Date: 31 May 2012

NEWS


Allright it's a little bit sad that I have summer courses for the next 4 weeks. Because of classes, I can only go on one date and one sarging night each week (like the last 4 months that I've been going out). It sucks balls; although, when I finish these summer classes;

I'll start recording/filming live footages of me infield (blueray camera) and I will go out for 30 days straight. Yes I'm taking on Tyler Durden's challenge, which is 30 nights of Night Game in a row. I'm doing this to explode in results, push myself till I fall off the stairs.

There will be no excuses; only massive action


Keep in touch, some cool stuff are coming up and I want to thank once again everyone who have been giving me their advice. Some guys follow my stuff from a long time. If you have any questions, feel free to ask. I also met some really awesome guys from the forum, so if anyone's interested in meeting, PM me!

I wish you guys the best!

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Your wallet will also explode! Ahaha


But on a more serious note, I'm glad that you're doing this and I can only imagine how good you will be after these 30 nights (Personally, I wouldn't or couldn't do it).

Keep us updated!

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

Best of luck, my jew senses would burst after the first 4-5 days of going, that is unless no cover at the door, than maybe I can do a bit more before i jump hahaha

Best of luck mate, dont forget day game!

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Best of Luck
-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

Ahhh the 30 day challenge.
That's the spirit man, good luck.

Date: 31 May 2012

Members: FlaiR & Corp

Location: Café Campus


NUMBER CLOSE

Alright so basically, this month has been the one that I did the most of my closes so far, with a total of 6 and I’m pretty happy that I’m constantly seeing improvement. This girl is actually the hottest girl that I’ve closed so far, HB in the range of 9. So we get in, go upstairs and sit down. I see across the room this blonde hottie with an ugly friend near her. I started walking towards them, thinking about approaching the obstacle and suddenly I just said fuck that I’m just going to my target. I open, she gives me a smile and former introductions take place. I take a chair and sit down. We start talking and I notice some IOI’s, she’s always leaning in and touching me and my wing came and took great care of the obstacle. He actually sacrificed himself sooooo badly; her friend was even worse looking than I thought and he goes even further by isolating my obstacle somewhere far from me and my girl. I took it immediately as an opportunity to do something fast, so I noticed she has a pretty good level of attraction towards me; I started trying to build comfort and make her notice that I’m not like all the other guys she meets. I tease her a little bit about her age, I tell her she looks 20 and then I said that I just turned 26 last week. She just made a big grin like “no way I don’t believe you”, but then I said that I’m joking and that my birthday was in April. I find out that she too has her birthday in April; gave her a high five, some more escalation and guys start to come in my set. It was hard to have a deep connection or a good conversation when multiple guys came and she introduced me to them, but I did my best. At a certain time, I said to her that we’ll meet later during the night. It’s around 1:30AM and we want to change clubs so I see her on the dance floor. I start hesitating, being a little bitch; saw her hotness than I thought like the music’s really loud near the dance floor, how is she going to hear me and basically newbie stuff that I usually don’t have much of a problem with. I think her looks got to me a little bit. But of course, I had my boy Corp to push my comfort zone. I finally did it, went in and took her number. However, it was not that solid. I wouldn’t say it will flake, but it wasn’t how I usually do. I didn’t even builded a time-bridge, I didn’t even builded a great connection, although we connected on some small level, it wasn’t the amount of comfort that I usually do with a girl. And I didn’t really qualify, which next time, I’ll have to remember that; I completely forgot about qualification! Well anyway, the more that I close, the more reference experience I get and more steps are taken to the path of success.

