Date: 10 mars 2012

Members: Valentyn, T_Rex & Froggy

Location: La Mouche


KISS CLOSE + NUMBER CLOSE

For God knows what reason..yesterday I had a wake up call. I realized that I worked on so many things in my game which I improved a lot..but one MAJOR area, for some reason, I put it aside: SEXUAL ESCALATION

Again, I take the words of wisdom from Vin Di Carlo...: "Start thinking that success in a pick up is how far can you escalate in the shortest amount of time, not how much you talk with the girl. If you're not escalating, you're doing nothing in your interaction". With that being said, I know I can attract really well a lot of girls..the missing piece of the puzzle would be to have great sexual escalation skills. I start watching Gambler's stealth attraction videos and I wrote on a piece of paper that my focus on tonight is sexual escalation. I came to the conclusion that escalation creates attraction. It's crazy...so this is how the night started

I enter the club with my wingman T_Rex. We came a little bit early and the place was drop dead. I see a hot 2 set standing and looking around the room not too far from where I'm leaning back with my boy. We wait for some friends and when they come in, we start talking and I see that the hot 2 set hasn't yet moved and they start giving indicators of wanting to be approached. I do a rock paper scisors with one new guy that I met from the forum and I lose lol so I have to approach. I wait...for what 20 seconds and I go in. Turn your brain off and let your legs do the walking..I approach telling them they looked boring and that I had to say hello. I was surprised by their response, they smiled and were friendly right off the bat. They looked like these hot bitches that give you a hard time so I started doing my stuff engaging both of them and making sure each wasn't bored. T_Rex comes in and does our wingman code which after I make him enter the set to his target. Now I'm on the other side of the two and it looks like he's talking to only one girl..the other one starts to get bored so I grab her by the hand and pull her towards me. She immediately smiled and we start talking. I knew my goal was to escalate so I tried several time..but her hotness was backing me down a little bit..sometimes I was touching her with confidence, sometimes not. But I still focused on only escalating. After a while we ejected the set, we learned they're from Toronto staying for the weekend..what an f-close this would have been. But I had the intention of going back again later on.

Personal Feedback: don't be intimated by beauty, push that barrier and still escalate

Now this other HB, she's the friend of one of my friends so we got introduced to eachother. After not even 1 minute of talking, I start escalating, doing some of Gablers stuff. My radar of IOI's is just soo good I see every little small IOI and after 3 minutes I knew this girl wanted me. Now later on I go on the dancefloor and we're dancing in circle with all of our friends..I see her take her by the hand and start dancing. And now the fun stuff started. Because my goal was to escalate I'm not going to talk about my verbal game..I did some pretty sick stuff but non-verbally it was even better. What can I say..I started to take her hands and put them around my neck..at the beginning she was pulling them off like: I just made no expression what so ever and told her: "Stop being shy" Take her hands again place them around my neck. She removes again..: "Omg..we're so not meant for eachother" Take her hands place them around my neck..this time she complies. I start doing a lot of non verbal push pulls. I would push her away looking at her and pull her towards me without looking at her. It drove her crazy..this game went on for a lotttt. And suddenly I see her resistance dropping down. The more that I escalate and dont give a fuck..the more she starts to back down even if she feels like wtf am I doing lol. We're really close and I go for the kiss..she gives me her cheeck. I smile and kiss her cheeck lol she laughs but stays with me. Whatever. Go for the kiss again. No permission. Whatever...try again she's still here..Nope...not this time either. It took me about 6-7 times and even then I got like half of her lips she was teasing me. I started teasing her and back and forth..finaly at the end of the night I didn't even said a word to her I opened my phone and handed to her. She put her name and number and I told her I'm texting her tomorrow and she kisses me..not bad..I stayed with her all the night though so I didnt open any other sets..I don't give a shit either I'm happy with what I did

Personal Feedback: I love the fact that I was so calm and persistant in a situation where 6 months ago..I would not have the balls to keep escalating. Her body language exuded that she wanted me..her verbal..not so much. I did not even listen to what she was saying. We communicate with our bodies. Don't make the error of listening to what a bitch is saying if her body shows interest in you. She just wants to see if you're a man. So be one.

