I have been together with my GF for 3 months now, about 1.5 month ago we had sex for the first time and i took her v card.. But there was a problem with all of this

Our first time my penis wasn't really hard and it took a long time for it to finally succeed, the first time kinda sucked because i was worrying to much about my dick and eventually had to stop because it got flaccid...

We tried to have sex after this a couple of times but it never worked, my dick always just gave out.

Note: I have had sex about 30 times before this without problems

She always comforts me and tells me that she doesn't care about it and that i just need time but i just can't get over it..

I also feel shit because the first time kinda sucked and i feel like she didn't enjoy it at all and now maybe she thinks that that's ''sex'' while it isn't its way better than that..

Yesterday she came over and i was going to a party afterwards so i drank a little alcohol (So i wouldn't be nervous about it not going up) but instead we got into an argument about a really stupid reason and i don't even know why but i just got mad for nothing..

Im thinking about this shit all day, about how i want to fuck her good and stuff like that but everytime we try it fails... I get so frustrated about it and think i out my frustration on her...

Should i tell her about this? I really don't know guys

Bro you are just to tense and nervous, you keep reliving that one moment. The past is the past, get over it. Live in the present and aim for the future. So your dick didnt get hard, who cares you said it before it gets hard 30x before.

Stop watching porn, this might affect it (a lot actually) the inreasing rate for teenage ED has increased drastically due to porn watch.

Your frustration is immature and not needed. When you are with her again foreplay, and take a calm breather. Its called making love (or used to be) make love to her, its not a porn scene where you have to ram your cock in her tight pussy and make her squeal like a pig. Just relax, do some yoga, and meditate before. Keep your mind at ease and you will be fine. Talk to her, say its been hard because you are trying to make it perfect for her, be honest with her, and let her know that you care about her. But for fuck sakes stop being a girl and getting over dramatic about it. You are fine!

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