Okay so I live with a girl from Sweden. She is very pretty, and we have lived together for the past few 7 months or so. We have never gotten sexual, and about the only thing that we have done even close to that is wrestled one night when we were both drunk and I tried to make a move on her but I was way too wasted to be cool about it. Long story!

Well the other night I was ironing my dress shir, my " Going out to try and get laid " shirt, t in the kitchen area. She walks in and she tells me what she is up to and then I mention that I am going to pick up some drunk sluts at the bar ( I was trying to say this jokingly ) . Me and her then start to talk about relationships for a few minutes then she walks to her room. Well 10 mins later she goes and leaves and she tells me " Good luck with the drunk sluts " . I said " Thanks but I don't need luck. I will just bring alcohol ! " , again in a joking playful way. She then makes a really rude comment like " Not all girls fall for that! " and slams the door. I was like wtf, why is she being so angry all of a sudden?

Well today I come home and almost immediately she starts yelling at me about how nasty the kitchen is. I was like okay whatever, I am not going to argue with you because you are in a bad mood. She then goes on and on and it gets really heated. I told her that she is a bitch and a cu*t and she is a drama queen. She didn't react to it like most normal people would. she was just kinda taking it. I told her that I am trying to be nice but I'm not a pushover and I'm not going to put up with her shit.

Well I texed her earlier and I told her I would be nice enough to treat her to some makeup sex, to which she replied " No thanks " . She also left a note apologizing. I need some opinions on why a girl might do this? Could it be jealousy and she let it build or is this just wishful thinking? She has asked about my relationship status a few weeks ago and about a week ago she asked why I go out with certain types of girls. Could I just be over thinking this whole thing and all of this just be coincidence? It felt to me like she got really jealous when I mentioned I was going out to hit on girls and started to get angry and rude with me. But maybe I am misreading the situation.

She obviously wants you or want you to want her. Either way you should make a move. Preferably in a way that is impossible for her to say no to - kino and indirect.

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things that trigger asd

-lack of discression
-jugemental attitude sexually (calling girls sluts etc., the biggest thing about asd is it is a fear of being viewed as a slut)
-having low standards
-having an std
-not being cool enough to sleep with
-friends don't approve
-lack of probable deniability (guy is not leading/taking responsibility for escalation)

maybe she likes you, maybe she doesn't, but really calling girls sluts around a girl, is not a good joke to make, you want to at all costs avoid judging girls for being sexual, but rather be really casual and non chalant towards to the idea of sex, like it is just natural and no big deal, and just straight asking her for makeup sex.... not the smoothest of moves, would have been more productive to just actually escalate in person, hiding behind your phone and sending texts where you don't have to face any music is not confident at all and puts absolutely no tension on her at all, shutting that down is as easy as breathing for her and could easily be taken as a joke, if you like her, you should stop being a little vagina about it, and be serious, and express it, you can either directly say it to her face and express how you feel that way, or you can show her with your actions, either way, you can't pussy foot around this and expect her to take responsibility for sex just because she knows you like her, doesn't work like that, you have to lead things there and express your intentions more clearly, not just throw random curve balls at her hoping she does something with them

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Pump hit the nail... BUt this is your roomate dude, come on!? Don't you see the dangers of getting involved with her? Please dude, leave it alone.

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Wow thats actually solid advice. But I was just JOKING when I made the comment about the sluts. I explained to her during the conversation that I didn't mind girls that gave it up so soon, but that its hard for me to see them in long term relationship status. I wanted to get through her head that I can sleep with a woman and be done with it and not be the type of guy that gets clingy and creepy. She is my roommate and I thought that this was the best course of action.

And as far as doing it in text and not in person. In all honesty I was just doing it to piss her off. She was already super pissed at me and I just wanted to push her over the edge. The purpose was more or less to piss her off. Her response just caught me off guard. Does that make sense?

See you say to be indirect and the guy I just quoted says to make a move so she can't get away so easily. Confusing to say the least.

Well I still haven't made much progress with her but I had to talk with her yesterday so I went and spoke with her in her room. She was lying in bed and I propped up against the door frame and chatted with her for a few minutes. It was mostly about when she is moving out next month etc. Well during our brief talk She " accidently " rolled off her bed as she was talking to me. It seemed almost as if she did this on purpose, but I have no clue why. I thought it was a bit strange but I brush it off and went back to talking about the details of what we are going to do about next months rent, but then she starts putting her leg up in the air and massaging her thigh. She is laying down and wearing spandex mind you.

Again, I ignore this and didn't acknowledge her body at all and just kept talking. Well then she started rambling on about how her ass and legs are sore after working out and then starts talking about the gym and how she has strong abs and blah blah blah.

Before you guys tear me a new one for not doing anything, save it. I have realized in my dealings with this girl that these games are just for attention seeking purposes and to feed her low self esteem. She is leaving next month and she has to move her stuff out. I am going to ask her if she wants to share a bed with me since she will have to sell her bed.