Date: 23 february 2012

Couldn't do street game yesterday..I got caught up in time but me and Froggy still went to a local bar where I knew 3/4 of all the people in field from my classes. I was social proof to the max..I made introductions with several new HB's who gave me shit loads of IOI's. Froggy made some approaches but I couldnt wing him because I was busy with other sets. Fairly fun night I'm glad I'm glad I'm seeing so well social interactions we leaved really early and I drive a HB to her house. Anyway, I want to record my voice during my sets to have feedback on my voice tonality and and to hear how I'm interacting with other people.. I got my HB model date in 2days so I really cant wait to see her! I also set up two other dates with 2 different HB's to practice my day 2's..we'll see how it goes! I'm working on my sticking point of not always pulling the trigger so I write this down to remember that I wont accept failure I have to pull the fucking trigger with these girls.. they're all waiting to get fucked..I can smell it

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Right on the spot.

From what I've been reading, it looks like you have no problem creating attraction and comfort with the girls you flirt with and they are clearly into you, but for some reason I rarely see you saying how you made out or fucked that girl. I've been making out/fucking girls while creating maybe half of the attraction you do with a girl you don't even number close or kiss.

You gotta go for it man. Worst case scenario, she says no when she's uncomfortable. And I don't know if you've kissed many girls, but making out with load of random girls really give you an advantage since you've seen lot of different kissing techniques and such while will make you an amazing kisser... And trust me, girls will remember you for it.

" Oh, I don't know much about you, I just know that your a fantastic kisser", etc.

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

Matt Of course I number close all the chicks I'm going out on dates with or that I make out.. I just dont write that all the time because its obvious to me. I also dont say how I kissed a girl because in my opinion it's something that you feel out like a 6th sense and you go for it..thats how I made my kisses so far (havent risked a lot I'll admit that). I dont miss experience in kissing girls belive me in that one I kissed many random girls but the simple fact that I didnt yet f close one of these 3 HB's is because I'm simply waiting to see them outside my classes..I have a lot of exams and shitloads to do so I'm not always available of going on dates. My logistics arent good either because I dont have my own appartment...so I'm currently making a schedule with these 3 girls when and how will I bounce them to a fuck close location. I'm not trying to build more attraction I'm just trying to find a time and place to fuck them. Theres one chick of the 3 that has her own appartement but she works 40hours a week...basically I'm literally setting up my logistics for the next 2 weeks..it sucks when you dont have your own house but I'm not letting that get in my way!

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Date: 25 february 2012

Members: Valentyn, T_Rex, Philosopher & Jason

Location: Many


GREAT NIGHT

Game Breakdown: Ok so today I realized this..I'm currently capable of 100% enjoying the presence of hot girls being relaxed and comfortable. I do not get affected by rejection at all and I have so much fun in field that I dont even bother closing my sets. And thats great to have as mentality..before I was not capable of doing that! But starting from this moment on, I must not forget that closing is where the real fun starts. My outer game and inner game are at the level where I can and I should close each night at least a number or a kiss. Having fun is great but now it's time to get to business

So first of all...I do some great text game and I set up a date with HB model..it was perfect she said she wanted to go and all. But last minute she had some logistic problems...and I was really pissed..like pissed as fuck. I was going to kiss her 100% so when she said she cant come anymore I started being frustratred..but then I remembered that I'm a PUA and we dont rely on one single girl so I call my wings and we meet up at Comicon.

We were near the train and Philosopher tells me approach a 3 set. It took me 1 sec and a half and I just go in with: "Hey guys you look fun! Had to come say hello" They smiled and I started transitionning I got the set easily hooked than my wing comes in and he starts to run his own game. Now we enter the train and they're a little bit far from where we are so we decided to have some fun. Let's send each guy to them and start hitting on them lol. So I go first I have some fun than I eject. Than another guy goes in..than he gets out and than another guy goes in..so funny I laughed so hard! We got shot down the girl even says: "Strike 3" Haha good times!

We then go in field to a bar and the place is just perfect for PUA's. It was build for us..but there were a lot of mixed sets. I HATE mixed sets so I set up a challenge to at least open one mixed set.

