You did a little too much at the end, after you turn the girl down, its best to exit the convo and leave it just like that. Notice how her responses were getting shorter and shorter.

Play it cool man, and don't tell her why you can't come over, let her mind wonder; it'll raise her attraction for you even more.. When she says "fuggin come over", and you have to say is " haha can't". She'll be wondering why you turned her down, causing her to try again for the sake of her self esteem.


All in all, the previous text messages were cool. good shit

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You're right. Normally I would do that, always leave them curious for more. I was just a bit hyped up and kinda regretting turning her down and still wanted something out of it at least. That's why I asked for the pic

Thanks everyone for your input though. I was a bit sloppy since it was my first HB9 booty call. But at least I learned that my game has improved significantly for me to arrive at this point. I'll handle it better next time around

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Just my thoughts... but if she is at the point where she is texting you to come over and you dont go.. you could be seen as AFC.

I get what the guys above are saying about her not having been turned down before etc.. and your value going up- but I think your value would go up only if it was a date or hang out. The point at which she is ready to be fucked, you need to show that you are man enough to go round there and fuck her to pieces. And yes, you should strike while the iron is hot. fuck her and then play silly buggers on text

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I would definitely have gone but, I'm a BAFC (Below AFC) - see user name

You're only a loser if you think you are. Quit feeling sorry for yourself and make the effort to change. Start by making your body as fit as you can. There is so many parts of your life that you can control. Do all that you can do first, if you still think your a loser after all of that. Then so be it!

I can promise you one thing. You're not gonna get any sympathy around here dude!
It's your life and if you don't want to be a loser, then get off your ass and do something about it.

There is people on this forum that can help you in every aspect of changing for the better. But ultimately, the choice is yours.

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Updating... She randomly texted me a "hi" at 8pm last night. I didn't reply till 2 hours later asking what sort of trouble was she causing. She did not respond. No idea what is going on in her head, but she seems to be really unsure about what she wants. So I guess the best option for me right not is just be aloof and poke fun at her from time to time.

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What if she wanted to have sex, texted you, you did not respond in a timely fashion (it was evening after all) so she texted another dude and when you replied at 10pm she was with another dude already. Just a possibility. I do not like to delay a reply if it is evening hours and if it is likely that she wants to have sex.

you know this is fucking great.

at this rate somewhere along the line we might get some shagging done.

maybe after she married, had three children and divorced, no?

Well I did not do that on purpose, it was father day, I was with families. That could be the possibility, but I don't stress it too much.

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When we are not Alpha it is also the women who lose out. I have turned down numerous obvious invitations in the past by trying to be a gentleman and not too keen etc but that is really all BS and it was more a lack of confidence and security to be honest.

No more of that rubbish. No turning back now. When an HB gives a green light it is go for it.

Man you're over thinking this situation. She's just a girl like everyone else.
What I'd do instead would be very simple and I know it would be calibarated and worked..
Would of simply replied with"Hi"...
It's so easy and you spend too much time thinking about how to "game" this girl when she's game on obviously. I think your text wasn't calibarated and i think a lot of guys here can back me up on this one.
At the end she's just a girl with the difference that she's an hb9.5 so she doesn't have to wait for 2 hours if she really wants sex and I bet she has plenty of options.
I know you're trying to stand out but I think you've already won her. Or at least won her for a night of sex.

Just be geniune and stop trying to "game" her. Instead be normal and just fuck her brains out of her so you can get the most out of you and her )

Good luck man

Once you give her her medicine just do the push pull until she begs for more.

And don't forget to make her say please!