| Roads is right on what he's saying.
At the same time, there's nothing wrong with opening with C & F, IF your personality is right for it. You HAVE to be able to bring it across right. If you can bring it across right, you are basically in from that point on. They know you're cocky, you transition to funny, so they know you've got a great sense of humor. They already love those two traits about you. But, again, you HAVE to bring it across right.
Like for me, practically anybody on here and in my life personally will tell you I'm a VERY cocky, confident person. In fact, I'VE pushed girls away at times because I've been SO cocky. But, then again, I've also ATTRACTED girls because I'm so cocky too. Girls are all different.
Ok, with your 1st case, I don't see how that one could have went any different anyway, lol, given your explanation. That's just funny.
The second one, I don't know because I wasn't there. That might have been salvagable if done slightly differently, and maybe with different body language. Body language counts for a lot too.
The third one, IF she really did have a b/f, then that's just the way that one worked too. Some girls won't cheat, some will.
But, as I said, overall, it's all in how you carry yourself. If you have a cocky personality, you'll have a lot easier time with this opener than if you're not naturally a cocky person.
Normally cocky people have a more intense form of EC, and more confident body language, and when you're around them, you just KNOW they are the shit. So, when someone like that says a line like this . . . automatically the girl tends to be intrigued, and slightly confused at the same time, which is good. She's confused because a part of her biology WANTS you, but then you've already told her no, so she doesn't know how to handle you. Because you ARE confident in who you are, and she loves that. So, now she has to immediately start qualifying herself.
Hope that makes it clearer.
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