I'm at the bar and this girl comes near me I say Hi. Her friend comes near me and pushes our heads like saying: you guys should kiss. I dodge the kiss because my girl wasnt really attractive. I than used her as a warm up set to get my feet wet than I was ready to go. Again I forgot all the approaches I made I'm trying to remember but it's hard. I push T_Rex who got out of game a while ago and he opens a 3 set..it didnt go really well but I'm glad he approached.

There's this girl she comes near me and says: "Let's have shots". I say: "Yeah you pay!" We have a little debate on it and than she tells me: "Wait your the guy! You should pay for the shots" I'm like: "What?? Seriously? Girl I dont even know your name and you want me to pay money for you??" Her face was just "But that line works with every guy" I say that I'm not every guy..I start qualification I find out she's also a nurse. So I use Mystery's Bait-Hook-Reel-Release tactic to test ther level of attraction. I say: "You're a nurse? No wayy!! I had a crush one time on this nurse she was so hot! I cant even talk to you right now!" pushing her away with my arm. She stayed and even got closer to me so I started kino escalating. For some reason my kino escalation was bad in this set..I was trying to touch her at different places but it was weird I was looking for the IOM but it seems that I cant get it. Anyway I say to her that we should kiss. She says: "No I dont think so". I look at her and point at my cheeck. She gives me a kiss so I got more compliance of her. Now I had to leave to get money for the bartender and when I come back there's like 2 of her friends with her and guy has her arm around her so I dont know..I didnt re-opened the set..anyway

I see this 2 set..one has a great ass and the other one is like a 5. But I see them with two guys. I'm at the bar and they come near me..now I tap the guy on the shoulder and say: "Hey man! Are you having fun tonight?" The guy immediately lights up like: We than shake hands and when he says his name I said that my name is the same as him haha lol. I than ask: "How do you guys know eachother?" He says that he just met the girls so it took me 2 sec and I give a light tap on the elbow of the hot one. She looks at me. I wave and I say Hi. She has a smile and I transiition quickly. I get her name and I say to her that she should introduce me to her friend..she does that being happy and than I phisically put my body in between my obstacle and them. Wow you shoud've seen his face. From to *Oh no! What have I done??!* Haha lol I'm starting to game and my obstacle tries to enter the set but the girl doesnt really aknowledge him and at this point I'm like..ok really easy set to close the girl feels me but after some debate in my head..I told myself anyway she's not even my type and the guy is about to cry so I just told them to have a great night lool

I did other good approaches and all of them were this opener: *giving a slight tap on the elbow and they look at me* I wave and I say : "Hi, how are you?" or: "Hi I had to come say hello you look way too cool" I got all my sets hooked..only one rejection

So we get out of the place and me and T_Rex take the train. We sit near a 2 set who were reallyyy cute. One girl was my 100% perfect type so I open the set..we get in the train and we're kind of far from eachother but I knew they wanted us so I re-opened with a question. Now both girls literally JUMPED out of their seats in another seat to get close to us as soon as I opened my mouth. We talk and it's going fucking great I'm teling myself that this is it we're closing this shit. Suddenly I forgot that subways have quick stops so you need to hurry up. They leave saying bye and we shoud've went out with them because we were heading in the same direction but we forgot Ahhhh it sucks balls my target was freaking my type and she was into me 100%!! Same goes for my wingman..I'm glad I opened really fast and re-opened with no problem whatsoever..anyway...we had a blast!

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Date: 26 february 2012

STYE LIFE CHALLENGE


I completely forgot about this challenge..I'm currently at day 7 so during the next day game adventures, I will continue the challenge..I'll make day 7 and day 8 next week!

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Keep up the good work, your journal has been an inspiration.

I've got a few questions for you: when your at a high energy club, with a lot of dancing chicks.. any ideas how to open them if ur not a good dancer?

Thanks a lot mate! It cheers me up to know that I inspire some guys to take action. For your question..I personally don't do approach on the dancefloor anymore, because I feel like this is not real game. This is my personal point of view and some people may disagree. Using dancing as a tool to build kino or compliance is really helpful though! Now how to open them if you're not a good dancer? Well personally, I know how to dance really well, so I don't know how to put myself in your shoes. I open with a spin or just a forcing IOI (Gambler's method). If she doesnt do something negative after your forcing IOI, you can pretty much go with anything and just grab her and start dancing. If not, you can always wait for your target to stop dancing and approach her matching her energy level. This is what I usually do. Hope I helped!

