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Ok,Although it was effective on girls who I was in touch with and lost connection for while, I won't send it.
I texted her : " hi X,this is Y. How are you doing girl?"
No response after 3 hours. I know the text is boring especially after 4 days.
But I thought she liked me.What happens was: she got my phone and put her number in my phone and called her number. Probably she didn't save my number.
So what should I do now?
I don't do a lot of text game, I don't care for it much myself. But I can offer from personal experience on what worked for me when a guy used a similar tactic.
I think sexy pictures are great in the right context. I had a guy send me a picture of him at the gym looking extremely good with the caption "So you don't forget what I look like." Had me smitten.
I'm going to say you had a missed opportunity, you sent an especially boring text. When I get texts like these I usually read them, then toss my phone aside, unless I really like the guy. I think texting her back tonight would come off as a little desperate, but as a female I don't think sending a picture of yourself would come off as creepy. Maybe try again tomorrow with a fresh outlook, maybe look through some text game material. The texts I'm usually more inclined to respond to are the ones that bring up something we've talked about.
I went out with this guy who was teasing me like crazy after I gave him the green light and went pervy on him (lol) said something along the lines of "Oh I'd love to give you a bath. Just pamper and spoil you, rub you down and lather you up. Dry you off and then pick you up and carry you to the bed then we could...play a really bitchin game of Yugioh." I didn't hear from him for 2 or 3 days (gave him my number) and then I got a random text that said "Up for a game of yugioh?"
Maybe try bringing something up you talked about that will associate a positive/sexual/tension memory of you to the text if you got that far.
How much had you spoken to the guy from the gym before though? I'd have though you would needed to have already felt quite a lot of attraction/chemistry to like that, but I'll take your word on it given that you're a female and I'm not!
The bit in bold at the bottom is good advice though. Having an 'inside joke' or some sort of connection is a great way of building rapport, no reason why that shouldn't be the same for text game. I actually got something similar sent to me the other day. I'd lost contact with a girl I was seeing towards the end of last year, but then out of the blue she text me saying 'wow I'm almost as bad as staying in contact as you are at bowling'. We had been bowling on one of our early dates and she beat me (I played the "letting her win" card, but she wasn't having it), and something like that is a really good way of having a hook to get the conversation going but also to relate back to that person and create a sense of comfort.
That's why I added the "In the right context" bit. Looking back on that whole situation I'm about 80% sure he was a PUA, or had at least a basic understanding of tactics when I think about what he said and did. He had built attraction but the picture was sent after only about a week while I was at work. We had a "not date" because we both felt awkward being set up by a mutual friend and it was fun, so yes my situation is entirely different. Kept my mind on him all night. With that being said, the OP said that he "thought he did a good job and she liked him" (I paraphrased) so if he was confident he established that, then no, a picture isn't creepy. As I mentioned, it may seem
desperate, but not creepy. Creepy would be "conveniently" showing up at her work, or calling her from a private number with heavy breathing. Sending a picture isn't. He said he didn't care if it was AFC, just didn't want to be creepy. I wouldn't send a picture with another chick, that's an obvious "haha are you jealous?" move.
And yes, always good to draw from experience. The little texting I do, I always pick something that happened from the night we met and highlight it. I'm just impatient though, so I always hint that I'm available a certain day and cut off the texting or tell them to call me.
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