I think a lot of us focus on trying to display high value, instead of actually being high value. Anyways...

So I'm looking at a friend of mine on fb and it inspired me to make this thread. (We rarely talk or I would just ask him directly)

I go to his fb... and there's girl after girl commenting on how much of a nice friend he is, he's intelligent, on top of that he's very handsome, etc etc etc. Don't get it confused, I'm sure he's fucking the majority of these girls who call him his "friend". He's been a ladies man since middle school.

He works out and is huge. He's a bouncer at a night club. He has bitches galore. (Has never attended a university, but the females think he is some kind of genius)

I asked him over a year ago how many different women he has slept with, he said it was in the high 60's. Who knows what the number is at now.

So I'm going to make a check list on becoming a high valued person, instead of bluffing it.

High Valued Man Check List:
Women on deck: No
Works out: Yes
Cool Job: No (It's decent. Not as cool as a bouncer)
Knows how to dress: Yes

Those are the 4 I can think of off the top of my head. Feel free to add to it, and/or do a check list for yourself. Yours might even be different depending on your situation.

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Now that I think of it, maybe I am high valued and I'm just involved in environments where I'm low valued, like a night club... I work on computers, I can dress, I go to college, I make music... Maybe I just need to game in an environment where my attributes get highlighted?

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1. In terms of PU, you do not define your own value. This is an impossibility. You can 'suggest' your value. You can even 'scream' your own value. But if the person in front of you thinks, "NOPE, you're just not VALUABLE to me," that's it. For that particular instance, with that particular person, you were not high value. (Some

2. ^This is how 'value' is understood in real life for EVERYTHING but for some reason, pu folks have imagined a new definition for value.

3. This is getting redundant but . . . VALUE = Perceived benefits/Price.

4. If you can understand #3, then you have a much better chance of being more valuable to more people, more times than not.

5. What type of 'perceived benefits' do you think women will see in your 'computer related work' at a night club? How would you define "price" in terms of PU?

Being built like a tank and having once worked at a bar (as a bartender, being big helps you get that job too), I can say that most of the women you meet at a bar isn't the type that a true high-value man wants to keep around. Is there "easy pickens"? Yes, but it gets old after a while....

Ok this makes sense. "Price" in terms of PU from a female perspective, imo, would be everything negative associated with sexing John Doe that she met at a night club. For example, lets take the value formula you listed to determine whether or not a hottie sleeps with this John Doe she met at the night club.

Value = (John is the DJ + John is popular + He is well groomed and can dress + Nice sense of humor) / (My friends might think I'm a slut + My reputation + blablabla) = I'm going to fuck John or I'm not going to fuck John.

So if value is greater than one, she's sexing John Doe. If it is less than one, she is not sexing John Doe. If it was equal to 1, she is indifferent about sexing John Doe.