You are Good. You understand logistics, caliberation and escalation really good. Could you start your own thread. ....You are seriously good, infact you are better than the OP. And in 20 yrs time if you tell us that you've slept with 800 women with your method it wud be believable!

Hahaha Still hating. Ignorance is bliss eh Marc

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Dude i don't doubt your game, you know what you are talking about. It does however seem that we are dealing on average with different type of women. There is always a time to be how you say, but there is also a time to do such things as cooking. If it's not needed in my seduction, then I don't do it.

You are failing to see what "cooking" or offering to cook stands for. I understand what you are saying about being heavy on the sexuality. But thats just it. That is already implied. I eat/breath sexuality, its in everything I do. Cooking is just a tool, just like dancing or massage. If you ask any woman you meet, what they think about a man that can cook. They will all reply the same way. " It's sexy" If I am in the postition where I am cooking for a woman, it means that the SNL didn't happen. So odd's are even if the girl is sexual, she needs some reassurance first.

By offering a dinner, it is giving her the sense of control, traditionally women are the ones cooking. To have it offered to them, from my experience tends to bring down their guard.

I have found "cooking" to be an extremely productive tool in my seductions.

Women are classic gossippers, they love to tell their friends about dates or whats going on. If they can tell their friends they met a guy and he is going to cook her dinner, she will also get validation from her friends.


Their is a time and a place to be mocho or sexually aggressive, just like their is a time an a place to paint a different picture, all has the same outcome. But all does not work the same on each individual woman.

Cooking is just a tool, the more tools a PUA has in his belt, the better he will be.

I notice a lot of people writing in this forum, but it seems a lot of people dont really know women well. They understand the "calibration/escalation" and blah blah blah, but I notice alot of general ignorance when it comes to learning about women. It's easy to do, ask them questions, before/after/during any seduction

I'm not referring to you skills360, I am referring to the general public in this forum.

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Nice. While I was living in Ibiza for three months I also bought a mixer and learned how to make a bunch of cocktails. There is this bar that sells amazing strawberry daiquiris but they are 9 or 15 Euro a glass (can't remember) so I bought all the ingredients and would make one for every girl that came over... so I'd impress them with my skill and also get them real drunk in the process

We need to get back to the topic of SNL...

You can be sexual without "being a bad boy / not giving a fuck". In fact I think being intellectual, smart, honest, a "good boy" + being SEXUAL AS FUCK is more powerful because it's rare and a more complex personality. In the long run it's better to be an asshole who does not give a fuck because that whats keeps them around, but for that initial attraction I'm not sure one is better than the other.
haha. I'd say if you cocking a girl, you're very much touching....

There are women that love cads and some women don't.

Some women won't like you no matter what , but again both of you are not asking the right questions.

BEFORE ANYTHING ELSE YOU MUST KNOW , "WHAT I WANT ?"

I want just sex , no date , no nothing > one night stands and fuck-buddies ( and seek these types of women)

I want sex no matter how much energy and how I get it. Hit on every woman I meet , go to clubs to get phone numbers and have all night stands ( all of them )

I want a relationship and so on.

I actually love cooking with girls, and you can be touching the entire time. You make it sexual (fuck if you make anything sexual it works) but yea I cook and make it sexual, like her lick off the extra on my finger, getting behind her and just kissing her neck.

Even if I am just making stuffed mushrooms and a salad. I will find excuses to make her lick my finger and shit. I think its how you do something, and by giving an excuse why its not a PUA activity you are using AFC tactics and having "AA" of some sort.

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Sex addict, you say cooking is a tool, cooking is not a tool, it is not needed, i have never ever cooked for a woman in my whole life, not any natural i know, the only time i so called "cooked" i order take out for my gf, and on valintines i served it to her and say i did it, i will tell you why i disagree with you and your you cooking tool:
What do you want is to show women that you are "unique/different"

dinner, movie, cooking, flowers is the traditional courtship THAT EVERYBODY DOES, pua, not pua whatever, that will put you into the "nice guy" or worst in the "boyfriend" category and hot women scare to death of the so call "nice guy", or if they know you are cool he is not the scary nice guy, that will put you into the "boyfriend" category, which in turn will delay sex, and will put you under the microscope, what are his flaws would he be a good boyfriend, dates that are good easy: meeting in starbucks, meeting in a club, bar, walking on the beach, walking on a park, renting a movie, actually a women will more likely meet you for low pressure stuff like that, since the other experiences were probably with weak ass dudes and they may be traumatized.... I would personally stay away from the so call "cooking" it is not needed, i nor every natural i know do the so call cooking... This is what women talk about me to other women: he is so much fun, he is a good fuck, he is so different, he is crazy, i can't believe he said this omg, i can not read him, omg look at the text he send me, he dances so sexy...but anyways, what ever works for whoever.. Again, i have never ever cooked for anybody in my life so i can not relate, i know adamtaste does something similar, but again everybody is different, that does not change the girl or quality of girl... But to label cooking as a tool, is not a tool, is something to do, and by your description you are trying to "impress the girl" , impressing the girl and her friends, in my experience is equal to sudden death...