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Date: 12 June 2012

INSIGHT


I wanted to write about some stuff that I'm lately seeing in a lot of guys and how they let laziness take over their lives. I watched this many times in many guys..this laziness cycle just takes over their actions and it just go deeper and deeper until they give up. I've come to a simple conclusion: 95% of people just don't have what it takes to get good. They want to MINIMIZE time and effort and MAXIMIZE their results. The goal beneath all of their "effort" is to minimize their pain. Their focus is reducing the pain, instead of focusing on the positive aspects and simply acknowledge the negative aspects as things to be learned and to be worked on. People who are lazy associate their "rejection" with their identity, with who they are...they get frustrated...they try again another 20 approaches and than they have the epiphany: "Dude I just can't do this man..I'm having so much anxiety! Girls don't like me I always get rejected This is just not for me " The problem here is their weak sense of reality..they let their ego constantly associate anything negative with their own Identity. They see the present by referring to the past and all the "failures" they had. People need to become CONSCIOUS of this behaviour that can only sabotage their development. I don't understand how people can be so weak and let ANY human being (hot girl or not) mess with their emotions like this. Be in your own reality..stop giving a damn about what people think about you / how they respond to you. See the world through your own eyes. Have no regrets. Only weak people let their own minds take control over their REALITY and their ACTIONS.

To return to what I was saying about laziness. I've noticed that guys who give any kind of small excuse to not go out when they're really new...give up even more easily later on. Now why? Because early on, they're training their brain that when they don't feel the need to go out, they stay at home. And this just becomes a more frequent and frequent habit, resulting in finally always being lazy of going out: "too tired bro; I want to sleep; have to play with my dog; watch tv on the couch" It got to a certain point where I don't even ask people to go out except 1 guy or 2 that I know they will bring their asses out to improve the quality of their lives. I think that life is really short..people need to enjoy it more..start doing crazy stuff..getting out of comfort..smile before going to sleep..acknowledge all the beauty around you. This sounds like some philosophical shit but I find it to be so true.

There's this guy that I met lately..his name's Corp. What does it mean to not give excuses? Read the following:

This guy actually goes out to clubs in a bicycle, which it takes pretty much a lot of time to attend - 40 minutes. By this statement alone..I know 85% of people would not do this on a REGULAR BASIS (3x or more each week). When it rains a LOT, he actually still goes out..he arrives at the destination, goes to the bathroom SOAKED as fuck. And he stays there 1 hour to take his shirt off and squeezing it to remove all the water from it. He puts toilet paper in his shoes because of too much water in them and after that he waits again until he can at least walk to the club. His only criteria for going out is being able to walk; not look good, have money in his wallet, etc. When I've seen this, I cannot say that I didn't got inspired..even if I am the guy that doesn't give excuses, this is the perfect example that shows how much he's driven to achieve success. It's a pleasure for me to work with any people that have this attitude. This is the attitude that gets you success. Actions is the key to success. Life is short..why wait and think "what could've been IF I would've done that?" No bro..do it. You won't regret it.

That's about it..have a great day guys!

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True say, first time I saw corp, I thought he had a lot of work to do and I didn't even know if I'd see him again.

Last time I saw you guys, not only did his game seem a lot better, he seemed genuinely motivated (as opposed to other guys I've seen).

