| Michael/CJH's Pickup Manifesto - style most suited to extroverts (introverts proceed with caution as you can risk not being congruent)
CORE PRINCIPLE # 1 : Social conditioning has emasculated men around the world. Don't talk loud. Don't do or say what you feel like at all times, don't go in for the kiss with a girl you JUST met, don't talk back, DON'T have underage sex (obviously parents worry about idiot kids and not protecting themselves), DON'T break the mold, BE a DOCTOR, LAWYER, ETC etc so you can subconsciously get more pussy in the future and one day she will "find you, live in a fucking CHODE bubble, live with a fucking VAGINA, live with regret, live knowing a girl is with you just because of your job or your money or whatever fucked up reasons you think all "Bitches" want. Live in your bubble doing what everyone else expects of you until you fucking die and thats it.
Core PRINCIPLE # 2: If you cannot approach or have anxiety (you shouldn't if you are an extrovert...but do not be fooled by the power of a beautiful woman to put you in that state of mind), realize you are being a fucking retard. If you cannot even say "HI" to her, you won't fuck her. If you can't kiss her on the lips while remaining free from her denial of it, you can't fuck her.
Core PRINCIPLE # 3: MOVE ON FROM YOUR PAST. I don't give a fuck whats happened to you, why you haven't gotten laid, and all this bullshit nonsense due to your inflated ego of thinking you're the SHIT. Realize this is a process. Pick up should never be 'figured out' It's always a constantly learning experience, but it should be one in which you have core beliefs/principles about man to woman interactions. Realize without even any core concepts of pick-up/game you can still get laid quite consistently. It's always a process and nothing is LINEAR/PERFECT progression. First you master opening, then you master...this..then that. NO. JUST DO IT ALL. DIVE IN.
RULE # 1 -
STOP LOOKING FOR IOI'S. ASSUME ATTRACTION OR ASSUME FAILURE. THIS MAKES IT EASY IF YOU THINK YOU'LL ALREADY FAIL OR SHE IS ALREADY ATTRACTED. You are a man, take what you want and be unapologetic about it.
RULE # 1.1
Every woman WILL ask some guy to open her legs. NEVER APOLOGIZE for trying to open hers/embracing your true manhood. Whether introvert/extrovert, you are hoping to stick your penis inside her warm hole. SORRY if this bothers some of you! But NEVER EVER APOLOGIZE for doing your fucking DUTY as a man. If she gives you disgust/eww/weird face for giving her a hug or being immediately physical, then either she's not worth your time or she has her own set of issues.
Rule # 2 -
DO WHAT IS MOST CONGRUENT TO HOW YOU FEEL/ARE IN THE MOMENT. This is not to say because you "FEEL LIKE SHIT" it justifies not approaching. You ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS approach.
WHY? IT IS THE RIGHT THING TO FUCKING DO. NEVER GIVE YOURSELF EXCUSES. What CONGRUENT means is if you FEEL like you want to be physical, GO FOR IT (think with your heart, not your dick obviously) IF YOU FEEL like you don't want to talk to her much now, DON'T. Walk away. If you FEEL like you want to tell her FUCK YOU'RE TERRIBLE! TELL HER. Don't hold it back. (Note this is prone to more blowouts naturally so expect rejections with any method. In this one, the rejections will be swift).
Rule # 3
TAKE YOUR EGO OUT OF THE GAME. YOU ARE NOT A SPECIAL SNOWFLAKE. You have to realize that while you can generalize and backwards rationalize a shitload of theory and excuses, it's literally just being a big fucking CHODE. Risk looking retarded, risk having multiple women blow you out, risk being a fucking man and shrugging it off. Embrace your INNER extrovert.
Rule # 4
AMOGs are fucking cute. Hug them and make them feel like the retards they are. I've been known on several occasions to kiss AMOGs on the cheek and totally trump them with noogies. On the other hand, ignore them completely unless they are physically exerting themselves on a girl. Then DLV the shit out of them.
Rule # 5
Always risk losing the girl. STOP CARING if you FUCK IT UP. The minute you grasp your vagina in hopes that she likes you or you "really dont want to fuck it up" is when your mind is actively seeking to SUPPRESS YOU. STOP IT. STOP IT BEFORE YOU START THE NEGATIVE SPIRAL of saying "fuck I suck. I suck! FUCK. WHY DIDN'T I DO IT! FUCK. FUCK!"
Rule # 6
NEVER JUSTIFY anything you do. Women only "shit test" you to see if you are being genuine with them or are playing a fake routine of confidence or trying what your FRIEND told you "Worked for him" If you cannot truly internalize BEING your NATURAL self as a man (aka an introvert who is uncomfortable in his own manhood).
Rule # 7
You always are responsive. If you come on too strong to some girl and she locks up, respond and back away and accommodate, but don't change yourself for her. Stick by your terms as a man. NEVER APOLOGIZE FOR BEING A MAN.
Rule # 8 (this is the easiest rule)
You want her to say she has a boyfriend, you want her friends to perceive you as someone who is a sexual threat. Naturally, terrible game can get you the "I have a boyfriend" excuse and usually sometimes, the girls are genuine about it. You can still persist, but realize this is a very questionable source of a f-close. I've slept with several girls who had bf's but I found out AFTER the fact.
Rule # 9
Always be giving plausible deniability on the pull. Plausible deniability/justifying yourself or your physical and verbal game is not necessary (palm reading, using smart games like 1-10 questions and all that bullshit). Women don't want to be sluts even to you. Give them excuses on the PULL/DAY 2 to take them to your place. Note: pulling is harder than DAY 2. This is where your unapologetic and mostly very polarized speech of being a "man" is reigned back regardless of how congruent/not congruent it is to how you feel. Always be light about this. Give them deniability.
Finally Rule # 10
Realize that despite everything you do, you will have some girls that will smack you, call you a creep, push you away, make out with you only to disappear, cheat with you, and all this nonsense but never let any of these successes paint you with a high ego. Obviously as you get more experiences/successes to internalize these beliefs, you will develop a high super-hero PUA mentality. Stop that bullshit, because if you do guess what: you're back to square 1 and rule # 1.
Realize even with all of this, the beauty of life and interactions in general ARE the rejections, ARE the AMOGs, ARE the fucked up things girls say to "shit test you." Be thankful people are random and not robots. And realize if you are afraid of this randomness, you are afraid of life. Fuck it dude, it's low risk HIGH reward. You have nothing to lose and no one will kill you for doing your duty as an UNAPOLOGETIC MAN EMBRACING his calling.
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