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PostPosted: Sun May 20, 2012 11:10 am 
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Fuuuuuuuuuuu! Does this happen to anyone else! So fucking awkward. We're about to have sex (on an oval), I put on the condom, and then my guy just dies on me! I told her the condom broke as an excuse. Help! :(


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PostPosted: Sun May 20, 2012 12:19 pm 
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common problem

- you are not relaxed enough.

- you are not attracted enough to her

probably the first. chill man.


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PostPosted: Sun May 20, 2012 12:26 pm 
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Its probably psychological eg. not relaxed enough like he said. Anxiety has a way of drawing blood away from extremities including cock. ED is a circulation issue most of the time. Getting warmed up could also help.

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I used to have the same problem with this one girl. Happened quite a few times but once Id got it on and relaxed a bit I was fine. Its in your head.


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you can also try different brands types and sizes.


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It's all in the head, I had this same problem. And lost a great gf over it. Then I got another gf and it happened again, luckily I got over it quickly enough to keep that relationship.

It's hard, and the more you think about it the worse it will get, so just relax and have fun with whatever you are doing, if you feel like it's happening again, just psyche yourself up, be awesome! And have fun!

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It's simply nervousness.

This is what the doctors say: If you can get it up while masturbating - there is nothing physically wrong with you.

In other words, it must be psychological. Try relaxing more.

As soon as you put the condom on, you might subconsciously be thinking "oh shit, I have to perform now . . . " and it frightens you enough to make it go limp.

Breathe.

And accept the fact that it could take a few more times before you manage to properly perform.

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