That said, let me know next time you go out you flake

Date: 12 June 2012

Members: FlaiR & Corp

Location: Foufoune Electrique


NUMBER CLOSE

I’m chilling in my room when Corp sends me a message saying that he wants to go out. I love these last minute decisions when they just pop out of nowhere. Of course I decided to get out of the house and see what the universe has to offer for tonight. I come in and I start applying a lot of concepts from RSD, which became really my main source of information and inner mentality. After some fairly good approaches I see two small girls leaning back against a wall so I just say Hi. They looked at me a little bit weird but I looked unaffected as hell…I was in a really good state. One of them says to the other that I look like one of their friends so I ask if he’s good looking…she says “Yeah, he looks pretty good”. Well of course I took that as an IOI and I immediately just locked in between them leaning back. At this point, the less hotter is just super interested and she starts hitting on me a lot. I go with the flow and do the same…but I look to my left and see the other girl looking bored that she’s not getting engaged, but she’s really much hotter than I thought. So I just switch targets without even thinking lol. I start completely ignoring her friend and another guy comes in and takes care of the obstacle for me, so that was good. Now my new target is really shy. I was getting good responses from her and her body language was becoming more and more open the further we talked…however, I noticed that she wasn’t making any efforts to continue the conversation. If I would’ve stopped talking, she would just look around or wonder on her cell phone. Now, from experience, this is not necessarily a good thing but I don’t understand because she was touching me, leaning in, smiling and laughing at the things I said. So I asked her if she’s really shy and she said yeah. I guess if a girl doesn’t put a lot of effort to initiate conversational topics but gives you IOI’s…maybe that means she’s shy. Or was she just faking it to just be nice to a guy?? I don’t know it’s kind of hard to tell because I’ve never had this. I asked her what she was doing next week and I told her we should hang out. She says to me that she’s cool with going out, but she’ll bring her friend (my first target) with her and she asks if I’m ok with that. I don’t give a shit to be honest…I took her number and wish them a good night. I’m curious to see what will happen.

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Date: 15 June 2012

Members: FlaiR & Corp

Location: Ivy Nightclub & BlueDog


KISS CLOSE + NUMBER CLOSE

So I get in this club for the first time, it looks nice and girls are really hot. I think lately, in Montreal…when I go out…my head just explodes of how many hot girls just fill up the streets and clubs. So I see some pretty awesome girls there and decided to stay at Ivy. Now a lotttt of guys starting entering the place the club was filled with 80% guys so we had to make something out of it. Corp approaches a 2set and because his obstacle is getting bored to death, I go in and occupy her. However, I was not in state…and I thought she was reallyy fuckable (blonde with blue eyes)…so I started being a little pussy outcome dependent and wondering if I’m doing ok. Well that quickly telegraphs that I’m seeking approval and I go fuck damn it…I’m trying to get out of it and I try a cold read which goes completely not good so after that I go out to take a deep breath, it just pissed me off that I didn’t played solid game. Corp comes out with me and after a while we get in. Now because I was a little bit mad about my last set, the first set I see I just jump into it. The girl looked cute (in the dark lol). I just said “Hi you look lost” We start talking and start dancing… I quickly get an IOM and I go for the kiss. She gives me the check so I just smile and keep dancing…I do this I don’t know how many times…like at least 10 times to be honest to a point where I was just like fuck that I’m ejecting I’m wasting time, I’m trying one more time. Well it worked, we kissed. It was ok…not bad. After our interaction I go talk to Corp and when I come back I’m seeing that my girl’s not the hottest girl ever hehe fuck. I re-open…dance a little bit and it turns me on…she was moving her ass really good so the dick wins the battle here even if she wasn’t hot I ‘m like fuck that, just have some fun. At the end I took her number (I don’t know why I did that). But again, why not taking her number? Just practicing my skills and upgrading them the fastest that I can. Now something really funny happened.
I met Sticky Fingers and he tells me to come to BlueDog. We get in…I barely got in like 30 sec and this mature chick is near me. She gets in front of me and starts to open my shirt slowly saying something like: “What are you doing? Unbutton your shirt more, it’s much sexier, more girls will come to you”. Now I have a tank top beneath my shirt and she starts to pull it towards her. I’m like what the fuck is going on?! She gets in my face and starts flirting non-stop, saying stuff like: “You’re hot…I would like to fuck a young guy like you, I would give you 23…I’m 39 by the way” At this point I see she’s a little bit drunk AND her boyfriend was just near her (she was whispering this to my ear lol). So I look at him I’m like what the fuck he just doesn’t even care that he’s girlfriend is completely on me. To be honest…I know I should’ve instantly closed right on the spot. But her boyfriend being there I just ejected saying that I will come to talk to her later in the night. Later that night, I need to go and she’s with some guy at a table. I approach and tell her to take my number. But she hesitated…was looking at her boyfriend and all and she said no blabla I’m young or some stuff I didn’t even listen I just got out. Pretty funny lool I had to write this down.

