theres this HB i like and she likes me to, her friends i think keep saying bad shit about me, like his weird and staff and they want her to date another guy not me. Because of what thier saying its making it hard to do or say anything without the fear of being weird. i know im not suppose to care about what other people say about me but its hard not to sometimes. so how do i make her feel that what her friends r saying really doesnt matter and that im her best choice.

Similar problem, her friends warned her about my PU. I just made her friends laugh all the time. And they started seeing me as a fun guy. Not that i am trying to impress them, i am just being ME and with the knowledge that "females really care about what their friends think regardless of what they want", i got the girl. I suggest not to portray anger or neediness when you are with her friends and DO NOT try to make her change the way she thinks about her friend's opinions about you because this will make things worse. Instead, be your best self and be an option of fun and dominance.

Befriend the set, but I think you just need to make her have more fun with you than the negativity she hears about you. I ahve been in same posiotn, gf dumped me over it, but I still got with her because she liked me so much and didnt care. Think of it as a seesaw, if your side is weighing more shell lean towards you.

But yea befriend the group somehow. Show em your chill and all.

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oh ic. thanks alot dudes

if their saying weird stuff, then they sound inexperienced

befriend the friends, but dont take it to heart

sounds like inexperience here.