Hey all,

Ok so basically i live at home with my parents at the moment.. which is a massive cock block!

Im wondering how after a night out i can ask myself back to theres? Having your own place is not only easier to bring people back but also easier to ask... I mean i dont want to sound like a pussy asking with them being like "well why not yours?"

Im generally quite good at talking to girls i think its just that final stage of asking "can i come back?" wondering if any of you guys can pass on some wisdom as im having a little bit of a drought at the moment

Cheers guys!

bump

Just ask, say you can't go back to your place and want to go to theirs, you can only get two possible answers, a yes or a no. If no make sure to get her number than meet up later, or say want to come in my car, have sex in a car, or a beach a park etc...

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Hey BBB,

From my own experience, you need to get a crapload of IOI's before you can suggest it yourself.
Trying to put yourself in that position without carefully wording it can be a turnoff for a lot of girls.
It depends really what you're looking to get out of it.
If its a one night stand, well then you could perhaps say something like "I'd really like to bring you back to my place but I'm getting work done at the moment and the place is a total mess.. " and just leave it open like that.
Let us know how you get on.

cheers for the response guys..

I like the approach of saying i cant go back to mine, but then they may expect i have my own place and ask in the future? Unless i can twist it round and say well is yours free?

ill give it a try.. any other tips? Yeh this is mainly for one night stands lol

Do you have a car? Find some items you can keep in your car that DHV you, and also create an excuse to go back to it. There are so many variations on this.

Like CD's, if you have shared music tastes, "Oh, you like ___?? Me too, actually I know a band you'll love. The music here is shit, I'm about done here, wanna come listen?"

If you're trying to go back to her place... Can't say that I've pulled this one off, but in theory...
Check your phone and then, "Oh damn it. My roommate brought a girl back to our place. I'm not going to be able to sleep tonight."
Maybe she'll offer to come to hers, but I doubt it. I would continue by changing the subject, "Do you have pancake mix at your place? (yes) Oh thank god, let's go make Mickey Mouse pancakes."
(Those are the ones with one big circle and two little ones for ears. Girls love it when I use that bit. The real point is just to give an excuse that sounds fun, and nonsexual.)

So doing that pancake thing, especially cause I fucking love pancakes, seriously I named like 4 girls in my university Jemimah, one of them actually made me pancakes, there names just started with a "J" i tried to make it catch only some did

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-Raphael

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i dont drive either

but yeh i like the fact maybe saying like "wanna get out of here and get some food?"

so idea is to make it non sexual and ofc once im at hers ... well we all know

I think the main thing is trying to get her guard down... any suggestions on that?

cheers for the responses btw