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The only negative thing I can see occurring that can come from peacocking is for girls to think your trying to hard and that can easily be avoided by not overdoing it. Like many of you said just stick with a necklace or something easy. I'm obviously not going to go out and buy a tattoo but I was hoping someone could guide me to a website where I could buy a unique watch or necklace.
Peacocking is nothing new, it's been a part of our culture for centuries. What is important to keep in mind is what the purpose of it really is. It's to draw attention to oneself. This can be done in a variety of ways. Sure you could wear loud clothing and act a fool, it would draw attention but what type of attention.
I think it is important to keep in mind what type of attention it is you seek. If you are in a night club setting, the best type of peacocking in my opinion would be dancing, and dancing well. Another form in any social gathering would be dressing unique, i am not talking loud colors or ridiculous clothing. Just be wearing something that nobody else is. Or different colors. The more unique it is the better, but it is wise to stay away from anything that is overly " look at me look at me"
If you are going to find something like a necklace or anything along those lines, why not make it something that will have some deep significance to you. Something that if asked about will spark a real emotional response from you. This response from you will no doubt show a genuine emotion and in turn create an emotional response from whoever you are talking to.
Creating the response is the very essence of creating a connection with another human being ( preferably a woman you are attracted to)
I suggest rather then taking anyone opinion on what to get, you go out shopping and find something that has some sort of meaning to you and your beliefs.
Good luck dude.