I have been talking to a few girls and sometimes they initiate it or I initiate it. Unfortunately they catch me during busy times and I always tell them that I can't text them and don't want them to wait all day for it(well don't verbally say it like that but imply that I am busy studying or hitting bed early). Or should I leave that part out and text them sporadically each day? Is there a right way? I really don't need them but want them to know they come into my mind here and then

Here is my time-tested approach, which is much less restrictive than most of the advice you'll find on this site.

1. Don't artificially restrict your availability, just make your responses light, arrogant, fun and non-committal. If she sends you a joke, it's ok to respond with "haha" right away. If you're busy, and she wants to keep texting, just let her know you're busy.

2. Give her a point for initiating a string of communication, or for doing something nice for you. It is then OK to initiate a new string for each point. If she misbehaves, take away a point.

3. If your communication dies down, initiate every few days, with decreasing frequency.

By “string” I mean each distinct email or text exchange, or a single phone call.
Onslaughs - NYC

yes. you. do.

Best advice? Be unpredictable/spontaneous. Keep em guessing and keep the texts interesting, dont text unless u've got something interesting to say it'll create mystique about you wondering what you'll say next. I've done this many times, always works like gang busters.

Aha. Before I read PUA materials, I was just like you with a come what may attitude to phone calls and text messages. After a few months, the results are often not good. It's like making the girl eat fried chicken on breakfast, lunch, dinner and midnight snacks for 6 whole, fucking-A, months.

Texting everyday for the first 3 weeks has its advantages though. One, you can escalate to sex-on-text and then sex-on-phone. Two, you can easily build rapport and comfort through text messaging alone for the first 3 weeks, provided that the girl has MORE emotional and time investment in the exchanges than you do.

Now, that I've learned my lesson the hard way. I text the girl everyday for 3 days, don't text her for two days, text her for one day with just one message, and so on... In short, my text messages were UNPREDICTABLE.

There are two common PREDICTABLE things though:

(1) If she says something good, I reward her with immediate replies and keep it up until she's satisfied provided that I'm not busy.

(2) If she does something bad, I don't text her for one whole, fucking-A, week.

Oh. I don't ask for phone numbers with the girls that I'm sarging now. They're the ones who are asking for my phone number. I only give out my number to a select few. Works like magic my brother. Works like magic.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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I don't text any girl.

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I'd say you're doing pretty good, it's probably pretty good to avoid texting a girl more then one day a week, until you have sex with her, you want her to know you're alive and still thinking about her, but you don't want to become her texting friend, use the phone for a purpose, call her to invite her out, don't just randomly become her texting buddy, this can lead you into texting buddy hell, where the frame has been set that you and her text all the time, it has potential to dis-qualify you and increases the chances of her flaking

but after you have had sex with her text her all you want, just be aware if it seems you are getting needy about it