Let me repeat myself

Don't make the error of listening to what a bitch is saying if her body shows interest in you. She just wants to see if you're a man. So be one.

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Yo bro I just arrived in Florida, and on the plane I read Attraction and some 60ych and crazy night met over 20 girls, I escalated with every girl immediately. I had girls with bf, who told me earlier, kissing me and shit.

Rule #1 : Shut up and escalate.
That's all I do haha.

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First of all, I'm glad to see that you are working on this aspect of your game since I had the same realization a couple of months ago. Let your body do the work for you. But beware, sometimes you can forget to create some comfort and attraction with you conversations skills as you only focus on sexual tension and escalation. Indeed, this will probably get you further with any girls your flirting with, but your flaking rate will also increase if you don't talk to them much (Unless you're an amazing kisser, dancer, or give her the fuck of her life).

Overtime, she will forget the sexual tension you create with her in person and you'll only be "another good hookup" she met at a club. Which is why you have to find the perfect spot between sexual tension and conversational skills.

But honestly, I'm not even sure why I am telling you this. I'm sure you will! Anyways, good job man! You're getting good!

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

MrMatt You're more than right. I actually came home and started analysing my game (I recommend everyone to not analyze during their night but to think what you did wrong when you come back and you're relaxed) and I was so focused on creating sexual tension and escalating that I did not qualify as much as usual and I didn't even build an emotional connection, which usually I do every time and I'm very good at. I'm writing this down to remember next time to calm down on the escalation from time to time, but as you said, I'm also sure I'll quickly find the sweet spot between creating tension and have a conversation..I just needed this lesson and next time I will remember to build more comfort. Although, she didn't flake and our interaction is going great. Thanks a lot and good luck!

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Date: 13 mars 2012

UPDATE

Hey guys..I'm trying to figure out logistics and analyze which situations are more beneficial to go for the FC so here's a little bit of update of the girls that are potentially interested in me. Advice in any situation is appreciated.


HB SNAKE

So if you read my last post, I kind of failed to close at her house because she lives with 4 other chicks and she was high. I felt like I couldn't pull it off because her "state" of being high and she started becoming sensitive and emotional. She was like in her own bubble. My phone game with her is pretty solid I cold set up another date with her whenever I want. However, shoud've I just went for it at her house? Even in her fucked up "state"??


HB CHEERLEADER

Advice here is more than helpful for me. I NC her ass in daygame..I approached direct method (a lott of IOI's from her) and it took approximately 4 min to get her number (so I didnt have any comfort at all). My phone game with her started really solid..we texted eachother for 2hours and after that, I figured I was in so I asked her out saying something like: "When are you free this week? I want to see you" Now she replied something like: "We can also get to know a little bit more before we go out" So I just said "allright cool with me" than changed the subject. Since she told me that, our interaction is still going great. However, I have no idea when can I invite her out again. What do you guys think? I'm going to go by instinct here and just "feel it out" when it's the right time. At least if I fail, I'll learn something but if some of you have been in this situation, help is appreciated


HB REDHEAD

HB I KC and NC in my latest FR. Now my interaction with her over text is the best of all these 3 chicks. She is cleary a lot in to me. I set up a date already for 2day with her, which she agreed to go, but at the last minute she had some problems. She told me were going to see eachother during another day of the week so she didn't intentionally "flake". However, this girl is more into a relationship. So...I don't know what the fuck to do. I'm going to see her on a date and see how things turn out for me and her. I like her personality a lot though, she could be GF material but I'm not sure I want a GF..anyway we'll see how things turn out


I'm glad I have options, but I need start full closing them. Peace out and good luck in field guys!

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Date: 14 mars 2012

7 MONTHS SINCE BEGINNING OF THIS JOURNEY


I'm proud of what I've done and what I've become so far. Most importantly, I never gave up and I really feel good about myself. I still don't back down and I always keep my head up with whatever life throws at me. I'm starting to see good results and I cannot be more pleased with my current situation.

