Okay guys, I'm pretty good with girls. Because usually I can approach regularly day'n night and pretty natural with girls and dont afraid to lose them. But now there's only one girl that's 9 in my whole city! So I really like her and feeling pretty AFC-ish, if I were in my old city I would deffenitely much relaxed, alpha and attractive because SHE WILL NOT ONLY HB9 IN WHOLE CITY !?



my motivation is "if you really want to get that girl, you shouldn't afraid to lose that girl"

which makes me more alpha and pushy... but shes only HB9 in city I'm living...
other girls here are 5-7... only few 8... no 9 or 10....

relax. Keep going out. I'm sure there's more 9's. It's almost the same in Oklahoma City...almost nothing here. 1-2 decent sets per bar. It's no fun coaching out here because the pressure is too high.

In the meantime, differentiate yourself from other guys. Arrange to "run into" her vs texting and setting up formal dates. And kino escalate every chance you get.

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first interact :
at bank, daytime, I approached and started indirect than told my intention. (lets grab a coffee later) number closed. (my bodylanguage was obivious that im sexually attracted to her)

second interact (date) :
at coffee house, I was pretty cool and relaxed. KINO was not good... but my facial expression and handling awkward silence was great. pressure was on her that night.
I screened her. She did the most talking but I was leading.

asked her to bounce to other place and have one cocktail but she turned me down and asked me to "lets do it later pls"

moment we're aparting she was trying to tell me something like "I had a great night..blah blah" but I was like okay give me a HUG! but she gaved me her hand so I grabbed her hand and transited to big hug. boobs on my chest I was squeezing her to my self ... she liked it, noting creepy !

(we're asian, and in my country hugging is not normal! peoples dont hug ...its big deal lol)

and whole time I wasn't being so friendly social with her (like I'm happy ur here, even if you're not gonna sex me atleast friendzone me!)
I was more likely smooth , slow , sexual.

third interact (runned in to each other) :
daytime, she was walking fast for something. I ran to her and greeted. chit chated 3-5min and asked her got any plans on friday ? she told me she got friends birthday and saturday she got full day job... then told me she might free on sunday
so I told her great I'll call you on sunday. and while I leaving I told her "you look amazing" (not expecting answer or reaction but she looks amazed and said tnx)

then on sunday I called her but she didnt answered.... than like wednesday i called her and still no response !?

I can say shes pretty attracted to me. and I dont know she got BF or what... I never ask such things and she didnt mentioned it. so I guess she dont have any.
and other guys in city I living.... they are baaad.... LOL I'm the shit in here.

I think the reason you have felt so confident in the past is because mentally you have valued other woman in your town lower than you've valued yourself. It's good that you are continuing attracting her but my worry comes in when I have realized that she is pushing you off to a Sunday date and works a full time job. She is setting up scenarios where she has an out...

This comes back to how you value yourself. confidence is everything. That's why we see "smoke shows" with average douche bags...You've made it all about her, no negs...it sounds like if she is truly the hottest girl in your city that very little people have ever told her anything but "that you're beautiful".

My advice is that you need to inflate your value, because right now I see a lot of chasing...and nothing has been reciprocated yet..

-TA

okay guys. lately my game was pretty Natural... like no game.

no neg
no push'n pull
no jealousy tactic
no tactics
no deep talk (manipulation)

lately I was like so confident with myself and stopped most of things... my game was like

30% attraction code (being relaxed, genuine, being real)
30% 60years of challenge (sexuality, mutual caressing, no useless kino)
30% real social dynamic videos (being who I am)
10% others

so I dont DHV story or routine anymore, because it makes me feel like looking for approval.

and I think now I need to step up my game... I was so high with my self and stopped new things. gotta learn some more I guess, no i want.

What do you, live in a village populated by 20 people?

There is absolutely no way she is the only 9. Go out more often and actively search.

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no I'm serious... I study in China, and its not big city like beijing or shanghai. its shitty city with lots of ugly peoples.

and HB9 is from same country i came from....

chinese girls are
I saw 8 and opened her directly using my awful chinese and she got armpit hair LONGER than mine! .... god..

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guys plz help .... im desperate for her.

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Excuse my awful English !!!

Game her like you would any other girl.

If you try anything new/different, you're only in greater chance of fucking up because you've never tried it and risk getting too much in your head.

So whatever you've been doing with any other girl, do with this one.

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