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A few thoughts in no particular order:
1. If you'd like to learn leadership skills, you are in the wrong forum This is a pick up forum. This is where you learn how to disco your way into a ONS. Not giving a fuck by the way is the OPPOSITE of the behavioral traits of good leaders. Telling people to do things is the OPPOSITE of the behavioral traits of good leaders.
2. If you are not a participant in dynamic and progressive groups, you already have tendencies and habits that keep you from participating. Correcting this takes A LOT of fucking work. Identify your weaknesses. . . accept them . . . work on them.
3. All things being equal, it's far better to be intelligent than to be a moron. Read, write, brush up on your communication skills. It doesn't take much work.
4. Value = Perceived Benefits/ Price(cost)
a. You might not quantify it but this equation goes on in your head all day long. You might get a cup of coffee because the perceived benefit is GREATER than the cost; Value > 1. (If the cup of coffee cost you $50, you might not get it because in that case, Value < 1.
b. ^This is a simple way to explain it but essentially, you walk around all day long both subconsciously and consciously contemplating this equation. Should I take x street or y street? Should I have coffee with my boss or my brother? Should mow the lawn or should I go fishing?
c. A short discussion is all it takes to figure out another's value equation habits. In the initial post, the author offered 'pick up assistance' in return for a place to stay. The hosts quantified benefits(picking up women) to be far greater than the costs (letting some dude sleep a their place) = High value.
d. If you can figure ^this out, then you will realize that boasting non-existing, non-quantifiable qualities for yourself will do nothing for you. On the other hand, it's great to showcase your talents, back it up, demonstrate the importance of this talent for the progression of the group, and freely offer it.
5. ^All of these things are habits. You'll see that certain people suck at it. I don't know skills nor do I care enough to insult him or praise him. All I can tell you is that he has the repulsive habits of PUSHING groups away. This is why he works for himself, by himself, hangs out by himself, and hits on lonely married chicks. None of this is good or bad. If this is what you want out of life, this is what you do. If you want to INCREASE your social/work network however, you'll want to do the opposite what he has demonstrated here. It's as simple as that.
you are hilarious... Kasabi thanks for investigating my life you are a psycho, but at least get it right... damm dude! you are scary i will give you kids my advise, it will not be so elocuent as kasabi...
#1.- Leadership: is good to be a leader in a sense not to be a pussy around women and be decisive, or so you do not want to be a follower, a lot of follower end up in gangs, doing drugs, in fraternities( i kow a lot of people that are alcoholics due to fraternities), cigarretes habits etc...
#2.- is ok to disagree, and not like somebody as an individual, still always love them as a person, hate is not good do not hate, people when you hate, the other person has won, love you kasabi(actually i do not dislike the dude, i really believe the dude has issues)
#3.- Fuck people determining how do you want to live your life, live your life how it pleases you, you only need to please yourself(oh shit kasabi read my signature please)
#4.- Learn how to pick and choose your fights, or try to avoid fighting, if you win the fight you lose anyways... Bullying specially by a grown ass man, is silly,stupid,childist...
#5.- yes be self employeed, you are either making yourself rich, or making someone else rich...
#6.- 90% of your happiness is choosing the right partner..
#7.- fuck all that value shit, learn how to SELL! everything is selling... fuck value, what makes you different than the 50 other dudes... In biz improve an existing product by 10% and BE ABLE TO SELL IT... Sells is the shit, and is the closest profession to pua...On the other hand i think kasabi is a computer dude, closest profession to afc...Go to a computer college how many intellectual nerds, or computer and math dudes are getting laid...See for yourself...
Finally, see kasabi, i can do your pick up game, your methood, whatever, actually teach me your methood, and i will go out try it and make a field report, seriously i welcome the challenge, and i will get out of my confort zone, since i basically all i like to do is club game...
now you can and you will never be able to do what i do, which is to met a girl and in within minutes have her tongue down my throat without even saying a word, then, i have the ability to transform women to the way i want them to be, you in a million year will never possess that skill, and then are ready kasabi, PIMP THEM, not only that having a bunch of dudes and women following you around at clubs like a movie start, see dude i can do what you do, but you can not do what i do, other than that keep putting your intellectual crap, i love it, this for me amoging your little intellectual as is a lot of fun, and i am just getting warmed up, i am just trying to be respectful to californication, but lets go at this come on, dude... i ain't sexaddict i actually love this shit... by the way did you copy down the angry dude theory, make sure you did...
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I'm just saying it's not the leadership or alphaness that gets them there, but their frame, their reality, their choice not to comply with anybody.
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let me know when it's out man!