I just want to remember some of you that with each barrier or wall that comes in front of you and you feel like giving up, passing past that barrier or wall will improve your game 2 to 3 times more. Therefore, with each obstacle means massive improvement. Try to not focus on the problem. Focusing on the problem is not going to make it disappear. Instead, focus on what solutions you can take to remove the problem.

Be positive in life. Remove the negativity. Start to see "failures" as learning lessons. What is done cannot be changed. The best thing to do is to not be a bitch and to take in consideration what a certain situation has made you realize or learn. The next step is to simply apply what you learn next time something similar happens.

Set up goals. Write them on a paper where you can see it. Wake up every day feeling good about yourself and remember what are your goals in life.

Take action. The name of the game is ACTION. Stop being lazy, stop bitching about how a girl broke your heart, about how you don't have time, about how many exams do you have. Stop giving excuses. The people who have success are the people who take action. What are you willing to do to get where you want? Only you can decide that. So if you want to improve your life with women. Guess what. They're not going to fall from the sky in your lap because you read 7 e-books on attraction. Go out. Fail. Learn.

Stop comparing yourself with other guys. Each individual has his own path of success and his own personal journey. For some, it's harder, because of different factors, but using this as an excuse is not acceptable.

I hope this inspires some people, I'm seeing a lot of guys follow my journal. I Didn't expect 20 000 views but I hope I'm helping some of you out there.

Special Shoutout to The_Mack who has been very supportive for me since I met him. His advice is really good and he made me realize a lot of stuff about my self and the road I'm taking to get better at interacting with women. I recommend anyone who lives in Montreal to take a workshop with this guy and his wing. I met a LOT of guys, about 30..and I can honestly say that this guy and his wing are the most legit that I met.

With that being said, peace out guys! Good luck in field!

"A weak and submissive man who memorizes routines remains a weak and submissive man" - VinDiCarlo

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Date: 17 mars 2012

Members: Valentyn & Froggy

Location: Café Campus & La Shop


KISS CLOSE + NUMBER CLOSE

Guess what I wrote down to work on today..SEXUAL ESCALATION (again)

First of all, I'm glad that me and my main wing Froggy are starting to communicate better in field and we help each other out much better than before. With that being said, here's the report

We come in pretty early and the place is almost dead..not a lot of people. I go in..see a 2 set sitting down..hm..whatever just act. I open the set and I immediatelly spotted multiple IOI's from one of the girls. They both smiled at me, but one of them was fairly more interested. I made the best friends test and they said that they were sisters..lol they so didn't look like sisters. Anyway, I was lacking kino because I was on the other side of my target and I couldn't switch places so after a while I eject and I go to see my wing. We pretty much opened all the fucking club afterwards. Our value was high as fuck. I was making forcing IOI's to a lot of girls to see right away their interest level. People started noticing us because we were just talking with anyone in our path and we didn't got rejected once. I sit down and smile..loving this feeling in your body when everything seems to work out for you. Now I spot my initial target she dances with her sister on the floor but she keeps always looking at me when I turn my head around. I gave a forcing IOI and she comes to see me. She tells me to come and dance so at this point I'll be honest I didn't even doubt that I knew I was going to close. We start dancing and I started sexually escalating really well..and at a certain moment, I went for the IOM. I got the IOM and at that point it's not even a challenge I just stop dancing and look at her in the eyes. She looks back and she doesn't move so I just grab her head and kiss her. That was really fast like 5 min after we started dancing I think. So afterwards I grabbed her by the hand and isolated her. Now I started qualification and she just qualified 100% to all my questions. I teased her for being small and I kissed her again. Now she tells me that she has to leave early so immediately I started thinking of a time bridge that I can make to have a solid number close. I said to her that I never went to Juliette & Chocolat and that she should take me there. She agreed and we exchanged numbers. I wrote "sexy soccer player" as my name in her cell and told her I'll be texting her tomorrow..I gave her a quick peck on the lips and I got the fuck out of the set

