Hi I went out and had a coffee with a girl from work the other day. It was the first time we had a proper conversation as we get to know each other.
She has added me on facebook and we've been talking for couple of days now, I know this set of conversation is long but I would very much appreciate it if you could read it and give me some feed back on how I am going and how I could escalate it to a more sexual level.


Me:Hey u, how was work? 
Out this weekend?

Her:Hey you!! Same as always bit boring. Yay I'm going to greenhead for the weekend!! How about you?

Me:That sounds awesome !!!
Not too sur about myself yet I think I'm going to a friends housewarming 
Where there are no alcohol........ Hahaha
I can't believe I still have to go to work tomorrow 

Her:Wow you drinking!! That something that I've never heard before . Well at least is friday.

Me:Omg you are making me sound like an alcoholic!!
Hey you never told me what u wanted to do other than nursing, which u love hahah

Her:Haha, well you know that the first step is to accept that you have a problem! Hmmmmm didn't I??

Me:Ok ok haha
Nope you can tell me next Monday after work?

Her:At what time do you finish?

Me:I always finish at 230 
You?

Her:
I think I finish at 1 on monday....... Not sure

Me:Aww 

Her:How about wednesday?

Me:Yep wednesday sounds good =]
So r u going to greenhead on tomorrow or sat?

Her:Tomorrow!! Can't wait!!!!

Me:Haha it does sound like an awesome weekend!!!
R u going with family?

Her:Yeah, and family friends. But I think I might drink  only a bit though


Me:Did I just.... Yep I spotted an alcoholic!!

Her: haha you wish!!!!

Me:Hahaha don't deny it

Her:hah there is nothing to deny!!!!!!!!!
see i'm not like you i drink occasionally 


Me:Ohhhh this girl!!!
Really?? 
And what are MY drinking habits?

Her:haha well from what i hear you like drinking and do so quite often (but then again im not sure if i can trust my sources of info) 

Me:And here I am thinking that this girl has an awesome sense of humor!!

Her:as in a clonw-ish way???? because i hate clowns

Me:Ummm.......??????

Her:clowns are supposed to be funny but they are really scary

Me:Yea clowns aren't my fav type of entertainer either 
But what I meant was, you shouldn't take what i say too seriously some time hahaha

Her:i know i just like to tease you!
its quite entertaining 

Me:Oh god ,Okok u got me ,Well done haha

Her: that doesn't mean that i'll stop though

Me:Love it haha,Ok let's see what u got;)

Her:haha you make it sound as if i was a very mean person

Me:You're* not???

Me:I'm kidding!

End of convo no reply from her

A day later......"Sat night"


Me:Hey hey!! how's greenhead? 
Btw I went pass that La cholita place in nb and it looks awesome!!!


Thx again in advance.

Cute banter, she is attracted you can tell in her response. I would try and get a date to happen and work from there. Maybe invite her where u and some friends are going to be and @ xx you should come...

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As Raphael.Rapoport you can easly see she is atracted, as when the monday thing after works fails, she proposes another day for the meet-up. Meet with her on wednesday, build rapport, and as Raphel said, ask her out for thw weekend

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Cheers guys ! Got a movie date going tomorrow, I'll keep you guys posted !! Thx for the help

So tell us, how did it go?

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Hahah hook us up with some details... who said guys cant get in a circle and talk about gossip haha

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-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

not too sure what i did wrong but it was disappointing, a k-close after movies and dinner,this girl is just too shy.

Thats better than nothing take it slow, if you care about her you dont need to rush. There are always other girls on the side.

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Best of Luck
-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

Start evolving your game, a kc is really good, maybe this girl had some bad experiences in the past, and is afraid to be completely open with you, that's why she is shy. Build trust.

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Just start whispering all the bad things you want to do too her in her ear

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Well guys, this will be an interesting update.
She is a virgin.....I think that's why she is shy,
So.... What now??! Haha
She is 22 and Latin btw

Uhhh probably not actually a virgin.

I'd be bored if I was the one texting you, no offense bud. It's just a lot of nonsense. Do you want to be texting-friends with this girl, or do you want to see her?

Long, non-sexual conversations by text are BAD. If you see yourself in one, EJECT! And then figure out a way to CALL her!

Phone calls > Texting x 1,000,000

But hey, congrats on the kiss close! Call her up and get to know her!

REMEMBER KISS
Keep
It
Simple
Stupid

Your text messages are WAY too long. Keep it short, keep it simple. Make your response shorter than hers, ALWAYS. Don't be too enthusiastic and show some disinterest, like you have MORE important things to do than JUST text her.