So basically suck at texting and i want help with this girl.

I talked to her a few times at my work before but i haven't seen her in my work for over a month, then a few days ago a coworker of mine gives me her email and said she wanted to talk to me.

So i email her a few times get her number and then text her

Hey Cory its blank that is how you spell your name right? (i spelt it wrong on purpose but she didnt realize it, she joked about it in the email)

Heyy... Nope! Guess again

Its got to be Coryy then, I cant think of any other way to spell it (i spelt her name wrong again on purpose)

Haha wrong again its blank... (she spells it right)

I say aww cut me some slack im bla bla bla (some bullshit)

She says haha i suppose i will.....


I hate how she uses those .... so much someone help me. I don't even care about going after girls at the moment but this opportunity was set into my lap and i'd rather not mess it up.

you hate that she uses smileys? lol i dont know one girl that doesnt use them. Girls will be girls, they love texting, and they are emoticon whores!

give Jay Wa's thread a read, he has a lot of great one liners you can use on her!

the-best-tease-routines-by-jay-wa-vt18584.html

Good luck

"Hang on, I'm texting her a smiley face, BITCHESSS love smiley faces."

Hey Browski, first of all, its' not nice to judge girls just because they use smiley face. Like the above poster mentioned 'girls will be girls,' so get used to this kinda of stuff.

It's seems that this girl is interested in you by the way she is texting you. Your teasing and playing it cool so far which is good on your part.
If she felt comfortable giving you her number, than take comfort in knowing that she wants to talk to you.

My advice is that if you think your really bad at texting, than don't be shy to give a her a call and set something up. Something light and fun, casual, where she can relax and be herself.

hope that helps,

samex

Haha i meant i hate how she uses the dots not the smileys. And thanks i appreciate the advice i just get really nervous and over think these things, always.

Your problem is not of texting; texting is just a logistical tool used to facilitate a seduction, it's not inherently different from any other form of game. Rarely will you ever see a guy with Jedi Face-to-Face game but who can't text girls for shit; unless they're naturally laconic and have their body language do the work for them; but even then their texts send out a congruent vibe so it's irrelevant

No, your problem is of confidence. Every time you look at your phone, put your thumb on the send button, you think "is this the right thing to say? Is there something more suave or smoother?"

You need to let go of that idea. Detach yourself from it. Desensitize yourself to the feeling of rejection and just metastasize all of your anxiety in one epic show of will.

From now on, when you send a bitch a text, you need to think

"Wtffff? I'm fucking UrielPie, Lord and Commander of Cunt, Poon, and Fish Flaps. How dare these bitches text me as if they are my equal? I should demand that they all pay 10 cents for every text they get from me."

You can say whatever the fuck you want in a text. I just texted a girl 6 minutes ago (2:16 AM EST) and told her

"I'm writing on a forum because you're late. You have 10 more minutes to get here or I'm gonna make you lick my asshole tonight. You might even get a nugget or two, I haven't used tissue paper in days."

I could upload the text to prove its real. Credit due to Richard Pryor for giving me the asshole licking idea which I've been using consistently whenever I run Caveman Game (usually around sluts-who-shop-from-urban-outfitters and emo girls who have this strange obsession with abrasive and gross terms).

You can say the most gross, outrageous, funny , and weird shit in texts and if you say it like its cool, you got it. Girls don't give a fuck what you say, they care HOW you say it, and the secksual energy you deliver with it. That includes texting.

Take your text for example. It sounds way to plain, like you're struggling to maintain the conversation for no reason. Don't be afraid to be just tell her "you're cute, come get coffee with me."

And as a general rule, keep this in mind: Sound Masculine. Girls do not like guys who sound like girls on the phone or via texts. That means while she might use smileys a lot, YOU should still minimize your use of them; not counting those times when you are using smileys to either suggest something secksual OR proactively mirroring her texting style to build rapport (a common practice, especially among people more versed in NLP).

And don't text back and forth too much. Remember that YOU ARE A MAN. You don't enjoy texting. You enjoy penis in vagina, and texting is one of those things necessary to GET THERE. Your job then, is to get to penis-in-vagina-land with as few texts as possible.

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Thanks hakuna haha you make me feel like your little bitch after writing all that but i'll make ya proud I get what your saying completely too i don't like texting so i dont have to make it sound like i enjoy doing it. i just do whatever the hell i want to get some lady rug

The negativity towards texting is really bad. I think text-game is one of the best seduction methods out there.

The reason why is because You can continuisly surprise them, build comfort, be mysterious and all kinds of shit. A good texter also shows that he's confident and that he's open-minded. When I started texting, I hated it aswell because my interactions would be like

Her: Heya! How are you doing?

Me: Hey! I'm doing great, thanks - how about you?

Her: Yeah I'm fine, thanks for asking!

that's like, pathetic... You need to put way more energie into a conversation, and trust me, You will receive countless of positive responded. I think it can be crucial for a girl to decide wether or not she'll go for a date 2, less chance for her flaking out etc...
When You're texting, it should be more like this:

Her: Heya, how are you doing?

Me: Honestly, I'm doing great, I just went out to the gym, lifted those weights till no tommorow, enjoyed my meal and am now relaxing with a good old 90's film. How was your day on our little blue planet?

Her: Haha, that sounds amazing, I suppose you're really tired now! My day was great ...

You: I'm exhausted, but there's always some spare-energie for texting with attractive women .. (Insert another dhv story / question here)

^ this is just an example of a message, and how it should be done.

Make sure Your texts contain alot of valuable information that have a good amount of responsive value. You can honestly go any direction with texting, and if a girl is interested in you, texting will be incredibly awesome, If You know how to.

LOL Hakuna, you are super aggressive. Love your style but this might be a little over the top for some guys and gals. You are already great at building attraction, you know how to play the game. I wouldn't recommend being that brutal until you got a good feel/understanding of attraction and how the more attracted they are the more forgiving they are.

You can text a girl some pretty fucked up shit undoubtedly without caring and be fine but that is when SHE cares more then you. These guys don't have the confidence, or skill to build the attraction you do. You got a few honeys rolling around so how big a deal is it to burn a number?

I myself am pretty blunt as well, pretty rude in some perspectives but you can get away with it, you need confidence and a solid amount of attraction.

I also agree about smiley faces, the only time you should use them is if the tone could be misconstrued.

I do disagree on one point, I do think you should put some thought into your texts, and that isn't because you should be worried about what you say. Worrying about what you say isn't the issue. It is simply because sometimes we text the wrong thing to the wrong person or some of us are just pussies and text weak ass shit to girls. Like "oh how was your day?" That is relationship talk not gaming talk.

The goal of the interaction should be fun and flirty. Texting sexual wit should not be avoided, it should be natural. If you have no sexual wit then you should think about it while texting until it is second nature. I'm not saying every message but there should be a tone of sex here and there. You should for damn sure not worry about crossing the line, you should be dancing with it.

To the OP I think you should read a text game book, they can help a bit. I wrote up a decent blog on text game. It isn't the best but it is 4 parts on text game. I need to revisit it and add some more.

http://showyourmind.wordpress.com/2012/ ... ok-part-1/

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