She has not told me about her bf and does not know I know she has one.

Number closed few days later texted her exchanged a few texts told her we should get lunch including 2 days I was free

She replied with "I'm gonna be outa town till next week (which was true) .... but Definetly after that "
That seems to me like she was for sure down for it then on Xmas we exchanged a few texts I suggested a date when she was home and got no reply.2 days later I called and got no answer. It's been almost a week since then and I saw on her Facebook new pics with her bf

I was thinkin maybe her bf got her some things for Xmas and her bday which was right after Xmas and decided she didn't wanna cheat. What do you guys think?

I was thinking of sending a text sonething like
"Seeing you have a bf i think if we meet up for lunch it should be strictly platonic, no trying to seduce me! :p"


Good or bad? I would like to meet her once so in the future she will know me and maybe things could work out. She is for sure a 10

Bro there is no need to post the exact same posts in two different threads, in fact, I am going to go on a limb here and say more people will comment on the fact you did this then address your issue, or they will do both, but definitely mention the double thing.

To be nice... I can be at times, I will address your issue... UM What the fuck??? Is there really a need to get with some other dudes chick, are you gaining a personal achievement if you make a girl cheat on her bf, cause if so, well than let me tell you a secret, its a shit thing to do.

There is going to be a more attractive, smarter, 100x better personality, girl out there whom looks the same and as I mentioned more attractive. With that said, stop, just stop... why waste energy on someone who has interest. Anyways, you texting and calling, and texting that other message sounds so needy. Really, 2 texts and a call, and she hasnt replied, so the fourth one, which is somewhat offensive, and shows you are stalking ehr facebook page is supposed to work???

Correct me if I am wrong, but would you want your girlfriend to cheat on you? I wouldn't.

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Def don't text her that. In fact, don't text her @ all. There's not much you can say in a text to swing her around. She's probably enjoying the holidays with her bf so she has no reason to bother splitting her time with someone else. Plus she knows she can she can hit u up @ any time later and you're going to respond. This is why its very important to build as strong of a connection and attraction as possible when you first meet in person. That rapport is difficult to build with a girl through text messaging, especially if you're not in close proximity for a while (because you can't setup a physical date) and more so if shes a 10 with plenty options. Also, when dealing with hotter girls who do have plenty of options, I've personally found more success in not planning a meeting more than a couple days ahead. They tend to get flaky if there's only text communication for longer than 2 days or so (just my personal experience. Or maybe my texts are just boring)

Anyways all you can really do is posts DHV statuses on facebook, which can actually work surprisingly well if other girls are liking and commenting. I think the best thing would be to simply put her on the back burner and hit the next button. The best thing you can do is nothing at this point. If she contacts you then great.

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And iv got lunch

from the B to the L to the whatever it may be....what's up my nig-nog?

listen,text her something to make her laugh,and respond,something like this:


you:i'm naked!

her:wtf?

you:i cant find my pants! do you have them?

her:what?NO! XD

you:come on! i know you have them! i woke up in your doorway without any pants,and a note saying"if i cant have you,then no one can" it seems legit!


her:blah blah blah....

got it?

from here,tell her that you are going to be(wherever)later,and if she wanna jump to say hey....

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What?

wait...what?

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In sorry but idk what your talking about man