Personal Feedback: I sexually escalated really well, without even hesitating when going for the kiss. Also, I was leading all the time when I was walking with her. I would grab her hand started moving, make her sit down without even saying a word..just gave a small push on her weist and she gets the message. Women dont like being put in a position where they always have to lead..so lead the situation. This is also my first time that I builded a proper time bridge in order to make my number even more solid and to have a higher rate for seeing her on a day 2

We changed spots and we started again approaching..now I see one HB that goes to the same college as me and I know she's REALLY interested. But I'm not into it so I said to myself that this is a great time to practice sexual escalation I isolated her and I started breaking rapport a lot than use qualification to calm her down..and she starts to touch me a lottt. I felt bad a little bit but hey I'm doing it for the skill so my escalation was going as far as a kiss. She was waiting to be kissed so I'm like fuck how do I get out of this so I gave an excuse and got the fuck out hahaha. When I leaved I gave her two pecks on her cheeks and she actually tried to kiss me but I leaved as soon as possible

Personal Feedback: Great practice set for increasing my skill in escalating

So yeah that's about it we also AMOGed the shit out of one guy who was badly trying to pick up a chick. We just went in and after...30 sec the guy just ejected being like fuckkk haha that was great to do

Anyway guys..Peace out! And good luck in field!

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was a great AMOG but since is bad Karma, we need to give people a chance.

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Let change the world
One smile at time

Date: 18 mars 2012

DJ FUJI


This is T-H-E best video I have ever watched on how to fix mistakes in life and in pick up: sticking points, failures and lack of motivation

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=pl ... dRMUikKE4E

Enjoy!

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Date: 19 mars 2012

DAY 2 WITH HB PINK - GETTING LMR


This is the HB from my last FR. For some random reason I'm naming her HB Pink. A little bit of a backgroung..we met and after 10 min I KC.. after 20 min NC and she leaved the place. So we have seen each other for ONLY 20 FUCKING minutes..

I pick her up and I drive to a park far from my house. We start walking I hold her hand and we finally sit down on a bench. I started kissing her while at the same she was doing all the qualification for me. I didn't even opened my mouth. I just said: yeah..oh cool....nice....oh really? wow....great!! thats so great...totally yeah! Haha I really didnt gave a shit my goal was to actually bounce her ass to her house. However, during the date I find out that her mother came at her appartement to stay for a few days so fuck logistics crossed that option out. I was only left with the car..so I instantly thought of doing it in the car. HOWEVER,
while we speak and cuddle and all that shit..she starts to think a lot and becomes silent. When I ask her what's troubling her she tells me that she usually never does this and that she's thinking about us. "Thinking about us" What the hell??? Girl we met 20 minutes in a club and you're thinking about us? That's when a bell rang in my head and I found out this girl is in for a serious relationship. And I'm in deep shit!! She thinks I'm 21 because I said that to her when I met her ...shes fucking 24-23 .. and than she says to me that she wants me really bad but she's afraid to be hurt. Now she kind of placed me in a bad situation I started feeling guilt for what I've done and I'm thinking what the hell am I doing right now?? I changed the subject and made out more..finally I pull her to my car. We start making out and she starts to kiss my neck and that for me is just my low point I get fucking aroused lol so I started escalating on her getting good responses. However! When I just tried a littttleeee bit to touch her beneath her shirt she immediately jumped like an alarm just went off in her head. I told her to calm down and she just said that we should go home it was midnight and a half. I drop her off she says she really wants to see me as soon as possible and I smile and say yeahhhh....definately..thinking (what the fuck am I doing). She leaves and I get home..I see like 2 texts saying "good night I loved seeing you today hope to see you soon"

I feel bad seriously..I clearly made an impact in 24 hours in her life..what the fuck am I supposed to do??! And I have a date with HB Redhead this week who is also REALLY interested..and to finish on top..I got 2 other girls interested that I'm texting which I'm not yet sure what they want..relationship or just sex. Fucking complicated..but I dont want any relationship. I'm lost man I dont know what to say or fucking do. I think I forgot that sex is a big commitement for a girl..she'll eventually have feelings for me or I don't know what to say..if anyone has some advice they could give me it would be really helpfull I feel really lost..thanks guys!

