Simple enough?

Maybe not, If you are like me , 28 years old already slept with enough ladies to have a question like this...

If you feel you could date this girl seriously, should you sleep with her the first night even if you are sure you can?


Keep in mind, my experience is the better you know her the better the sex will be ... One night stand sex is just that...


Excited for the responses...

If it unfolds naturally, otherwise no. While its important to operate from a sexual frame, I'd only focus on the present unburdening myself from setting any particular objective for the night.

If your thinking that you could get serious with that girl I wouldn't do it. They might feel like a slut and all the other crazy ideas women might have. Even if she is willing, rejecting her will raise your value, but you need to do in a romantic/witty way, not that is feeling like you don't want her. Altough I do agree if it happens naturally, you can do it, but you need to give her the feeling that isn't a slut imho. I do believe that the older they get, the less they feel like a slut, since your in your late twenties you should encounter is less like me who is in his earlies twenties.

If it is more like a bimbo (no disrespect) who you might see a few times then I would say yeah why not.

The way I see it is this. If a woman I don't even know is trying to have sex with me, then she has absolutely no standards and will give it up to any Tom, Dick, or Harry she meets. If you are going for a one night stand, then have at it. However, if you are trying to meet a woman you can get serious with, I say no. A sexually aggressive uninhibited woman is obviously what we all want. But she can still be that way while having standards..

I agree with the above comment about girls thinking they me slutty if they do get banged str8 away; that could be hazardous to your relationship with her!

Only 2 nights ago i took a girl to my place, and everytime her bra strap fell off her shoulder, I put it back on her shoulder. I tried to show her that I'm not just there for one thing only. Obviously you guys should make out, coz u need to progress etc. But being a bit more gentle sometimes work better ESPECIALLY for girls who have been hurt before or had bad experiences. Let the sex etc come a bit later, coz it will in time.

Thats just my opinion neway..

I disagree and I used this line of a girl once. Its true so its not really a line. When you know somone Its hard to really let loose. Its hard to be uninhibited because what if you do something crazy and you gotta see them again, ya know. Its much easier to take risks in the bedroom when their will be no consequences if you mess up other than you wont see the girl again...

While as when you know the girl...she probably wants to make love. She probably wants to be appeased. And you usually have a rountine of doing it that you don't want to break making much hard to get into that good ole caveman and cave woman...

fuck her then tell her to make some pancakes....

Waffles are much better.

Thats great advice... same way i think

I agree with the above comment about girls thinking they me slutty if they do get banged str8 away; that could be hazardous to your relationship with her!

Only 2 nights ago i took a girl to my place, and everytime her bra strap fell off her shoulder, I put it back on her shoulder. I tried to show her that I'm not just there for one thing only. Obviously you guys should make out, coz u need to progress etc. But being a bit more gentle sometimes work better ESPECIALLY for girls who have been hurt before or had bad experiences. Let the sex etc come a bit later, coz it will in time.

Thats just my opinion neway..



I THINK THE SAME MAN!!! good advice

Frank, learn to trust your gut/intuition.

The problem is, our gut pales in comparison to our penis.

I personally sleep with girls sooner rather than later. Does it HAVE to be the first night? No. But I'd say either you do it by the 2nd or 3rd...or you are seriously fucked (and I don't mean in the banging way).

The thing is, unfortunately it is easier to go from sex to a deeper connection than the other way around. If you think of it this way, getting to know a girl and all for a long time before you have sex with her has a few disadvantages, like possible friendzone, possibility of her wanting it but you not making the move and her moving on. Whereas if you fuck her as soon as possible, that barrier is broken and you can now progress to potential relationship, be it FWB or a serious relationship.

Obviously there are exceptions, but it is just easier sex first, other stuff later.

I completely agree. I also cannot spend time on an unproven prospect. I'm supposed to wine and dine the girl for how long just to SEE if we're sexually compatible or possibly risk getting friend zoned? I don't know about you guys, but for the man that goes on a lot of dates...this just isn't an option.

Fuck her on the first night if you just wanna feed your hungry cock.
Otherwise wait if you think long-term goals.
I personally went through a phase like that, I got too eager and fucked every chick that let me to on first date. Never ends great.
The emotionless sex itself wasn't that great either. To me it was like jerking myself off, cuz I walked away from the date knowing nothing about the girls I just fucked.

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