I used the oldest trick in the book, picked a venue closed to my place, told them to drop by so we can ride together. They got there, I told them come on up because I'm still getting ready. I have couple stuffs in my place to inspire their interests, like a books, some paintings I painted, etc... They browsed around and got comfortable with my place. After that, depending on how the date go, I either cut it short and dragged them back to my place or made some excuse for them to come up at the end of the date.

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What I meant was the convo you posted didn't have the rollercoaster test in it, and from someone elses post plus my convos transitioning into it while still being playful and keeping intrest can be difficult.

I see. It's fairly easy, after I run the first questions, whatever choice they pick, I would say something to inspire their curiosity. Like "Those choice represents for certain traits in chicks... that's a very odd choice... but interesting.. Let's double check....[ Insert roller coaster test ]"

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Do you ask one rollercoaster question at a time or all 5 at once?

All 5 are too desperate, do one by one. Remember the goal is feed her off slowly little by little so spike her curiosity and interest. Sometimes if she shows lot of IOIs, I would just stop half way and tell her to I have to go so shoot me a text so we can continue.

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Alright so this is my first attempt at it, and well it is taking a while cause she gets on like every other day.... but atleast she keeps coming back for more. I will keep you all updated.

Me: Serious question.... you can only pick one, don't cheat. M&Ms, Skittles, or Strawberries
Her: Strawberries!
Me: Wow you're the first one who picked that choice!
Her: Did I choose poorly? lol
Me: They actually represent a girls personality...
Her: oh so what does strawberry mean? lol
Me: Alright, but first do you like rollercoaster?
Her: I love roller coasters lol
Me:Great, now close your eyes and imagine.... We go to the park, we see a line for the roller coaster. How long do you have to wait before getting on the ride?
Her: 28 minutes.
Me:Haha I love it.
Ok last one...Your ride on the roller coaster was exciting, but it wasn’t all that it could have been. If you were going to design the perfect roller coaster, what would yours look like?

Awesome I'm giving this a shot, if they answer Strawberry I use the Strawberry fields test and if it's the other 2 I use the Roller coaster test. But I think this formula is going to start getting over used to the point girls know what's up.

Girl #1
Me- Serious question.... you can only pick one, don't cheat! M&M, Skittles or Strawberries?

Her- Surprisingly, someone else has already asked me this question and told me the reasoning for it. My answer was M&M's.

Girl #2

Her- Hmm so we're going through the whole test. 4, and I wouldn't feel guilty.

You're next line would be: "You're blah blah blah! Do you want to come home with me tonight?"

This is on okcupid, looks like your lines has become to popular on okcupid(NY area girls)

I take that as a compliment as there are shitload of guys using it I did provide a generic formula though, it's not exact science. That's why I mentioned to be yourself, tailor it according to your personality. Change them up.

Ex: "You look fun, not sure if you can pass my fun person test. Gummy bears, whipped cream or strawberries?"
"what's your greatest passion? her: blah blah blah - That's cool, I loveeee rollercoasters. blah blah blah. What is your favorite part of it? - her: blah blah blah - That's cool, but I hate it that you always have to wait in line for them. Would you wait if the line is about an hour?"

You get the idea, it doesn't have to be a bunch of series questions. Make the conversation fun.

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Excellent point, I'm guilty of this too being lazy a going word for word instead of injecting my own personality in the conversations and making it more unique.

Thanks for the wake up call and the formula.

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Since I'm also an asian male like you, what are some lines you use if a white girl or whomever asks if you ever gone out/dated someone non asian?

For me, depending on who they are, I tried the following. If they are brunette, I usually say something like "well I usually prefer blondes but I have a soft spot for brunettes" and vice versa. It works to varying degrees. I think it tells them without directly saying it that I've gone out with non asians before, and it's also a slight neg.

Do you have any better examples?

To bounce back on last Faust23 post, I've noticed test game like this served a bit bluntly and pushed too far just get the girl bored mainly if it's by mail. A friend told me about this game to ask random question like red or blue, day or night, coffee or vodka... until you combine them all in ok you'll wear red dress and we'll drink a coffee at this place...
in IM or text that sounds reasonable but i've done it by mail on Pof, and you can feel it's a bit long until the girl know what's all about. she dropped at the last question

What if the Reply with: I've got tons of pictures on facebook so you know who I am. I am considering waiting it out till she contacts me, but a reply for futurr refernces would be nice.

Here is how the convo went. Any help will be appreciated.

Me: He little one( this is a rough translation, I cant seem to get the right word for it.) I don't know from where, but you look really familliar. You are kinda cute, but are you also fun and interassting? I'm picky

Hb: haha, If you don' t know where you know me from, how can you tell that I'm little? Lol!

Me: haha, honey I'm 1.90m...Everybody is little for me. Where you at IDG? ( It is a popular party town, which is 2x per week)

Her: Yeah, that was me. I recognised you as wel!
Me: haha,ok. Serious question, you can only pick one...don't cheat! Strawberries, chocolate or skittles?
Hb: hahahaha, Skittles! xD
Me: They actually represent something specific in a girl. What an interessting choice xD
Hb: So what do skittles say about me? XD
Me: Im not sure yet. If your waiting in the line for a roalercoaster. how long would you wait?
Hb: a veeerryyy loong time! I have to mentally prepare myself for Coasters. I'm such a wimp xD
Me: haha, coward! I like the fact that your still going in...Want to come home with me tonight?
Hb: I have to wait for my exams results tonight not going to work.
Me: If you made it then congratz if not we can always rob a bank tomorrow. It's great for blowing off steam!
Hb: lol deal!!
Me: Nice, you driving or shooting?
Hb: Shooting duuhh
Me, cool keep me posted. Here's my number xxxxxx. Send me a message with your pic so I know who you are.
Hb: I've got tons of pictures on facebook so you know who I am..
Me: yeah, but I don't know how weird you are yet, I don't want to get a random text at 04.00 AM just saying hey xD
Hb: huh hahah okee
Hb: btw I passed, so our robbery is cancelled
Me: wauw, then we just have to do something boring like going to the cinema..

No response after this. Any advice? Thank you in advance

Hey Raydon, actually it went quite well and you passed her first shit test when she rejected that AO opener. However, it seems that you lost her when you asked her pic and she said no. Normally I just use the pic as an indicator to measure her level of compliance. You don't HAVE TO HAVE it, if you know what I mean. If she doesn't send you one, you know you need more attraction. That's it. Don't BANTER for pics!

In this case, I would have just ignore it and leave the conversation. She has the number, if she's interested she would have texted me. Also from the cold reading, you can tell she's fun but she's not easy. She is willing to wait in line and be well prepared. That means she's not your typical one night stand, she wanted to be chased, to be charmed into bed, to feel safe. So I would adjust me routine according to that, keep it more light and fun. The proof was even she said no to coming home with you, she was still up for hanging out until you appear needy for the pictures at the end. She changed her mind.

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Wauw, thanks for your reply. I knew I wasen't supposed to push for the picture that was my bad. Any thoughts on how to go from here? I was thinking of waiting a day or 2 to wait for her response and then open again with a light opener.