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Envy (also called invidiousness) is best defined as a resentful emotion that "occurs when a person lacks another's (perceived) superior quality, achievement, or possession and either desires it or wishes that the other lacked it."[1]
Envy can also derive from a sense of low self-esteem that results from an upward social comparison threatening a person's self image: another person has something that the envier considers to be important to have. If the other person is perceived to be similar to the envier, the aroused envy will be particularly intense, because it signals to the envier that it just as well could have been he or she who had the desired object.[2][3]
Bertrand Russell said envy was one of the most potent causes of unhappiness.[4] It is a universal aspect of human nature because not only is the envious person rendered unhappy by his envy, but also wishes to inflict misfortune on others. Although envy is generally seen as something negative, Russell also believed that envy was a driving force behind the movement towards democracy and must be endured to achieve a more just social system.[5] However, psychologists have recently suggested that there may be two types of envy: malicious envy and benign envy - benign envy being proposed as a type of positive motivational force.[6][7]

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Dude, it's just playing the game. A mind manipulation game. I never have to worry about being cast into the "nice guy" or boyfriend material, as my personality does not allow that. I am way too sexual. I said this before. Sexuality is in everything I do. There is no time for sudden death. I am only dealing with women a few times. I almost always seal the deal. I get sex because it is who I am. It is my nature. By making the woman comfortable, and myself desirable, she wants to comply to my sexuality. Don't you understand this Skills? Not every woman is gonna want a sexual beast, at least not at first. Some women need to feel adored or courted first. Cooking is a tool. It's a great tool. Most women do not hang out with men and imply sex. Not like we do, sure they may of thought about it, but it still has to be drawn out of them. You can't always just jump on a couch and start to make out, sometimes steps have to be put into place.

Every woman is different. But still don't want to be viewed as a slut. Regardless if they are.

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Okay, got you! this is a better explanation, and i agree 100%...

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This has to deal with a long situation I have been in for a while. The situation starts I had a a hot friend worker who I liked to hang out with for a while. A year goes by, and me I went from complete nerd to PUA right. So she starts getting interested, and all I could see her as was a friend, until we go clubbing, and she forces me to dance with her for an hour then. I start getting the weird urge to kiss her. So I say fuck it my night has not been successful. Then I instantly feel weird since I only seen this girl as a friend. The next week I realize I have feelings for her. Basically oneits. So I tell her that I like her blah blah blah. She says she only sees me as a friend blah blah blah. So I move on right. Couple weeks ago she wants to hang out with me. So I think why not we hang out 3 days in a row partying having a good time. Then my feelings arise for her again. I am like damn, but this time I am way more confident after break because I was picking up left and right on my break. So I had momentum. So I believe that she had a thing for me right. And I told her this , but their was one thing holding me back from me making her my gf. I have specific qualifications, and I thought she didn't have it. I told her this then she kind of talked me into thinking that she had the possibility. Though the whole night she kept saying that I only see you as a friend. Then one day being homeless because my house is far away from campus, and I don't have a car. she calls me up ask me to hang with her she gets drunk I go sleep in her room nothing happens except we talk about life, and she shows me a side I did not realize before until then. It was the last part I was looking for in a gf. Then one of my friends convinces me to ask her to be my gf over the phone after talking about how much sexual tension we have together. I ask her she doesn't say no it is a like 2 min pause. Then a couple days later I get into her room to sleep over again. I then pop the question again. She says I think we are just friends blah blah. Then i go on about talking about how we have an incredible connection blah blah get on the side of her bed and ask the question again. Then say I really want to kiss you then do it. We make out for a little and she says I can't until I get over her x boyfriend. Which i have known she was obsessed with for a while. She sad give me time so I get off of her, and talk a little then go to sleep I wasn't thinking really at the time I should of had sex with her,but I messed up. Fast forward to last week I hang out with her on saturday all day we go on an awesome hang out we go to the beach run on a bridge go shopping together. Then we go to a restaurant eat, and talk. I can feel her hesitation the whole time though she tries to avoid eye contact. So I can tell she actually cares about me because she said she does not think she could be faithful to me if we were boyfriend and girlfriend because of her x thats why I feel she is super hesitant around me I know that she is interested in me until the worst thing that could happen happened. She hooked up with her x and now hes ignoring her after I left her. Now the thing is I know this is a shitty situation and your probably going to say hey move on, but I don't give up that easily. I know she likes me it just is how do you remove a memory of an old boyfriend with a new one? What is the best way to approach this to get this girl?

In all honesty dude, you have to just keep doing what you are doing. If you care about her and want to be in a relationship with her, all you can do is wait. Be her friend, be there for her when she needs you. Keep showing interest but don't press it. Be patient and she will come around. Keep showing your value but don't be a push over. Time is the only answer here.

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After reading through some of these posts, I think a lot of members here feel threatened by SexAddict.

Threatened? why so? I am not here to steal anyone's thunder. Am just trying to help.

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