It really is a drug. I was in love for a year and a half and lost it. Now life just isn't enjoyable, I'm like a crack head feening for a hit.
I have had another relationship since but just didn't fall for the girl. I see people all around me falling in love and it is all I want to do, how do I find it?

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just because my name is safety doesn't mean i like condoms

First find yourself, get some hobbies, dont live to work work to live - same thing, you need to live life and on the way find love. You will always feel empty and ruin relationships because in the end you arent working on yourself as an individual. Take up hobbies, go to the gym, go to library, mall, anything.

You cant find love if your not putting in the work, thats just retarded thinking.

God creates opportunities for you to accomplish. At least take a chance, he isn't going to hand it to you on a silver platter. (Yes, god is a he in my world. Fuck off if you dont life it )

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Best of Luck
-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

You need to take your mind off of it man. If you are focusing on yourself and meeting many different women, it will be much better.

You need to find friends and stuff too that will help you out and help you take your mind off of crap.

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If you are not a PUA, you are a noob.

heres some bad advice for you... take it if you want.

sounds like youre bored. party fucking hard for a while. drink lots of alcohol and smoke a lung up. have fun, go out most nights of the week. be hungover almost every day. LIVE IT UP! always be out! just go through a complete wreckless binging stage. People will start worrying about you, but dont stop yet til youre ready...

and when you come back from that you'll have a shitload of new experiences and be over this whole love thing. you'll be quite happy with just normal, plain ol' carefree life for a while

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Sorry I didn't reply sooner, thanks for the advice guys I do appreciate it, and I have decided to mix them all into one solution.
I'm going to take my mind off it by focusing on improvement. I have decided to learn to speak Spanish and also uni starts in a month so that will be a distraction. Also I booked a holiday to Thailand on a complete whim haha I'm so excited I'm just going to go experience that world and fend for myself in a foreign country for two weeks and see where I end up haha
I'm already feeling a lot better thanks again guys

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just because my name is safety doesn't mean i like condoms

Wow dude way to take initiative I wish I was a bit more spontaneous like that, I want to re-learn some french, but I did book a flight to florida for spring break

Enjoy Thailand tell me how it is I never been or heard of any one from there really. I am quite interested.

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Best of Luck
-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

Man, you aren't going to get any chicks at your mindset. "I'm depressed without love." You have to love yourself before you can have someone loving you. Where is your motivation playa? You have to have something? Music? School? Money?



Don't forget bodybuilding! Imagine if you had a body like that? You'd be too in love with yourself and wouldn't care about women lol (While smashing chicks like no tomorrow )

OMG WHEN ARE YOU GOING??? IM GOING TOO!!!!!!!!! Panama City Beach!!

can we meet up? haha

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I'ma be what I set out to be, without a doubt undoubtedly, and all those who look down on me I'm tearin down your balcony, no if ands or buts, don't try to ask him why or how can he

Fuck yea bro... I am staying at Univ Tampa at this girls dorm. I promised I wont fuck her roomies but I never said anything about friends haha.

I am there march 9-18... dude lets get shit faced and party and forget every moment of it. Ahaha but for real "Game on!"

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Best of Luck
-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

damn! thats not Panama City Beach tho

Im there march 10 - 17

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I'ma be what I set out to be, without a doubt undoubtedly, and all those who look down on me I'm tearin down your balcony, no if ands or buts, don't try to ask him why or how can he

I got a chick who is my sex slave shell drive me

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Best of Luck
-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html