I'll post here NC's, KC's and FC's starting today. Sometimes, I'll also post insights and personal thoughts about my own development.

If you feel the need to give me advice, compliment me or insult me, please comment bellow. My posts are not to please any of you guys. Keep that in mind and enjoy this thread!

I wish everyone good success in life!

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Date: 10 May 2012

Members: FlaiR & T_Rex

Location: Radio Lounge


NUMBER CLOSE


I’m at the bar, screening out the place. I see a 4 set a little bit near me dancing in a circle. I saw 2 HB’s that looked fairly good so I started thinking about a way to approach. However, I noticed how one of these two turned around 2-3 times to look at me for a sec. I clearly saw the sign, so now I’m just thinking if I can approach with a situational opener to be-friend the friends also and suddenly 2 clowns get on the poles and start messing around doing gestures at my set. Perfect. I immediately go to my target, I barely opened my mouth and she was already facing me with a smile. I say something like: “These guys are douche…your friends with them?” She laughs and says: “I agree…no, no we’re not friends”. While she said that, she actually put her arm around my waist so major IOI. I tell her that’s my friend’s birthday and I mini-isolate for 2min at the bar, where I kino the hell out of her, my hand was already just above her ass in a short amount of time. I than take her by the hand and head off on the dance floor. We start dancing and I noticed how her body was fucking awesome, I got turned on and again I start to escalate a lot, however she is a little bit insecure when I go for the kiss. I kiss her check and after a while, I wanted to have a good isolation so I can build a connection also. I take her by the hand, however I feel resistance. I say to her: “Come just a sec I want to talk to you”. Because the music was so damn loud she was hearing: “Come I want to buy you a drink”. So she tells me: “No, No drink!” I repeat that I just want to talk and now she gets a little bit pissed…she makes an excuse to go to her friends and I just say to her that we’ll talk later in the night. The night goes on and I want to head home. I see she’s sitting down on the edge of the stage. I sit near and I re-open. Talk about her passions in life (gymnastics), a little bit of comfort and afterwards, I get up to prepare to leave and say: “Alright I have to go. Give me your number” She didn’t even hesitated so it was pretty good. The girl has a reallyy great body and her face is pretty good also.

Well that’s about it…I did nothing spectacular. Just basic body language reading (approach invitation) and just going in with confidence. Sometimes, that’s all it takes.

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Date: 11 May 2012

Members: FlaiR

Location: Café Campus


KISS CLOSE + NUMBER CLOSE

I was alone in field, nobody with me. I warmed up a little bit, but I noticed how the fact that I wasn’t having any friends just made me a little bit awkward and un-calibrated in my first 3 sets. Hot girls started coming in the place and I felt this resistance to keep going, which I never feel when I’m with a wing. I go to the bathroom, focus on what I need to do and get out of it really calm. I see fear as this fucking disease that comes to creep on you when you need to act in a certain way that usually you don’t. I fucking hate letting fear win, so I see a pretty good looking 2 set sitting down at a table. I go in. I just open with: “Hey!” *pause* “How are you guys?” They respond normal. Not good, but not bad either. I transition smoothly and I give a FTC while taking a chair sitting down near my target. So basically, I started talking about the most boring topics ever, just focusing on comfort, not even attraction. But the way I talk and the emotions I exude are keeping their attention 100% at me. My obstacle realized that I liked her friend so she basically didn’t talked anymore and just turned around. While I’m constantly talking, I’m sexually escalating all the time. Every 5 sec, non-stop. I can sense she’s starting to like that and she starts to be attracted to me because she’s returning my kino. Now I builded only comfort for a lot of time. It’s time to break rapport and show her I’m not here to be her friend. I started teasing her, pushing her around, being very playful. I can see attraction starting to build up, so I go for an IOM. I make an excuse to give her a high five. She gives the high five and after our hands touched, I did not remove it to see her reaction. For 1 sec or 2 (really subtle cue) her palm stayed in contact with mine so that’s it. I said to myself that it’s game over let’s close this. I was slowly building up the kiss but her friend says she wants to dance. I go on the dance floor, 3 min afterwards, make out. She fucking bite my lips so hard man lol. Anyway, after that we go sit again and this is really funny what happened! We kiss and we get really into it, but the chairs in Café Campus are fucking small. So we slipped and fell down; like big time!! Wow lol I thought I would feel humiliated, but I actually started laughing like hell because people came and got us up. I spend the entire night with her, alternating from kissing to building rapport. I builded a time-bridge for next week, got her number and leaved afterwards.

