Recently, my game peaked and got a lot more numbers. However, I ran into a bit of problem with flakes. What I do is usually fluff talk to build rapport after I got their numbers, then I waited 2-3 days and sent them a text saying I'm doing xxx, and they can tag along if they [insert a challenge]. However, I got a lot of flakes lately. Some suggested reschedule which is fine. But most of them just say they're busy, got work, etc.... without suggesting another time. So I have a few question:

1. When they said they're busy, should I push it a little more and ask them for rescheduling? Or just do what I usually do which is replying "Kay that's fine. I'll find someone else to entertain me :p"

2. When inviting them to do stuffs, should I give them more time in advance? I usually give them 1-2 days or couple hours, since I'm a bit spontaneous.

3. Do you guys fluffy talk for at least couple minutes before inviting them or just invite them straight out of the blue bc that's what I usually do.

4. How do guys handling multiple flakes? What are the rule of thumb?

5. I have no problem escalating and kinoing, always end up making out or fclose on first date. However, I'm starting to wonder if that is a wise thing to do since most of them tend to have buyer remorse the next day and don't respond at all.

PS: Also, what do you guys do when they give you one word responses in text? I usually just ignore them for couple days or take way longer to respond.

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you must identify the type of girl.

some require more fluff/rapport before going out on a date.
other are ready to go right away.

seems your issues revolve heavily around the fact that you are basically being too obvious that your 'gaming' and are a 'PUA'

at the end of the day, a girl will sleep with you if you seduce her but doing it the right way will make her come back for more, whereas making her feel like shes just another number will make her feel the buyers remorse.

also depends what your personal goals are.

exactly what i was gonna say, identify ur goals my friend. it sounds like u at least want some of these girls to come back rather than a couple one night stands a month

1. sounds fine to me
2. give as much time in advance as possible in the beginning otherwise u seem random
3. def fluff it up a lil, build comfort before going for a date
4. when a girl multiple flakes on me the first thing i do when they text/call is not get back to them for a day - tell them if u make me a priority then i will make u one
5. for return business dont make it seem like they just got played or tricked, get to know them better

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