Okay now this might seem quite wicked and nasty... But I can't help it. So I was chatting with a friend on the campus and the topic really isn't important right now. He just let a sentence slip out, stating I wouldn't be able to lay a chick, let's call her simply HB.

Now the thing is that I've got a girlfriend, therefore my mate hasn't really seen me gaming seriously. I mean...sometimes I flirt but it hasn't been anything serious for the past year. He has no idea about my real skills, and that's what I want to make clear for him.

I know it sounds childish, and immature, but this one sentence he said has been messing with my head ever since. I've already talked about this with my girlfriend...we have pretty good communication and, of course not for free, but I've got a pass for this one.

Now I wouldn't really have trouble just fucking her, but the thing is I've known her for quite some time, not too much, but we've spoken and she's not the kind of girl I just want to use like this as a tool to prove my manliness. I want the level of awkwardness in this as low as it can possibly be.

My friend is doing a house party soon. There will be 4 people. Him, HB, a girl he would like to fuck, and me. So it's like a perfect scenario. Any advice on how to make sure HB doesn't take it the wrong way? It will be a stoner party, and weed is a slight aphrodisiac, so I can blame it on that, but I want to make 100% sure no one gets hurt.

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Skipped a paragraph regarding you not wanting to hurt anyone. I apologize.

If you think so. I was not asking advice about how to fuck her but how to avoid hurting her. I don't see how that's rude...but whatever.

EDIT: No problem.

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Dude, that's totally disrespectful to woman. Their not just robots that you can use for your enjoyment. If you have a girlfriend, that's good enough, if she ever found out she'd be very hurt. Would you like it if she did that to you? People matter, feelings matter. You don't have to prove your "Skill" to other people, how did you manage to get a gf if you didn't hv any? In the long run focus on your gf, good girls are hard to find.

What part of my girlfriend is okay with this, did you not understand?

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Well what you and your girlfriend have is not real love - psychologically speaking. In Robert J. Sternbergs 'Love Theory' he said a real love relationship is comprised of 3 basic factors such as: Intimacy (Conversation, discussing secrets), Attraction (Physical Attraction, desire for that person) and finally Commitment; that is, the relationship is solely between two people. If you take 1 out of these 3 factors away, not only are you left with non-love, but with a stereotypical relationship. When you have Attraction and intimacy but no commitment it basically say's, "Hey I like you, you like me, but thats as far as it goes; we talk but I only like you for your looks and I still desire other people." So from the very start it's fallacious. It's your life, do what you want, but you should think things over. Enjoy ur day.

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I just went through something simular, My BFF is also a HB9 MILF.

It sounds to me that your game is strong enough to cover this with honesty, that is how I did it anyway, I simply said "This won't be awkward for you tomorrow will it?" at a point where I felt there was no return anyway, so of course her reply was, "No!".

Truth be told there was a little, but it passed quickly!

Girls get passed that MUCH faster than men, when they just want to fuck!

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Be direct, tell her it would be a one time thing, i'm sure she would prefer the honesty.

You got a pass?

Fuck her.

If it gets weird, blame it on the factors.... If it's NOT weird - get the HB with your GF together at the same time - with weed, and no friend LOL....

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Yeah well... I don't try defining love. I know that I feel good with my girlfriend, and I know she does too. She's not my wife, I'm not planning on a family any time soon. Also, by this definition, a threesome with my girlfriend would instantly mean it's not love since a third person was involved, and that's not something I agree with. I like sexual diversity. And I know that so does she. I never act like my girlfriend is my property, and in return usually I get the same. I'm not trying to prove you wrong, I'm just saying I have different opinion on what is love, than the writer you were quoting.

If I'd really like to get into details, taking into account I do biological studies, love is hardly anything but biochemistry, sparkled with the human emotional intelligence level.

Btw... I have something that really bothers me in your argument, and that's looks. I banged way better looking women than my current girlfriend. I believe if two people are happy in any kind of relationship as it is, then it is not necessary to try thinking over it. Since our life is not endless, in my opinion the whole purpose of it is to be happy, not seeking ever-purity or something like that.

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Yeah I was really thinking about something like that. I'm going to think about it however how to draw it. I want to make clear that it's a one timer, but I don't want her to feel like a slut because of it, so when I'm presenting this honesty for her, I have to emphasize the fact that two mature people having a good time is totally okay I guess.

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LoL. I haven't thought about this option. Maybe...we'll see how it goes. It's still a week break from college so I guess I'll have time to think this over. My gf would definitely not be a problem, but I really don't know about HB...yet

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Honestly this seems bad in so many ways and can only end bad...
Dont do it.
Believe it or not, your friend is egging you on for his own intentions and probably knows your skill and just wants you to help him get a girl too

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[/quote] Yeah well... I don't try defining love. I know that I feel good with my girlfriend, and I know she does too. She's not my wife, I'm not planning on a family any time soon. Also, by this definition, a threesome with my girlfriend would instantly mean it's not love since a third person was involved, and that's not something I agree with. I like sexual diversity. And I know that so does she. I never act like my girlfriend is my property, and in return usually I get the same. I'm not trying to prove you wrong, I'm just saying I have different opinion on what is love, than the writer you were quoting.

If I'd really like to get into details, taking into account I do biological studies, love is hardly anything but biochemistry, sparkled with the human emotional intelligence level.

Btw... I have something that really bothers me in your argument, and that's looks. I banged way better looking women than my current girlfriend. I believe if two people are happy in any kind of relationship as it is, then it is not necessary to try thinking over it. Since our life is not endless, in my opinion the whole purpose of it is to be happy, not seeking ever-purity or something like that.[/quote]

Dude, this entire argument has fallacy after fallacy. Robert J Sternberg is not a writer he's a very well knowl psychologist, this theory is very well-respected and can be heard at Yale University. I gave you Psychological evidence that empirically shows what real love constitutes as (with respect to relationships). Dude, your view of love can really change the way you see things, If love is just a subjective occurrence that takes place in our brain than that view is morally inept - because it effects so many other aspects of life.

Secondly when I said, "Looks" I just used it as an example. Needless to say if you take 1 out of the 3 factors ffor sternbergs theory your left with anything but love. It must have all three. Dude, I'm not trying to come off as rude or bash you, I'm a nice guy, I care about people. It pains me to see individuals make such egregious choices. Lastly look at Albert Camus book, the stranger. This book is written by an Atheist/Absurdist: here he demonstrates the consequences of such beliefs. In the book the main characters girlfriend asks him, "Do you love me?" and his response quite odd. He sort of remains apathetic towards her (Robert Solomon pointed that out)

Now I'm not saying those are your feelings towards your Gf, but philosophically speaking if your Gf asked you that, you might as well respond the same way. Dude, I wish you the best, and I hope you clear your mind bro. If you would like to talk more just pm me! God bless you!

I have to just throw out something I"ve learned from my experience and the experiences of my friends. When a girl says she's okay with it, ther eis a very real chance that she is just trying to appease her boyfriend. She wants to be okay with it, she wants to make him happy, but at the end of the day if he follows through with whatever caused the discussion, it'll irreparably damage the relationship.

I won't chastize you, because I can't say for sure which is the case. I am just pointing out that is proving you have game to your buddy worth the risk of ruining your relationship? It takes a fairly frail ego to let a buddy's passing comment bug him so much, in my opinion.

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