| Damn, a lot of hate immediately. I didn't say I was the best person to seek advice, but I have gotten some positive reviews, and I love teaching and would love to make a name for myself. Therefore, this seems like one of the next steps to take.
As for being a teenager, I apologize for being young and learning this stuff before everyone, god my life must suck!! blahblah blah.
As for the first question regarding AA, I will first give a short explanation and if you want more will continue, I am off to catch a train soon that is why.
I believe the problem lies within your self confidence. The reason you have AA is simple, you value the target at a higher property value. For example, if you are talking to your bros, and some chick talks to you that you have no interest in you would say babe stfu, I am talking here, or at least something in that degree. You would have no reason to converse with her, because you see your value (and time) as higher than hers. However, if a chick approached you that you felt was smoking hott or what ever, you would immediately turn your attention towards her and your friends would wait patiently (or not) until you finished your conversation with said girl.
Therefore, my "cure" if you will, to fixing this problem would be to gain more confidence in yourself and your status. If you believe you are lower status than people than of course you will begin to feel you are wasting their time and that you are non-important. However, once you gain a stronger sense of who you are, your confidence, and self-value, you won't even think of that. Why would one person have more value than you? What has she done so spectacular that you need to quiver beneath her feet?
The overall point is such, if you believe you are less than the female, and begin to question whether you should approach or not, therefore having an AA "attack" your problem is with you and your confidence. The reason's you tell yourself, I am not attractive, I am short, I am fat etc... are all materialistic things. While we as men are more subjective to this thought process, woman are emotional and will easily find themselves with an unattractive heavy man, if that man emotionally stimulates her. _________________ Best of Luck
-Raphael
Aspiring Artist
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