I had a thought of doubt when I was last dirty talking my girlfriend and then thought
"Wow. This doesn't sound like something I would have said a year ago. Have I turned into a disrespectful dude?"

of course I understand in the bedroom, rules are a little different...
But JUST to be safe, I want some extra opinions on what I'm saying. Are they too "dirty"?

Results are good, but I'm wondering if there is a point where girls actually start to think "He always talks like this in the bedroom, he is a bastard to me blah blah".

OK - usually my stuff goes along the lines of:

-If you're a good girl, I'll let you suck my dick

-Be a good girl and get on your knees

-You're so good with your lips, aren't you?

-You want to be held down into position, and you want to be willingly taken by me. You want me to put you on your back, separate your legs, and you want to feel my hard penis move deep inside you. All you want is to be ravished, fucked, that's what we are built for. And you are craving it.

-(while fingering) Aw, you're so wet. Imagine how easily my dick would slide into you right now.

-I want to hold you down, grab the edge of the bed. I'm going to fuck you hard. You will never feel like more of a woman in your entire life, never more desired. You're going to be begging me to fuck you harder.


That's sort of as heavy as I get. Usually I use made-up lines like this once we are close to sex, but sometimes just through a text message to warm the girl up.

Way to go, dude! This is awesome.

You are right on target. Keep it up!

Whatever you do, don't apologize. If she thinks that you've gone too far, she'll tell you. But I found that you can take dirty talk to a ridiculous level and get her massively turned on. If you have the balls to take it farther than the other guys, she will release her own inhibitions.

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From all the material I've read, you're not doing anything too vulgar here, although it's a bit like porno talk, so I don't know how much it turns the girl on. It probably turns you on more than her. Be more subtle, more descriptive, more sensual.

I don't personally think subtlety works when you're fucking a girls brains out.
(shrugs)

This is my dirty talk...

I am going to stick my dick in your pussy and then pull it out than in than out, then in, than take it out and tease your pussy... just slapping it

Why dont you just take my cock down ur throat, then grab her and make her take down my cock... u fucking cunt (cause I get wild sometimes and love it) I tend to laugh (in my head) at this line cause its just too fucking funny.

But yea bro your fine be assertive in bed girls like that shit, but dont say "do you like this, is this good, am I going to slow..." you tell her how she likes it.

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Raph you're a legend

That's some of the stuff I feel I want to say, but was unsure whether that level was a little over the top.

Good to know from someone whose tried it
Cheers mate

No worries I promise you though u will be laughing cause its just so ridiculous. I am far from a legend haha, just a horny ass 18 yr old

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You meet cool girls if they all find that funny, I know some who'd slap the hell out of someone if they'd say that to em.

Of course there are girls that would bitch slap me, and thats why i am smart about it... i know how to pick my poison this guy clearly is with a girl who likes dirty talk...

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Yeah man I can't do it, I actually started laughing cos my voice went all fake hardcore as I tried to say it hahaha

Worst.

BUT - I expanded by calling her my "little whore" and she actually loved it.

In RL (real life, as in out of the bedroom) I would never call a girl that who I have respect for. I guess that's why it has such an impact in the bedroom, cos it's so in congruent with your character that it makes it sound more raw.

To anyone reading this, I recommend upping the dirty talk. Even if you think it wont work, try it. The girl I'm with is the most innocent girl I've ever been with by far, and it has the biggest effect on her.

Go for it

Dude that's just awesome! But remeber that it's a powerfull weapon in the right hands. Not everyone can use it, and it has a time and place. There is a difference between rapist creepy, and and hot dirty porn talk. Always remember that women are sexual beings as well.

I also use it sometimes even when going out. As long as you are confident about your sexuality and you don't apologize for it, girls can't resist it.

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Isn't the main difference whether you're sexy yourself? So if you're sexy, dirty talk is 'hot dirty porn talk', but if you're ugly it's rapist creepy.

I dont think your dirty talk is too dirty. Then again it depends on the girl. Calibrate.

Why do you talk dirty? To arouse her of course. You say stuff and then you see if she gets aroused or not. Thats how you do it. If she doesnt like it, you went too far, or not far enough. If she does, you go for it.

It is not all about you, it is about her reaction. It is a way of building sexual tension between the two of you.

It is also about tonality and intention. You can say "doorhandle" in a sexier way than "pussy" could ever be if you do it right.

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