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Date: 29 february 2012

ONLINE GAMING


So I just created an online account to get free day 2's and practice my gaming skills without even approaching..I'm not relying on this at all but I take it as a bonus + that can increase my skill level.

Now here comes the funny part. I message this chick she immediately gives me interest by asking my name and stuff. Now we talk and she goes: "Wait dont you go to (name of my college)?" I'm like....fuckkk man wow seriously?? First girl I chat up with and already she found out who I was?? I learned she goes at the same college but wtf I never saw her and I know all the school! So I became stressed as shit!! I'm worried about privacy and stuff I dont want people to find out about this stuff but at the same time she cant say anything because she's on the site too.

I'm still a little bit freaked out man but hey..life goes on lol funny story!

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Date: 3 mars 2012

Members: Valentyn & T_Rex

Location: La Mouche


SOCIAL PROOF

So yesterday I went out with T_Rex to a girl's birthday..we were with 7-8 girls around us taking pictures..great fucking social proof. You actually feel the high value running through your body lol..I planned on sarging but I actually got caught up in hanging with these people and just having fun. The field was attrocious. Usually it's much better but wow...night creatures everywhere! I did like 2 approaches just for the skill...I was disgusted by approaching. So I just started practicing my escalation skills on the HB's I was with with no intention of hooking up they're good friends. I used some of Dicarlo's escalation ladder and it works really well! It enables you to escalate smoothly without any chance of rejection what so ever..I could've kiss closed one girl and she wanted to..but she's in the friend zone with me so I didn't want to close her. Not really a field report but hey..I'm still keeping track of my progress..next week off = sarging marathon!

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Date: 5 mars 2012

Members: Valentyn, Froggy, The Mack & OliverKing

Location: Eaton Center


DAYGAME NUMBER CLOSE

Ok well I did 3 approaches because we were hanging out. I opened my first two HB's with the starbucks opener of AFC Adam. I transitionned perfectly and even got the girl to lead me to where the starbucks was. While we were walking, I started gaming and my first set she met with a friend and her friend was like: Who is this guy? She goes we just met. So she says: What?? You talk to strangers now? Now I know she was trying to blew me off I befriended her a little bit than I asked the closing line. The girl started hesitating than the CB said: Would you take her number if I told you she has 2 kids? I'm like wow really? So I said to her to stop bullshitting I'm still geting her number. Now my target says like: But I never give my number to strangers. I didnt handled that well enough I said like: Why not? You're cool we need to hang out. She hesitated...than her friend said something about a movie and I lost my set. The 2nd one I do the same thing and I start to build some attraction. I said: "You look lebanese" She goes: wow how did you know? I'm like: "Well lebanese girls are so cute and adorable you just fit too well in that category" I think that made her day lol she started giving IOI's and after like 10min I asked the closing line. She goes: I have a boyfriend. So I used Sasha daygame way of dealing with this. I said like: What's his name? She told it without even hesitating so I said like: Fuck you didnt hesitate you're not inventing an imaginary boyfriend. We kissed goodbye and I was like damn..almost there

Now I'm sitting on a chair and I see this really fucking adorable girl walking past me..my type. I get up and say to her: Wow you look so adorable I just had to say hi to you. She stops looks at me and I ask her name..now I shake her hand 60 year challenge way..this is the longest that I've done this..it took about 30 solid seconds for our hands to back down. I took that as more than IOI..I knew that it was on after that point. Now she gives me a simple shit test: "So what is this like a bet that you're doing for your friends?" and I have the best answer: "Listen..first of all I'm someone really social..2nd of all..life is too short that if I see someone attractive I dont go to talk to them" Yeah so that wrap it all up she started giving more IOI's..she guessed my nationality so I gave her a high five for it..I was trying to find ways to kino..than at the end I asked her "I have to go to my friens now but what's the best way to get in contact with you?" She says: "phone take my number" Which I did and gave her 2 kisses on each cheeck..great stuff the girl for me is a minimum 8. The only thing is that I did this very fast..like 4 min maybe..so I hope I dont get a flake..I texted her approximately 3 hours after we met so we'll see where this goes. I'm glad I'm making progress!

