I'm sitting at the bus stop waiting for my bus to arrive. The plan is to meet up with my wing at the club and do some night game. This girl comes up and sits pretty close to me. In my head I say "fuck it" and open her with "This is pretty random but I just have to comment about your shoes..". I find out that she's going out tonight by herself and she not sure where...she just wanted to get out of the house. So I invite her with me. We hit some bars/clubs etc..end up at my place. Overall fuck 3 times (once when we get to my place, then in the morning, then again after we have breakfast). We have a great convo in between about life, religion, believes etc...seemed to be going great. I later walk her to the bus station and she leaves. She later sends me a text:

HB: Hey, I'm curiuous as to if you went to sleep after our crazy night . I got a little to far with you at certain things but we still didn't get to use the "whip"...I kinda regret it now, but not the fact that I have met you. It was good talking to you.

Me: Me too, I'm still awake but will go to sleep soon. Have a good weekend .

HB: Hm, thanks and sweet dreams

Me: Thanks Kathy!

HB: I recommend myself in the future ;*)



A little background. She's much younger than me, only 20 but seemed mature. I've texted her yesturday (2 days later) and she hasn't responded yet.

Some feedback needed:
1) How do I proceed from here? I do want to see her again. Do I text her again?, how many more times?
2) How do avoid making girls feel like "it has only been a one night stand" ?. I do understand that sometimes you just can't. Sometimes she may have a boyfriend, is looking only for a good fuck etc. But how would I maximize my chances of seeing those girls again?

thanks in advance for the feedback.

Just text her,

She has already text you first, She has already reccomended herself for the future.

Open her with a text saying "I hear you come highly recommended, want to hit town again on ..... night?"

LBot has the right idea here. Either she will or she won't. She obviously has some buyers remorse and it may be a lot harder to close the second time. If you can get her out again, keep her in the excitement, and maybe things will happen a second time.

Without expressing throughout the night you are interested in more than 1 night, it is going to be the assumption that is all that is going to happen.

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