are you talking about supplication?

because to show interest in a girl and qualify her is alot different then supplicating to her for approval, exchanging mutual interests and trying to vibe on them to form commonalities and seeking things to qualify her for, is alot different then supplication the frame is more, wow there is cool stuff about you that I genuinely like, vs a frame of, please like me ill say and do anything to get you to like me, oh my god that compliment seemed to work, here ill do it more, do you like me now?

supplication would more be like, can I buy you a drink, wow you're so beautiful, I've never seen a girl so pretty, tell me about your nails, blah blah blah and let the ass kissing commence

the point is you find things you like about her and you let her know that you like those things, you are most likely not going to fuck a girl by never showing interest, never expressing intent, it just doesn't work like that...

the dick has to leave the pants at some point and she has to realize she is being hit on...

direct or indirect, the only difference is one way you build value before you express interest waiting for her to show it first, the other way you do it first because you are simply direct with your intentions as much as possible

depends on what is more congruent to your personality, but escalation has to take place

Valor I encourage you to listen to every word pumpington said in his first few posts (stopped after there).

You realize by sending someone a message you are immediately telling that person you are interested in them. You have already said, I want you to be with me, there is no other reason I am talking to you. (unless there is a real other reason like in school environment u need hw.)

But pumpington is completely correct with this texting game. As are you, a text is a bridge between dates, don't make it boring, you want this girl sexually, she knows you want her, why else would you text her, be a man and get what you want. Of course build up commonalities and show you dont fuck anything with two legs and a vag, but make your intentions clear. Not once in that post did you mention anything sexually.

Your response to the last message should 100% be sexual.

"Really sexy woman that know what they are doing and are assertive yet feminine, it just makes everything in life so much more enjoyable "

Shit line maybe, but who gives a shit. The point is you are now without saying it painting a picture of you and her having sex, and how you like strong woman who can fuck, trust me she is gonna want to qualify her self. Its human instinct to want to.


Edit:

To lazy to get the whole convo here but I snipped a bit here and there. But I wanted to show you how you can be sexual and playful.

Her: Well I didnt know how entertaining i can be
Me: Well lets experiment and find out
Her: of course
Me: well u have my attention for 30 mins max, then youll be satisfied (i was talking about legit having only 30 mins to talk to me, but that still is sexual)
her: u seem determined, haha
me: I am also very well equipped
her: I'm sure :p
me: only one way to find out

"this is her legit response"
her: Mmm i cant right noww ;( im sure it looks good

My disqualifier after a few mins, (honestly I got bored and wanted to be funny)

I trying to vc and have like some shit go down...

her: Haha then what should I expect? Cuz im pretty sure my shirt is most likely gonna stay on
me: nothing
i wasnt expectong that
ur in the friend zone now remember ;p

her: Ahh right, the friend zonee, rough
me: yup ur like a gay friend
but u have a vagina

her: Im not really sure how to feel about the fact that you just compared me to a gay friend, lol

me: well you have a vag, so thats +1.
her:Well i guess thats a little better

And than I go sexual cause I say how she's easy to please and so fourth. I am not saying this is solid texting game or what ever, but its playful and sexual. There is no doubt in her mind I want to fuck her.

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Not quite sure what you're talking about but then again I'm not sure you do either.

He is saying your pulling shit out of your ass, you need to create some sort of attraction and get her to show interest in you... or... wait for it... qualify herself to you! Holy shit! I know its a lot to take in at once.

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-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

Many girls will find qualifying as a form of game playing and as a result any interest they had in you will dissipate.

Having a girl respond to a qualifier is actually a compliance test, All qualifying is doing is saying you've got standards, but you can do this in any number of ways without qualifying specifically.

Young guys and neophyte pickup artists believe that qualifiers are the end all be all, always gives me a chuckle.

Cognizant, the best way to find out is to try it out yourself - why not? The cliche here is that what might work for you might not work exactly the same way for other people.
Anyway I burnt this number and sent her the "We just met and ur already trying to get to know me lol" before pumpington started to make posts about interests and qualification. I learned a lot anyway and will play around with it in my next game.

Thank you