So I have been talking to this girl that works at a coffee shop. She seems pretty interested in me, giving me some IOI's. I get her number bc it seemed to go well and she wanted to chill and text her a day later and she texts back that she has a boyfriend. So wtf, do I even text her back to try to chill or is this done?

Just answer OK and continue what you doing with her now.

I have boyfriend is a very tricky one and could mean A LOT of things.

You don't know what her intentions are, so you just have to keep talking to her to find out. If she doesn't respond then its a no go and you probably didn't build enough A (attraction) with her and too much C (comfort)

Maybe she changed her mind. Maybe she is just letting you know that she just wants something on the side and doesn't want to give you the wrong idea of a relationship. Once again, we don't know what happened.

I have this at the moment with a Bulgarian HB10 (Used to be a miss bulgaria finalist)

Got a # close then text her for a few hours, she then random said:

HB 'hm, I have to tell you something. I have a boyfriend, but we're in an open relationship right now. I don't know what you want from me but I can't give you anything serious, if thats okay for you'

I was like in my mind SHAAAATINNNGGG perfect!

basically we carry on texting as before... but now more intense and sexual. I plan to f-close this weekend as Im going to the bar where she works and gunna party with her after! shes made it clear she is DTF.

wish me luck.

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haha lol that made me laugh

but yeh she just continue what your doing unless she makes it clear to you she's not interested

Soncheese x

On the subject of finding out if a girl is truthfully in a relationship or not, Facebook is your friend. Usually I never stumble into the "I have a BF" issue after having already #/k-closed, however whenever I do or if I'm unsure, I'll add them on Facebook, 1) if they aren't that interested they just won't accept you and you can move on, 2) if/when they accept you, 99% of the time it'll have on their profile if their single or not (this isn't always 100% accurate but it gives you an idea of the seriousness of the relationship if she says she's in one)

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This depends on your ethics.

A girl doesn't always bring up her boyfriend to shut things down.

A lot of the time, she's bringing that up as if to say "I like where this is going. But I'm in a relationship, and I'm not a slut, so I won't take it there. If I end up hopelessly attracted to you, I want it to be completely your fault, because I'm not a slut."

And the response to that isn't explicit. You don't say "I think you should break up with him" or "I think you should cheat on him". You barely react to it, and keep doing what you'd normally do.