I went to a club that was about to close in 1 hour. I ended up getting 3 girls numbers in that time slot (Back story in 3 Girls 1 hour Number 1)

Feel free to critique my game

Here is my second number close..

I was at a table with a male friend of mine just drinking an L.I.T. when the song "wobble with it" came on.. Everyone was doing the dance...and I had no clue on how to do it... towards the end of the song there was a hb 8 right in front of me doing the dance.. So I decided to open..

ME: How in the world do you wobble with it??
HB#2: The song is over now I can't teach you.
Me: Ok some other time. By the way I'm XXXX (Hold out my hand for a hand shake)
HB#2: Hi im XXXX (gives me her hand)
Me: my best friend is named that! so i will remember it. Feel special
HB#2: (half smile)
ME: By the way, what does your tattoo say? (she had a tattoo on her wrist that i noticed when we shook hands)
HB#2: It means Never give up. Its French.
ME: Ohhh really? thats deep. What is your major?
HB#2: Sports Management.
ME: I would not have guessed that! You seem like a psychology major.
HB#2:(Smiles.. tilts head)
ME: And what is your sport of choice my dear?
HB#2: Baseball.
ME: I LOVE BASEBALL!! who is your team?
HB#2: The Dogers.. I have a tatto! Wana see?
ME: Sure.
(She starts to pull down her pants to reveal a very sexy dodgers tattoo)
ME: Wooaahhh!!! Slow down, I shouldn't be seeing that part of you so soon!! I feel like i should get you a drink or something now. (give her a nudge)
HB#2: ahaha
ME: Ok well I like long walks on the beach, candle light dinners, and Outback Steakhouse.
HB#2: OMG I LOVE OUTBACK!!!
ME: how about this.. You teach me how to wobble with it, and ill take you there..
HB#2: Deal.. (Grabs me and gives me a hug)
ME: ok lets get this going.. put your number in my phone..

*number close*

ME: ok get over here we are going to take a pic so i can put it by your contact info.
HB#2: haha ok.
*we take picture and hug goodbye*

She leaves and i stay by the table where my friend is at..

I text her after the bar closed saying.
"It was nice meeting you. Get Home Safe."

no text back :/

I texted her around 1 today saying
"So... You like baseball, Outback, and your going to teach me how to wobble with it.. I know this is kind of soon. But I can see this turning into a "Myspace Top 8" kind of friendship "

No text back :/
I thought she might have gave me the wrong contact info, because her last name is very common, but it was misspelled in my phone...
So i looked it up on Facebook.. and she gave me the correct name (and her last name was spelled correctly)
Sooo i have no clue what happened...

Any thoughts?

not bad but a little too try hard on rapport and connection before enough emotional investment, one too many ME toos! I would have swamped a break rapport comment to a dhv then add to rapport with even more consent.

Also I didn't like the take you to dinner at outback thing at all.

overall 7.5/10

Dont get too tied to flaky numbers, thats doesn't mean a shitton except over enough data points.

I would try to be more aggressive and try to escalate (physically or emotionally) rather then just number close but you are gonna figure that out for yourself soon enough if you keep gaming.

Thank you!!

I think your right.. Not enough DHV, and I did seem like i was trying to find some common ground way to hard..

what do you mean swamped a break rapport comment to a div and then add more rapport?


thanks again

Ive had a lot of luck with breaking rapport between gaining rapport. I even got laid once because the date was going bad, and I broke so much rapport after I tried too hard she got re-attracted. Always mix rapport with breaking rapport as it is inherently DHV and helps with qualifying

So as an example lets swap:

to:
That's some good DHV. and as always dotn confuse being nice and getting smiles, as increasing attraction, as it usually doesn't, but you likely know that already.

Ohh i understand.

I was just afraid of insulting something she really loved..

(afc comment.. I Know lol)

The best part is the photo at the end, I always wanted to take a photo with a girl for like props/what i did that night Good way to get it, otherwise I agree with the post above, it feels you are trying to agree with everything she says so you can get her to like you. it is okay to be like, sports management, wdf is that, you should just be a stripper they pay a lot more!

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I promise you she doesn't give 2 fucks about baseball. Also dont be scared to be harsh/mean/insulting until it consistently bites you. Most guys, and all afcs, always error on being too nice, not too mean, dont be scared bro attitude and swagger are good.