Inspired by Kupid's post I've decided to write up a mini-guide on how to get laid consistently. It still surprises me how many guys go out for months, even years, and still don't get laid consistently. If this is you this read the following advice, implement it, and have fun getting laid.

1) Improve your looks. Almost any guy can become at least average looking by going to the gym and learning how to dress better. If your not at least average then your greatly hindering your chances of getting laid by hot women on a constant basis.

2) Approach more women. This one is KEY. Guys simply don't approach enough women. Getting laid is a numbers game (but your numbers can be improved) and in order to get laid on a consistent basis you need to get in the numbers. I don't care if you have to approach 30+ women a night... do it! There are two main reasons men don't approach enough women... being scared of rejection and spending time on "time wasters."

3) Embrace rejection. Most guys are scared of rejection and after a few chicks reject them in a row they get depressed. You shouldn't be scared of rejection, you should EMBRACE it. each time you get rejected your closer to your goal of finding a woman who is willing to go home with you. Rejection exist to keep you from wasting time on a woman who is not currently interested in you. Embrace it!

4) Screen Women. If its your goal to take a woman home that night its important you screen women. Make your job easy by looking for DTF chicks and chicks who are giving you approach invites such as eye contact, proximity, and open body language towards you. You can read more about this here: being-efficient-getting-laid-vt119956.html

5) Being sexual, not social. Guys are way to worried about being social and getting a chick into them before they get sexual. This is extremely wrong. In cold approach night game you need to focus on being sexual first. For one, this is used a a screening device. Any women who isn't down for being taken home that night will reject you (remember, its a good thing) and for two, being sexual will make the women more interested in you. For more information on how to get sexual: esp-model-of-escalation-vt97891.html

Anytime your talking to a chick (night game cold approach) and by the 20 minute mark you don't think you will be taking her home, get her number and go approach another chick. DONT WASTE TIME.

Putting it all together...

When you go out, screen for DTF chicks, approach them and be sexual and just keep repeating this process with every DTF chick you spot (and other cuties) it becomes really hard to not get laid. Embrace rejection, keep approaching (remember, approach 30+ chicks a night if you have too) be sexual with every one you approach and when you find one thats receptive, escalate some more and then pull.

The more you do this the better you will get and the less chicks you will have to approach.

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I'm in high school still. I read this over and checked your links and now I want to know how would I apply this stuff to get a SNL if I'm gaming girls during the day and at places like the mall.

Until college this is my most reliable place to meet girls, and I would like to get to the point where I can bring girls straight home from this mall.

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Hobbit: bph is a cool guy, eh talks about PUA and sex and stuff

I agree with what you say but that is like 1% of all the things you could do to improve.

You still fail to see that different people have different problems and that PU techniques are useful for others with other problems than you. You are oversimplifying. This approach works, definitely, but it works for people who have their shit together, not for everyone.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

LOL, Ezo, I respect what your trying to say bro but you should come to Cincinnati sometime. You will so so many guys here who dont have their shit together at all and yet they pull women home all the time. The common link between them is that they approach a ton of women, have a 6th sense for horny ones, and sexually escalate like a bat out of hell on the receptive ones.

many of these guys are broke as fuck, some are mentally unstable, among a slew of other issues and but they also get laid more than 90% of the "pu coaches" out there.

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I agree, almost any average looking guy could pick a lay if he aproached 30 women a night. Especially if they are not random 30 but those "screened" ones. So for this to work you do not need to get shit together, its just a numbers game.

If you wanted to pull one lay per only 3 women you aproach then you have to be the one who has stit together.

Right, and the more you do this the better you will get with women and the more your numbers will improve.

I should have put a disclaimer on this though...

If you cant even approach yet then this wont work for you.

If you cant even hold a conversation with an attractive women without shaking then this isn't for you.

However, for mostly normal guys this will work extremely well and is for you.

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I really like your posts and your blog, Warped Mindless!
The next weeks, I really need to get my shit together and improve on this.
Here's my question: I've got basically almost zero experience with women. Would you still recommend such a very "aggressive" strategy as a start, or is it better to follow a "softer, easier" programme to prepare as a Newbie?

Can you answer my question...the very first reply up there...

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Hobbit: bph is a cool guy, eh talks about PUA and sex and stuff

Your not going to be pulling a lot of same day lays from the mall. Logistics are simply against you. The girls are typically there for a reason (to shop) and are there with friends and usually have some place to go with the friends after they leave the mall.

The best thing to do is to get numbers and then set up day 2s and get really good at fucking women on the day 2s.

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Ha ha, yeah I am sure it works. But they might be people who can apply this stuff while there are others who have other types of problems that just cant get the approach you are teaching. Im just saying, there isnt a universal solution because it isnt a universal problem. There are a million different problems and a million different ways of solving them.

Still, it would be awesome to see them in action and try out every possible PU technique there is.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

I'm failing to see why this can't be applied to all men. Looking bum is a sure fire way to get your self cock blocked.

Im saying that different guys have different problems. For someone who is just socially awkward, learning social dynamics helps, for someone who is too afraid, inner game works, for someone who is afraid of touching, kino escalation helps.

But for someone who is just too scared of getting out there and face their fears, Warpeds approach is useless. You cannot just tell someone to grow some balls or to man up, for some people that is just too difficult, too scary.

And here comes the important part. In Warpeds mind, those people arent ready to be helped. Basically if you are too scared to man up or dont know how to, he cant help you.
I see it in a different way. I think that they are the ones who need help the most. They have other needs in order to build confidence and get up to the level where they can grow some balls. It isnt "just do it", that is a very arrogant way of seeing it.

When you give advice, you gotta give it from the perspective of the one you wanna help, not your own. Your perspective only detects solutions that fit you. Other people need other things and if you truly wanna help them, you gotta be able to understand them and their needs.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Wow ok, now I understand what you mean. And I honestly completely agree. Before I got my real start in PUA I did a lot of inner game. Saying, "just go out and do it," didn't work. So if your saying that you need to work till people get to a point where they can just do it, I agree with you 100%.