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Hey Valentyn, If i was in your current situation the best advice I could give you is to reverse the role of the situation. Let me explain, woman will always say bullshit about how they want a relationship and blabla take things slow but fuck when you do it she doesnt give a fuck anymore about you. You have to make the chick understand in a subtle way that you liberty is important to you and you will not settle for any woman unless she proves that she really worth it. In that case, she will have to work even harder to win your approval and give the best of herself (sex) if she doesn't want you to leave. Remember you are the prize and you don't give fuck she either take it or leave it because you have plenty of choices. When you start thinking too much thats where you fucked up. Enjoy the process bro and learn from it! See you.

Frost.

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"Women need to feel desired, not loved.".

Yep..it worked..she agreed that we can see eachother having fun and date other people at the same time before we fegure out if we go in a relationship. That means I need a little bit more comfort and I can go 100% for the FC without repercussions Thanks mate! I appreciate your help!

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Date: 22 mars 2012

UPDATE


Busy sarging week-end coming up..I have 2 - maybe 3 dates + 2 sarging nights in a row! Didn't had this for quite a while and I'm thrilled! I'm also willing to give a big helping hand to my best buddy T_Rex who seems interested in game again..so this is a great opportunity for me to test my coaching skills. I'm going to lay HB Pink really soon..it's not even a challenge she's way more into me than I am..I just need to build some comfort and I'm immediately going for the close. HB Readhead and me are talking..but I sometimes have a struggle (not usually) with keeping the attraction level through text because we haven't seen eachother since I NC her due to several logistical reasons. However, the ball is still rolling pretty fucking good with her..I'm seeing her this week-end. I don't even have time to talk to HB Cheerleader and it seems that our conversation is lacking the spark that it had when we first met..oh well..no problem for me. HB French is always texting me, but I'm way too busy with school I don't have time to text 3 girls over and over again. We'll see where it goes with her. I like making these updates because they give me an overall view of my current situation..sometimes I get fucked up by thinking too much..but when I write them down I see the path to take Anyway guys..take care and I'm hoping for a pretty awesome week-end!

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Date: 24 mars 2012

BIG LMR - HB PINK


Wow..tough situation I'm in right now. I go pick up HB Pink from the subway and we go downtown. We start to walk and it was getting cold..so we went in a cofee - restaurant to chill for a bit. I sit down with her and put my arm around her. However, I'm really good at reading body language so I asked her what's wrong. She denies and says that everything's good until she started crying. I took her in my arms and she starts crying about problems she has with her family and all..I felt bad but anyway we get out but it's still cold so I convince her to come in my car. Now I drive to a nice dark alley where there is nobody that passes by and we go sit in the back seat. We start making out and than she starts to talk...about her ex-boyfriend who leaved her when they were living together and that she's afraid someone else is going to do that to her. Now here's what happened. She puts her head in my lap and starts crying as fuck!! Like really crying..she tells me that she wants to wake up with me beside her. I'm like fuck yeah I start making out and this time she allowed me to go beneath her shirt. She starts moaning and I know I'm almost there but than she says: STOP. She says that we cant do this and I'm pissed..I still kiss her and than she goes: Can you sleep at my house? I go: yeah of course. But then she tells me: I mean just sleep with me..I don't want you to think about having sex (something like that). I got mad that she told me that and I punished that by withdrawing attention for 2min..than she started crying again W-T-F!! She says that she doesnt want me to be mad and that she doesn't meet a lot of guys who don't just want to have sex with her like me and that I'm a nice guy. I go: "Nice guy? Well..I'm a little bit toxic baby you don't know me 100%" After that I re-tried escalating..fuck I almost got there but she said stop..GOD DAMIT!! It pissed me off man we were fucking 4 hours in my car!!! And I just could not get it in..I was pretty fucking pissed when I let her at her house and told her goodbye. I don't know how the fuck can I lay this one without being in a relationship!! (her ex boyfriend pretty much mind fucked her she's really paranoid about going sexual) Advice??!

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Move on? She's clearly got issues you can't address without being her full time bf ( read carer).