This girl is so fucking sexy damn it I’m so excited to see her! This is the first time that I closed 2 girls in 2 days one after the other. I get better and better, I'll break this LMR sticking point I have.

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Good job FP,

Some of you guys are going to be pick up beasts in a few years! Just a few things you might consider to end your LMR. To be honest sex is really not that big a deal. I know its easier to say than internalize for us over-analyzing introvert types , but right now in the western world women are giving it up easier than they ever have in history.

Your basically doing the hard part in opening, & gaining confidence through an activity outside of pick up will always be a valuable source of willpower. Remember the faster you get consistent lays, the more credibility you will get for your hyper focus method! LoL

Seriously though your determination is quite motivating.

take care dude,

I was there

Tall guy, green shirt, black hat, with a small blond?

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

Bloopers exposed haha... Good to see you back bro, I should really get back into mine I am just so lazy haha!

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Best of Luck
-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

Date: May 14 2012

SOCIAL EXPERIMENTS


MIXED SETS - BOYFRIENDS


Alright 2 nights ago, I was with T_Rex at Radio Lounge. I see a hot girl (bartender) dancing alone near us. Good quality girl. I tell him to approach, he says she has a boyfriend (she was with a group of guys and girls). I remember a meeting I had with Tenmagnet and he said that 95% of mixed sets are not boyfriends, but pure social masturbation that guys put in their head. He also said that in 10 years of approaching he never got in a fight or beaten up, because when he approaches he always bring value to the conversation (or something like that) I look at the girl, look at her group of friends, big fucking guys but hey I want to experiment. I go in, just say hi. She immediately smiles and introduces herself to me. 2 min talk and I ask: "You have a boyfriend?" She says: "No not at all I'm just with some friends partying, I'm a bartender" I say thanks have a great night. There was no guy who JUMPED on me or even looked bad at me. Again, saying hi and being social cannot get you in a position where someone just punches you. If let's say the girl has a boyfriend and the guy doesn't want you there, just eject politely. Do these mixed sets, you will gain a lot of experience and lately, I've been opening guys also. I noticed how if you befriend the guys they actually introduce you to their girls. Us bros, we respect each other if you show respect in the first place. With the last set I closed in my last FR, there's this guy who comes (we're at a table) and just gets in front of me puts his back to me and starts to engage my girls, like I don't even exist and I was holding hands with my target. I felt fucking disrespected so I cock blocked the shit out of him, send him on his way home. If he would've been nice, I wouldn't give a shit. So that made me realize how important it is to at least be respectful and acknowledge everyone.


BUYING DRINKS

It is known in this community to not buy drinks to girls you didn't even talked to, for many good reasons. However, the last set I closed at Café Campus...both girls were pretty hot. I got a front row seat in how women get drinks for free. There's a group of 6 chodes near us where we're sitting down. Suddenly, this guy comes and asks to buy them drinks...I'm like ok I know this is mean, but I convinced the girls to see how much these guys are willing to pay for them. Oh my goodness they bought 16 shots for us and 2 really big glasses of beer!!!(they also bought for me ) I'm like what the fuck?!?! Man that's a lot of $, so I felt bad for one dude who paid all lol. But the thing is, the girls didn't give a single fuck about them, even though they paid all this $. And the guy kept bringing alcohol like a little monkey obeying his master. So again, this proves how spending money like an idiot is not going to get you the girl, don't be weak and use $ as a tool. I also learned that girls have such an easy clubbing life compared to us lol.