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dude, i really enjoy reading ur posts. u r gonna be something else in the future. major inspiration right here.

Date: 21 June 2012

Members: FlaiR & Corp

Location: Radio Lounge and Street


INSTANT STREET KISS CLOSE – NC + KISS CLOSE

#1: After following a lot RSD lately, because it fits so well in my style…I watched videos of Julien and Tyler making instant kiss closes so I thought that was awesome. We’re walking and I see on the other side of the street 2 girls who yell something out and I hear the word birthday. I just cross the street running go in front of them and open my arms to the girl who was her birthday implying that I want a hug. She comes to me with a smile, I give her the hug saying: “Happy birthday” She says: “Thank youuu” I grab her jaw and I just make out. She releases pretty fast so I just smile, keep my cool and pull her in towards me. I put her arms around me and kiss her again. Now her group of friends catch up with her and a dude is like: “Wtff please tell me you know this guy right??” lol pretty funny, but it looks like attraction level was through the fucking roof. I number closed afterwards and she even said that we’ll meet soon. Awesome what a nice body she had. It was awesome that my wing got with the other chick (her friend) too; we’re making a great team lately, I’m really impressed by the stuff this guy pulls when he just started out like 6 weeks ago.

#2: Now this is fucking weird. Wow. There’s a huge fucking set like…10 girls? I approach situational because one of the girls was having her bachelorette party. They were all old though, but I spot between them a nice girl with big tits around my age. I go introduce myself and I was just really physical right off the bat. Super physicality…I saw attraction again going through the sky in about 3-4 min. I just say to her: “Alright we need to do something crazy tonight. Let’s get married!” She’s like: “Fuck yeah!” I go: “Awesome…but before we marry we have to at least kiss” Again…grab her jaw and just make out. She liked it a lot…we keep teasing, danced a little bit, it was going great! Now I see she thinks of something like really deep. She’s not focusing on me anymore (after like maybe 10-15minutes). I go: “What’s up?” She says nothing. Ok whatever…it was kind of late and I wanted to see the chick that I instantly made out with because she was texting me to meet her. So I go grab this chick’s number and I ask for it. I’m like “I want to get your number” She just looks at me in a weird way and says: “What? Fuck off!” (she made a face like she didn’t even knew me, like I just popped out of somewhere asking her). Now I still have a fair level of experience with “shit-tests” so I made sure I don’t even flinch. I just kept eye contact, showed that it didn’t affected, but didn’t know what the fuck to respond. I tried just changing the subject but she just looked away mad. I’m like what the fuck is going on here??!! First time that this happens to me, but I don’t really have time to waste so I just eject. I still don’t understand, we were making out pretty hard and I was making sure I wasn’t just making out. I was switching from that to building comfort, but I have to admit lately I’m a maniac of attraction I love hitting up through the roof and seeing it happen and I know I have to back off a little bit and add in a little bit more comfort here and there.

Well anyway…awesome night, we did a lot of approaches on the street too. I almost pulled a girl home who was sitting down on the street. Taking action is just the most awesome feeling you can have I love it. I’m also getting warmed up for my 30 day consecutive nights which I want to start the 1st of July.

