ME:thanks
ME:i'm also someone that is open to trying new sexual things , what are some of the things you've explored and haven't enjoyed?
HER:Anal sex. Or me being dominant.
HER:I guess that it also says something about me in psychological way (especially that dominant part). Is there anything that you find not enjoyable?
ME:yeah. just within the past couple weeks i've been experimenting with anal sex and dominance. one i enjoy, the other not so much
ME:a girl friend of mine brought over a finger condom and wanted to finger me...which i just didn't have any arousal or interest in. but i like dominance. not like whip and ball gag kind of stuff, but me being dominant and confident within the comfort of the girl
HER:That's what I meant by "me being dominant" (not whips and chains and stuff) - that's something that I don't enjoy when it's me who has to be dominant, who has to choose the position, say what we shall do... No, I want a guy to do these things.
ME:see i do enjoy it when a girl is dominant at first (pushing me against a wall, throwing me down on the bed, or just ripping my pants down to get to my cock), but i don't think i could remain in a submissive position throughout sex.



After this bit I wrapped it up, got #, and she texted me a pic of her face which was not shown in her OKCupid profile (and she wasn't a troll surprisingly either).

using the meet me section doubled my responses, good tip

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Like I said, I used this routine because I was too lazy for a long conversation. Those questions have them interested enough to give me their number so I rather just spend 3-4 emails than back and forth 10 times.

I leave the explanation out because people always curious, I exploit that. I give them half the answer so they will come back for more. Sometimes I give them explanation for the normal question or strawberries part. I always save the sex part for the meetup, easier for you to escalate into f-close since you're already talking openly about sex.

That's just the way I'm operating. Ofc, use whichever way that works for you. Everyone is different.

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I have never been with an Asian girl in my life. I moved to the state since 10th grade and I have only been dating and sleeping with white girls. I always made jokes about my race, I tease them for being stereotype and call them racist all the time. Girls that have been with me usually told me that they became interested bc the more they got to know me, the more I surprised them by being completely opposite to the stereotype.

As for lines, I'm more of a spontaneous witty guy, so I don't used canned lines or routines. I used future projection a lot such as interracial marriage couple roleplay, talk about mixed asian babies, etc... I also use push and pull, teasing and try to stuffs as much as images into their head to inspire their imaginations.

But if you do want one, my favorite line is "Fuck that, I know white girls like exotic things but I'm not just a piece of asian meat!". I always assumed there is attraction and they're trying to pick me up, I accused them for seducing me.

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So I tried this, mostly on POF. It worked great for getting replies, but as soon as I got to the "Want to come home with me?" line, I stopped getting any responses. Any suggestions?

I also had one person say she had heard this before, so it's definitely catching on. I'm in North Carolina for those who are curious.

Just tried this opener after the girl messaged me. What do you all think would be a good thing to say next?

Her:
you don't have a face, how sad!! Lol
Me:
You caught me. I have no face, but I have a really really big personality :) Do you?
Her:
Of course
Me:
Let's see what kind of personality you have. Serious question.... you can only pick one, don't cheat! M&M, Skittles or strawberries?
Her:
Stawberries!
Her:
What does that mean?
Me:
Actually, those represent for certain traits in women. What an odd, but an interesting choice, but let's double check to be sure. Close your eyes and imagine you're by a body of water, tell me how big it is and what you would be doing.
Her:
What do strawberries mean?
Her:
The ocean, Tanning :)

I tried this on a girl and did not want to sound desperate when she kinda ask about my home.

Me: Serious question.... you can only pick one, don't cheat! M&M,Skittles or strawberries?
Her: Only one??? I'd have to say... strawberries. I could potentially dip it in chocolate and have the best of both worlds. What about you?
Me:interesting.. you are first one who picked that choice,that represents certain traits in girls, not much about foods.
Her: Really? What kind of traits?
Me: sure I will tell you. but one test before that, just to double check...
Her: Ask away.
Me: close your eyes... imagine you are by a body of water, tell me how big it is..
Her: Massive, as if the world was an entire ocean.
Me: ok.. what would you do there?
Her: Dive down as deep as possible to see if I could find new types of marine life.
Me: how does doing all that make you feel?
Her: Adventurous!
Me: I got all i need to know.. and guess what you are fun and quite creative! do you wanna come home with me?
Her:I think that's quite accurate. Impressive. Haha, where's home? (thought this is a shit test)
Me: or first, we can sneak into Seaworld and go for roller coaster ride..

Please suggest a good re-opener or did I just blew it up?

Haha, after reading this I figured I'd give it a shot too:

Me: Hey, what's up! Honest question, you can only have one answer, no cheating! M&Ms, Skittles or Strawberries?
Her: Strawberries
Me: Wow, interesting.. You're actually the first one to pick that choice.
Her: Lol I'm not a crazy chocolate person and I hate skittles!!
Me: Well to tell you the truth those actually represent certain traits in women and not particularly food.
Her: What do the represent?
Me: Well first I have to do one more test just to double check.
Her: 3-vt126158.html?start=30

Busted! I kind of figured it would be easy to figure out the way the web is these days, so watch out. I didn't really deviate much from the way it was laid out, which was probably the problem. This was on OkCupid too, so, again, just a heads up when you're using it. Luckily she lives a way aways from me, so it's not really much sweat off my back.

Okay so I'm trying this one now.

Asked her what she prefered out of skittles, m&ms and maltesers

Her: Skittles all the way.
Me: Actually those represent for certain popular traits in girls.. What an odd ...but interesting choice... What made you pick skittles?
Her: because I prefer fruit candy to chocolate candy lol who the hell cares?

Not really sure where to go with this, considering teasing her?

That's the downside of sharing routine. But I'm all about helping fellows that are in need. I came up with a new routine with I found more effective. I'll post it up after a few more test runs.

As for replies, it's just like picking up, a number game. What you're trying to do is weeding out all the girls without humor that can't take a joke or two and not adventurous enough. So if they don't rely after that, I'll just move on and work on other chicks.

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My apologies for the late reply. Hope this still helps. I'd just laugh and say something like this "Damn you're fun! Come home with me tonight."

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You were overthinking this. I don't think it was a shit test. She clearly showed her interest as she wanted to know which part of town do you live in. If you want to be safe, you can always throw in a joke but followed by a real answer.

EX: Under the highway bridge. I wouldn't call it home. It's an impressive cardbox fort! But really, I live around [location]

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Just plow through with the routine. "I care. Funny choice actually since each choice represents for certain trait in chicks. It's something useful I've learned in my psy class "

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I'm actually testing this out on OKC, it's a pretty good opener but seeing how long I can keep girl engaged past interesting choice. So I'm experimenting a little, I got to say logistically rite now I'm not looking for lays. I want to transition it to numbers/dates.