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PostPosted: Sun Jun 03, 2012 11:30 pm 
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I want to game a HB10 (one of the "popular" girls) who I barely talk to who goes to my school.
We have an end of school ball coming up and I'd like to kiss close at the least.

I know it's quite an easy situation but I'm not sure how to go about gaming with all of my friends there, people who know me etc.
I'm thinking of using Gambler's stealth seduction http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5DsVwYqVhdU , but I've never used it before.

The main problems are:

1) Pretty much my entire school year group will be there.

2) I'm not an overly popular guy but I have a player reputation as I game girls outside of my school and everyone knows it.

3) I can't desensitise myself to her looks. She's by far the hottest girl I've ever seen so I feel somewhat nervous...almost AFCish.

My game is usually good during cold approaches but I feel somewhat less comfortable trying to game this girl because I know her.

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 03, 2012 11:39 pm 
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You need to stop lowering your standards, you already losing the game by doing that. You are not the buyer, where she is the prize(or object), you are the buyer, you are seeing if she fits your lifestyle.

If you want her go get her, but go up to her like you would for a new toy or computer. See what she has to offer (qualify), than challenge her, than you say hmm i like (you qualify)... that is all you have to do.

Your friends will support you, I dont care if you are not popular, if people know who you are you are popular, that is all popular is. If you can go into a party and more than 15 people recognize you, than you are fine.

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 03, 2012 11:59 pm 
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Aight man thanks.

I'm just afraid of my friends teasing me while I'm talking to her which'll throw me off my game and make her feel uncomfortable. Oh well, I just hope they're mature enough not to.

If she was just a random girl on the street I'd feel fine to approach her, I've just never tried to game anyone that I already know that's all.

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 04, 2012 12:01 am 
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Dont worry about your friends, they will be like holy shit bro u did it after, come on its a guy getting a girl in hs, thats like me finding the holy grail.

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haha that's true. You know you said that I should see what she has to offer, challenge her, then qualify. That's only possible with indirect game right? I've always believed in indirect game for the most part, but a lot of people on this forum seem to prefer direct game.

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I only do direct game bro, you challenge a girl by questioning her. When I or a girl ask me what I do I can give a joke answer than serious, than when I ask her, dont just say AWESOME challenge her, ask her WHY?!!?! find out why she is a teacher, what is she passionate about it why (ehh english words). You know what I mean?

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I only do direct game bro, you challenge a girl by questioning her. When I or a girl ask me what I do I can give a joke answer than serious, than when I ask her, dont just say AWESOME challenge her, ask her WHY?!!?! find out why she is a teacher, what is she passionate about it why (ehh english words). You know what I mean?
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damn demon


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Ahhh right! Thanks a lot man! That's why I've always been so hesitant to go direct, because I always think that I'm coming off as too needy. The main point I've been missing is the qualifying thing.

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Glad to help, definitely work on it, you will see a lot more success and less flakes.

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