Anyway, I purely love social experiments, I'll be doing more of these.


To MrMatt Bro I didn't saw you I was busy with my sets lol I get really focused when I'm in field, I try to be in a bubble and look pre-occupied to show that I'm not there to approach girls. Hopefully, we'll meet up one day!

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In regards to drinks happens to me all the time, I love getting free alcohol, I even get girls some nights to buy me and of course the average chode. It is amazing!

Bro I might be going up to montreal this summer, if so we partying, gaming, drinking, and chillin like a boss!!

Matt you better come out with us as well.

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Best of Luck
-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

Date: 19 May 2012

Members: Flair, T_Rex, Corp & Vodka

Location: Tokyo


2 NUMBER CLOSES + KISS CLOSE

#1: I was checking out the place alone…when I see a hot blonde standing alone at the bar. I go near her, open: “Hey how are you?” We talked for 2min and I noticed she’s really good friends with the bartender. She comes and I talk to both of them…and she shit-tests me saying that she’s her girlfriend. I say: “Really? That’s awesome…I actually have a boyfriend at home but I’m getting so sick of him. We fight a lot sometimes, I’m just tired of it…you understand what I’m saying here?” Both of them laughed and my girl starting engaging me afterwards. I learn she came alone, because her friends are in another club and she wanted to come see the bartender. I go: “Awww that’s so cute! You’re a loner! You don’t even have any friends” (perfect opportunity for good kino escalation). After that, I started getting more IOI’s…she started leaning in, playing with her hair, etc. She leaved, came back afterwards. I re-engage, however I notice that the second time that she came…my sexual energy was not present. I was lacking the usual sexual component I have with girls I desire. I kind of builded more comfort, until I got to the point where I knew she was genuinely interested. I number closed and got out of the set. She’s like a solid 8.5 – 9 blonde and I think maybe because she was hot, I kind of back downed a little bit on the sexuality. I just woke up after 10 min in set (the 2nd time that she came back) that holy shit I need to amp the sexuality up a little bit and do what I did more before she left. Anyway, I’m glad because the girl’s quality and we’ll see where I can take this.

#2: Now this one was the complete opposite of the HB blonde that I closed. I see a 4 set (1 guy, three girls). I approach one that I don’t want. I learn that the hottest one is celebrating her birthday. Great; I go to her, wish her happy birthday and get two kisses from her on my checks. I immediately just physically put my body between the set and her so that my obstacles are out. I start getting really fucking sexual and I quickly notice she returns the aggressive kino. I start to dance for…15 sec, than I tell her: “Omg you don’t know how to dance seriously” Look her deep in the eye. “You know what?” Her: “What?” Me: “You’re really fucking sexy…” Her: “Why thank you” I just grab her head; make out. 3 sec later, she removes and says: “Oh god I have a boyfriend, he couldn’t came today” So I said something like: “Oh don’t worry I have a boyfriend too…he’s currently at home chilling out” She starts to laugh and I pull her close to me going for the kiss once again. She verbally says no but her body is all over me. I take my phone out, put her name and ask her number. She puts her hands around me and whispers in my ear her number…I say to her that I’ll text her soon and I get out. It took approximately 4 min for this to happen. I mean…really fast really sexual…she’ll maybe have buyer’s remorse who the fuck knows what will happen, I’m curious to see if it can go anywhere.

After 1 hour that this happened, just for trying out new stuff, I texted both of these girls the following:

“Hey watch out…cops outside. You should hide
- FlaiR (sexy guy you just met)”

The blonde responded pretty quickly, but the other one as I expected, didn’t. Maybe tomorrow? I don’t know but I had a blast!