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Date: 22 June 2012

Members: FlaiR & Corp

Location: Clubs on Crescent


KISS CLOSE + NUMBER CLOSE

I get in this nightclub and my night until this point is normal, but I was in pretty good state. I walk and I see a 4 set and a small blonde girl. I open speaking in French but she didn’t understand because she only spoke English and I barely had time to transition and start speaking in English that she was already gone. So I’m like damn, anyway I go on the dance floor and to be honest, I don’t even remember how I opened this girl, I think I gave her a spin and we started dancing…she was really getting into it so I kissed her pretty fast like maybe 4min. Now I notice that the blonde girl that didn’t speak French is in her group of her friends so she’s looking at me with a smile. Now I isolate a little bit and all her group of her friends just come near us and just non-stop stalk us. I understand that they want to protect their friend…but still…it kind of pissed me off, because the blonde girl just came and tried grabbing my girl major cock block. I knew it coming so she barely touched the arm of my girl and I was already in between her, put my back to the blonde so she’s locked out and I move my girl farther away saying: “She’s mine!” She was really locked out so she went to her group of stalkers enjoying the show of me and my girl. So I isolate once more at the bar this time…they come again so at this point calibration kicks in, I know that I can’t keep doing this they’re at the limit of getting really pissed and just drag her away from me so I engaged them and be-friended them which was good…they gave us much more space afterwards. We go outside because it was too hot inside and I once again make sure they have a nice impression of me so I make introduction with them, shake hands exchange names and now I’m on their side so I isolate completely my girl. We were having some awesome insides about getting married and stuff so it was pretty fun. I builded a time bridge, got her number, tell her that she should give me a hickey, I kiss her some more, than at the end I tell her that she’s got enough…she needs to see me next week in order to keep this going on which she definitely agreed. Pretty awesome!

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Date: 23 June 2012

Members: FlaiR & Corp

Location: Everywhere


PULLING TOURISTS

This is the most awesome night that I had since the beginning of my journey. What an awesome freaking adventure night seriously wow. I’m going to first start this by saying that lately I’ve been going out a LOT. 4 hours each night at least doing approach after approach with my wing…so tonight was our 3rd night in a row of intense “gaming”. I never felt in my entire fucking life so much in the zone. So we were on fire non-stop it was really awesome. We first start the night with my wing having a date with a hot chick he picked up 2 days ago and she brought 2 friends so I played it nice for him trying to do the most that I can to keep the obstacles occupied and we get at their house. At their house we eat and it’s getting a little bit late, Corp wanted to fuck her and then leave so we can close some new chicks to have even more options. Now he asks her to give him the tour of the house and she’s like ok but she asks me if I want the tour too. I say no I’m really tired and they go away. I take their friends, put just for laughs and increase the volume up so the girl with Corp can be assured that we’re not going to hear them if they get it on. I see them walking back and I see him just push her in a room at the last minute lol it was pretty funny the guy comes out later and we’re like: “Dudee the poker game starts soon! We told Jeffy we’re going to be there we paid the fucking entry let’s go!” 5 min afterwards we’re out of their house laughing…poor girl I’m sure she felt like a slut she even gave him resistance for sex but anyway we walk towards the clubs.

We start doing our thing on the street and it’s even more awesome than going to clubs so we hit it on with a 2 set and they invite us in a bar. I was down for one girl of the two, after a while I number closed and we went again on the street. There I learned a lot of new lessons…both my wing and me were getting it on with awesome good looking chicks, but we were messing up at the end of the interaction or something would happen that we wouldn’t have the time to ask for the number. We go to Tokyo, but it sucked balls so we decided to go to Campus where I was getting it on with a hot blonde and I was going to number close (was getting my phone out) until a guy who was her friend just comes in grabs her hand and pulls her away and I’m like REALLY locked out. I tried re-engaging but I just seemed try-hard and she lost attraction almost immediately. Motherfucker lol. Now kind of like the same thing happens again with a small brunette and I’m just pissed.

