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Horrible advise, read as much as possible, the more you read about biz, relationship, self help, spirituality, finances, whatever, the better and more rounded you will be....
Information is important, sure.
Experiencing information overload = bad.
Say you're teaching a friend about pick-up. You tell him "ok let's start it off like this. You walk up to that woman and you ask her where the nearest Starbucks is. That's it. She tells you, you walk away. Sounds good?"
What are the chances of your friend carrying out this task? Pretty high.
Now, you amp it up a little. "Walk up to that girl, ask for directions, start talking about her favorite dinosaur, relate that dinosaur to her sensuality, make her do a spin, tell her she reminds you of your ex, and OF COURSE . . . don't forget to touch her from time to time. Kino man. Kino."
What do you think will happen ^there? Say your friend miraculously agrees to carrying out that second task, what will happen?
He will walk up to the girl and he will do exactly what all other newbies that have been spending 6 months reading 23 books and watching 15 DVDs do: Freeze up, don't know what to say, and walk off.
Reading books and taking in information is very important, but structuring how you apply it is key. Example:
- Read only about 'opening sets'.
- Go out and open x amount of sets in y amount of days. Only open.
- Read only about routines and sparking attraction.
- Go out, open x amounts of sets and use the y-routine on the girl.
- Read only about closing sets.
- Open x sets, use y-routine, close with z-routine to get her number/kiss.
Information overload is your biggest enemy and will hinder your progress in every area in life, not just pick-up.