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TEXT GAME TIP

She didn't flake. Now I see a lot of guys have a problem with text game so just to help some of you guys out.. here's the 1st text that I wrote:

"Hey..how are you? I hope your memory is long enough for you to remember who this is"

Have fun boys!

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You'll know if she flaked or not if she meets up with you, not before.

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Dude whats the 60yrchallege handshake... i just hold it longer than normal is that it or is there more to it?

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-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

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You hold her hand until she lets go. You do not remove it..your the last one to remove your hand. The thing is that hands never lie. You want to find an IOM - indicator of mutual interest. If a woman does not find you attractive she will not want to touch you. Now if you meet a girl and she keeps holding your hand for longer than usual it's just a quick way of finding a little bit of her interest level. It also shows your confident and the most important..its kind of a small escalation. Any skin to skin contact is really good..she likes it and you start off with some great kino

Guys PRIVATE MESSAGE ME for questions like this it just ruins my thread!

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Date: 8 mars 2012

MINI LAY REPORT


Ok this is not a lay report at all but I was somehow there..it's a little bit weird and strange as how things happened so this is it.

I'm suppose to see this HB who I'll name HB Snake. I NC her while I started this journey, a long time ago, but we stopped talking to eachother because I thought I got in the LJBF zone. Anyway, we set up a date for tonight, but at the last minute she gets a call that she has to work over-time. We end up meeting at 10:30 PM and she tells me to come ring at her door. I get in her house and in the back of my mind I know what's about to go down. She texted me some indirect invitations of fucking and even thought I felt some anxiety, it quickly went away as I "entered the set". I felt like I was in my element and I was feeling much more confident than I felt on our first date. Now you see, here comes a small problem in my logistics: she has 4 girls that live with her. They were all there at the table waiting for me and I introduced my self to all of them. One of them was giving me clear IOI's but we started talking and her fucking friends just kept talking and talking about stupid shit. HB Snake was near me at the table so I tried to escalate the more that I could with my hands and of course my legs. For some reason I feel like she's not really getting the message and than I find out why. She's high So anyway I tried isolating her by saying to her that she should show me the snake she has. Now her idiot friend said: "Wait I'll get it!" And she goes in a room and brings the disgusting snake in front of me which I only want to dip in oil and burn that motherfucker to ashes.

So that failed. Now I start to get pissed it's midnight and her friends are still there at the table drawing guys making kung fu and eating nutela. I'm like fuck bitches go to sleep! All of them leave except 1 of them and after I get some small amount of like 3 min in isolation with my target..I get again "cock blocked". Now I don't know if it's the weed she smoked or not but I don't really understand at all my situation. I took her in her room and closed the door behind me. I sit on the bed and she sits on a chair. I didn't realize this I shoud've told her to come sit near me..mistake I didnt realize in field. Anyway, I start to bring some sexual topics because I realized that our conversation because of her friends talking for 2 hours started to become like how they were talking: about gummy bears and small shit chat, while I just want to pound her. For some reason, the sexual topics changed really fast it didn't last long so I was like fuck this girl keeps talking and talking non stop. Because of the weed, I think she was like in that little bubble of hers that you get when you're high. So she would keep talking and my eyes were starting to close it's like 12:30-1 AM. I get fed up with it and I'm then trying to create sexual tension so she shuts the fuck up. That, worked perfectly we even started hitting it off a little bit for the first time during our night. I grabbed a pillow and I started hitting her with it because she failed the 5 questions game. It was good I was improving our sexual interraction, but than suddenly it went back to small chat. I tried to sexually escalate with any part of my fucking body but it seems that she doesn't really sees it..yet she gives me IOI's I don't know man it's weird as fuck I'm confused.

I get fed up of her and I tell her that I'm going home she can go fuck her fingers for tonight I'm not wasting any more time here. She says that she wants to come with me to my car. I took that as an indicator of her wanting to be kissed, so when we arrive in front of the car, I gave her slowly..2 kisses on each cheeck and than I looked at her in the eyes. She immediately goes nervous and kind of looks away kind of backing off, kind of not knowing what to do. Again..what the fuck..I don't know what can I say..I just know that she texted me some pretty obvious invitations to fuck..and when I make an effort to go for it she seems either stupid to notice it or looks like she doesnt want to..but at the same time she gives IOI's I don't really understand her or the way she acts..I'll see her again without her friends next time

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