We go eating and then we’re calling it a night…we were walking slowly and I turn my head I see a 3 set. I just say hi...it was really smooth…actually we made it so smooth that we just started naturally walking with them to their hotel. I learned about logistics that they were going to leave tomorrow so this is perfect one girl also tells me that we should stop by a little bit and watch a movie…I pick a target, my wing is already hooking up with the hottest of the 3 and we start just walking towards the hotel. Now we get in, go on the couch. My initial target is not down for me…I learn she has a boyfriend in France and shit so the other girl is just not good looking, but I’m like fuck that Corp was already taking his shirt off on the couch near me so I told the blonde to give me a massage. 2min after I put her on top of me and we start making out. Now the hotel apartment was fucking small and only one fucking bed. And another roommate comes in, with a guy that picked her up and she’s fat like an orange and the fat bird takes the room with the bed!! I’m like wow…the comfort level is not enough these girls are not fucking with us in the same room. I try pulling my girl to the bathroom so I smash her against the kitchen fridge and I take my shirt off I’m super hard at this point so I go for the bathroom but she says wait. I’m like what? And I notice that Corp’s getting LMR with his girl on the couch. She doesn’t want to take off her panties even though he already fingered her…he tries to escalate even more so she just gets up and leaves on the balcony. Now my girl does the same. We both look each other like what the fuckkk?! So we wait a while and one the third roommate just comes saying that we need to leave and shit. So we’re like wow ok we dress up and get the fuck out. We were pissed because we were both horny and really almost there, but it was just an awesome night. We started laughing and we just realized how smooth we were from the approach to the actual meet up at the hotel. We “waked up” being there like what the fuck is going on we’re going to fuck these chicks – way too much in the zone. I live for nights like this…it was awesome! I’m really starting to do awesome stuff, lately I’ve been closing a lot and I’m seeing that I’m soon going to level up in something really tight.

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Nice Report.

Date: 28 June 2012

Members: FlaiR & Corp

Location: Street & Radio Lounge


2 KISS CLOSES + NUMBER CLOSE

#1: After some normal approaches on the street, we get in Radio Lounge and we see some nice sets. I see a hot chick dressed up in a school uniform with high heels and I’m like fuckkk I started getting in my head and it took me some time to just stand near the bar looking at her, until I finally just realized how my ego once again tries to tell me what to do. I just take off and go in her direction and I’m physical right off the bat. I see that she’s hesitant, but hell she has her hands wrapped around me so I plowed till it just hooked, I learned she loves soccer so after that it went well. Her friends left us alone, so I took the chance of kissing her and this is again really weird, but I think I now understand why girls do this. After some time that I kiss her, although we had a great conversation and it looked like we were both vibing pretty well, I asked for the number because she had to leave, and she just didn’t gave it to me. Same thing as last week, so I realized that it’s important to have an awesome personality but to also give her reasons to why she should come into your world. Some girls it’s just not enough, she just thinks you’re another cool guy at the club, why the fuck she should see you again.

#2: This is one of the main reasons that I purely love the game. My night wasn’t that good…other than my kiss close I did some approaches…went kind of well, sometimes normal sometimes really bad, like the girl almost runs away from me haha. So I get out of Radio Lounge because it was too hot and I’m sitting outside and I’m thinking about my night like fuck what could’ve I’ve done to have a better result and I see a two set getting out of the club. Now they are being asked by two chodes near me if they have a lighter and they actually use that as an excuse and start hitting on them really badly. They walk away from them and when they pass near me I’m like: “I’m sorry, do you have a lighter?” (imitating the voice of the guy that approached them). They both laugh and I immediately transition, and shake hands with my target. Now I do the 60 year challenge handshake and fuck this girl did not remove her hand. I literally mean, she did not remove her hand for all of our conversation, like she even forgot that we were still holding hands. So shortly after, maybe like 3 min in I stop talking, look at her hand, place it behind my neck and I kiss her. And I hear her friend say like: “DAMN IT! It’s never me!” Haha lol I started laughing, she gave us some time and I started building some comfort with a lot of making out. I went for the pull, but her logistics fucked me up she had to drive her friend to 45min away from Montreal. So I was stuck with a number and a kiss, but this girl is really down, her face is actually gorgeous. If she would’ve been just a little bit thinner I would be like wow, but she’s a cool chick I want to see her next week. So basically, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT’S GOING TO HAPPEN during a night. My night was sucking balls and I decided to just do one last approach and BAM…awesome! This is not the first time that this happens to me so it’s actually pretty cool when you think you’re ending up with nothing and end up with a new girl at the end.

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