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Date: 26 May 2012

KISS CLOSE (having trouble getting it up)


I’m supposed to have a date with this girl that I kissed 2 weeks before and who has a boyfriend; I make sure she’s still in and she says she wants to see me. It’s around midnight; I go to the place where we’re supposed to meet but she’s not there…well anyway I get my phone and text another girl that I’m coming at her house in 15 minutes. This one I number closed a long time ago, but never made a move on her. I drive to her house…chat her up a little bit, making sure I’m sexually escalating; I’m down for a lay. Short while after, she starts to qualify sexually to me…like a lot! We talked about sex for a while so I said to myself that I’m in. She starts to show more interest, it gets to a certain point where she just sits on me. I kiss her and she’s like: “Damn it why did it take you so long??” lol I said I just love being a tease so anyway. Just another element I think it’s interesting to throw in here…it was hard to see if this girl was “attracted” to me, simply because she looked like a nice girl, who’s nice to everyone. So I was a little bit hesitant, and I tried looking for more subtle cues. The sexual qualification thing sealed the deal; however I think it’s important I mention another one: huge amount of investment. I would say/do nothing at all…yet she will invest so much in our interaction. I would ask a normal boring question like: “can you dance?” She answers, but then starts investing as fuck just talking and talking about how she can dance, or any other topic, even the weather. I think I could count all the times that I opened my mouth to speak. So yeah anyway, we get in bed, start making out, undress. My dick is hard at the beginning…now I have condoms in my shirt so I look for my shirt lol when I find it, I’m soft. Whatever some foreplay, I’m hard…I open the condom…I’m soft. WTF?!?! I wasn’t stressed or anything, I was pretty relaxed; it already happened to me once but that time I was having anxiety because the girl was supposed to leave for Ney York in 2 hours. So my night with this chick was a constant battle between me and my dick…getting it up and getting soft. I started being frustrated and I immediately tried to calm down. My girl helped me too, I really liked that she was saying that I don’t need to rush we’re going to do this in the morning if I can’t. Finally, we decided to sleep. However, in the morning I receive a text saying that I need to bring the car to my house. Fuck man…so we get up…didn’t got laid but she said next week we’re seeing each other. I mean….what the fuck it’s kind of frustrating man…I also wanked not long before going to her house and I know that’s my fucking fault. Even if I did get hard, if I was more excited by not wanking, maybe it would’ve helped a LOT to stay hard. I said to myself that I’m wanking not more than 1 time each week, like seriously, this is it; no more wanking for me. I look forward to seeing this chick next week.

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Well that's still a lay in my book; you just didn't get the benefits

As for the dick problems, a lot of the meditation stuff we talk about can help it. Also, read SexGodMethod by Dan Rose, good book on that.

Try to not think at all and just act super in the moment, focus on your breathing. Breathe really fast and irregularly if you want to cum faster and really slow and regularly if you want to delay it. If you don't feel attracted enough, just focus on an attractive quality she has.

This is not a lay.

When you know a girl wants to kiss you but you don't do it, is it still a kiss, in your book?

Anyways,

Mr V, I notice that this is the second time in a row that something similar happens to you. I would come to the conclusion that it's was still because of anxiety, but maybe it is like you said, because you wanked earlier.

Do you have this kind of problem when you are on your own?

1- If I was you, I'd work a lot on my immersion when I'm with a girl, that way, I can't get soft in a matter of seconds. Read Daniel Rose Sex God Method for more information on the subject, this book worth reading, trust me.

2- The only other thing that I think it could be is the condom issue... Did you try using condoms before? Some condoms really squeeze your dick and most people get soft afterwards. Maybe switch condom brand? Maybe try using condom and wank off with one just to get used to the feeling? Or simply ask the girl you are with to put it for you, that way you wont get soft?

Seriously, I'm just throwing ideas, hope you'll fix your problem soon!


Oh, and by the way, you should always have 2-3 condoms on you. In case you want to do a round 2, lose one or morning sex

MrMatt

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

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