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Hey, I'm still considered an AFC but I'll toss in my 2 cents.
If my 'friend' did that to me, I might just try to downplay it a bit when I talked to the girl.
I'd say something like: "Yeah, he asked me how the date was, and I told him it went well, I had a good time and it seemed like you liked me and we got along". "I was happy with how it went and that's what I told him". "I didn't use the words 'totally into me', that's just him exaggerating or trying to embarrass me or something".
Anyways man, hope it works out for you.
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You're friend is a douche, but I think if you down play like people said and as the Master Valentyne said, just go by things are normal you should be fine. I can't imagine a college girl getting that upset about it. Also, if you she does like you, I mean even modestly, or at the very least respects you, thinks your cool, etc., she doesn't care, she may even be very flattered underneath it all.
This happened to me once, much more embarrassing though. One of those first girls I got together with after I got separated was an old girl I used to date that now lives in Chicago. She was in town visiting her gfs, she knew my story, she asked me to join them, I did. Anyway, the chemistry was still there. One random friend of hers asked her about meeting anyone interesting, or something to that affect and we immediately looked at each other and smiled and she grabbed my hand under the table...anyway, it was kind of cool that someone I hadn't seen in, shit, 6 years, who was never really my "gf" I could still have chemistry with - it made me feel real good.
Anyway, we all had a blast, at the end of the night there's just three of us at some random bar. I txted my buddy how I think I found my first lay after my wife, I just need to get rid of her fugly friend. Well, her friend saw some of this exchange...definitely not the part of her being fugly, thank god, but the first part. When my girl gets back from the bathroom, her fugly friend is actually doing the cool thing and trying to leave to live us both alone. That unffortunately doesn't happen, we make out for a bit, then she leaves. All and all, I thought it was a good first night out for a guy recently broken up with his wife. I then get a txt later from her, similiar to what you got something like, "OMG, I can't believe you would say that" but she's laughing in the txt. then other stuff like, I can't just ditch my gfs, there all I got, blah blah...I start vehemetly apologizing (I know wrong move, but take into consideration where I am in my life right now)....she even writes back, "J, stop apologizing, its not a big deal, I'm actually very, very flattered you'd want me as your first." or something to that affect....
We're still friendly to this day, she's still live in Chicago, so no relationship thing is ever possible, and yeah, we've hooked up a few times when I had to go out on business, but the point, she didn't care I was talking about, shit, wanting to bang her, let alone a great first date, she even kind of liked it..point, if she likes you, she likes you, she probably thinks your friend is a big douche as well.
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