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Yes! thanks for clarifying what a bouncer is, my point was since to cut your years of interacting and observing and experience(love the new threat you made about yourself "other side of the fence"), go and pick the brain of one or two of them, that they see it all, since obviously, you have no idea of what i explained..Or better yet, talk to an attractive women and explain to her what i just wrote above... Tell her some dude name skills or just some dude, says that women like to get guys jealous from time to time, and like to show they are wanted by other guys to impress or shit test a guy they are pursuing, make sure you explain that they do this is with guy they really like or want...Or just ask a dude that gets LAID, couple of dudes here that get laid you may want to ask: little panda, sex addict... Pm me that "oh shit skills you were right" ok... thank you!
I can go on and on of my own examples, but that would be bias, here is by little panda, you will see what i am talking about when she says " your friend try to kiss me", again dude be humble, i have been clubbing for 17 years, in all type of clubs, by the way i do not mind discussing a subject, you do not have to go and make another subject on the lounge, come talk to me right here dude:
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Edit i just ask the sexman to confirm here is what he said:
if a dude is not giving his girl enough attention lately
and they go to a club
she'll try for sure to show she is desired by others
its natural
That thread was not aimed at you, but at the dangers of using PUA frameworks as a basis for understanding human beings rather than simple conventional socialisation.
You however do not have this problem as you -from what I recall- s
tarted pick up after a divorce, which means you have probably led a normal life and your relatively healthy background is what has led to your success compared to the living-with-mom awkward as hell 16 year old's who normally pursue PU.
So of course girls enjoy seeing guys jealous but guys enjoy that to. That feeling of being sexually and romantically wanted is what drives most people to pick up in the first place! Usually however the woman's enjoyment of this gets seen more because culturally speaking the women are the selectors. Most people think of romance as boy meets girl and girl decides whether she likes boy. And so women -in particular hot women who know they are hot and have the habit of using that- get more of a chance to make guys jealous.
And speaking as an SIA license holder, the reality of security work, is standing outside shuffling people through listening to the same tunes night in night out and then when something inside happens there is a lot of shouting, you go inside escort the problem out and if you are un-lucky the said idiot will stand their moaning and then wander of provided the police don't turn up.
There is a real irony where you ask me to be humble. When what you really mean is "I believe I know more about PU than you, so listen to me" then you told me to ask bouncers, not realising I have bounced in my life and I know that the only thing you learn from bouncing is how to argue with drunk people (i.e. Don't bother).
A better solution would be for us to admit we have different views on the subject and keep it there, rather than try and play this guessing game of you are X, I am Y.
As said before, the "other side of the fence" post isn't about you. It's in fact about people who are the precise opposite of you. That post was a long time in the making, it was just unfortunate that it was only after this debate that I had the required post count to put it up in the lounge.
Have a nice day.
I been doing pick up since i am 15 i am 36 now, got married around 28. anyways, the whole point is that sometimes girls, accidentally cause fights at clubs, in some cases by trying to get the dude jealous, you said, "you need better quality girls" or something like that, and that statement make no sense to me...So i said to be humble in the context of my girls are better than yours kind of thing... But anyways we are cool..
CHAT
) because he lost one fight in his career.